Ruth Harley
@ruthh.bsky.social
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Vicar in Newcastle. PhD student at York St John: feminist ecclesiology and women's vocations. Apparently I'm "surprisingly orthodox"!
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I'm sure there will be options more local to you, but if you fancied doing a (not too massive) blanket, Newcastle Women's Street Watch which is based in my parish is always looking for them to give out to vulnerable women in difficult situations.
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I had to have it pointed out to me by a more experienced academic that I don't actually have to go along with that implicit 'patriarchy as default, feminism as niche' model. It's so pervasive. (And the same for black theology, queer theology, etc).
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Another thing that does not help with this is the (explicit or implicit) idea of canon. Eg. there is an expectation that I should have at least a passing familiarity with Barth, but no corresponding expectation that a Barth scholar should have even heard of Rosemary Radford Ruether.
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We get a certain amount of nostalgia about the church youth group (more than half my congregation met their spouse there!). But it's the stripping away of universal statutory provision that people are really fired up about. (I do sympathise, of course, with your frustration with lack of volunteers.)
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Whereas here the sites of what was once the youth clubs (and the pubs, and the social clubs, etc) sit derelict, as a constant reminder of what has been lost or taken away. So even people who don't remember them know the stories. Which makes for a very different context, I agree.
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That's a very different experience from what I see and hear here (also on the bottom 1% of the deprivation index). Which I suppose just goes to show the particularity of communities, even when they look similar on paper, and the importance of knowing our own patch.
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I just think "if people really cared about the loss of essential statutory services they'd volunteer to try to fill the gap" is a really unhelpful take, especially in communities where everyone is already stretched to breaking point and beyond.
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I think these are different issues. The kind of universal access, open every night, staffed by highly skilled professionals, core community infrastructure which the article is describing isn't replicable through volunteers and donations. (Not to say volunteer led youth groups don't matter, but...)
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I don't believe that "few seem to care" about the near-annihilation of youth clubs. It's one of the issues I hear people caring about passionately every day. I can believe that few with the political power to effect large-scale change care enough to use it. But many people care very deeply indeed.
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Yes. I arrived as a new incumbent, encountered a legal situation I had no idea about, and knew where to look stuff up and who to call for advice. So I think my training did exactly what it was supposed to do.
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For instance, I learned a huge amount about churchyards in curacy, which I have no need for now (no churchyards here) but have had to give myself a crash course in leases and licence agreements, and also building demolition. You couldn't possibly cover it all in IME, and nobody needs to know it all.
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Yes, surprisingly little specific training, but the principle of "if in doubt consult the Registrar and/or Archdeacon" was firmly drilled into us. Which, given the breadth and complexity of what we encounter, is probably the most useful thing to remember.
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5th Harvest Festival in a week (2 churches, 3 schools) and another overflowing basket of thankfulness. #TinyJoys
A piece of flipchart paper with a drawing of a basket into which people have stuck paper fruit with things written/drawn on them. At the top there is bubble writing which says "thank you God".
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Inspired and encouraged by the @watch-notequalyet.bsky.social AGM this morning - celebrating what has been achieved and gearing up for what is still to do.

Now looking forward to the #NotEqualYet Roadshow, coming to Newcastle in a couple of weeks: www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/not-equal-...
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So many expressions of joy from our membership today on the appointment of Bishop Sarah as #ArchbishopofCanterbury
Full of gratitude too for her, taking this on in the face of ongoing misogyny.
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Happy snoozing cats have been happening here, which is very delightful. I think they at least don't mind each other.
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The cat rescue: Daphne is very friendly, but she doesn't like to be picked up.
Daphne: *purr*
A black and white cat being held by her human and looking very relaxed about it.
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My favourite vestry teatowel is the one reserved for drying the eucharistic vessels, which says "a present for someone special... from Alicante". That's right: a holiday souvenir teatowel for Jesus. I love this church so much.
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I have not even started tackling the accumulation of decades of clutter I have inherited in the vestry here. I'd been here more than a month before I realised there was a photocopier! Like most things in the vestry it is strategically covered with a very specific teatowel. There are many teatowels.
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Looks like Daphne and Cassie have decided to be friends (or at least tolerate each other). Very pleased with their progress, less than a week after they were introduced to each other. #TinyJoys
A black and white cat and a calico cat relaxing together in a patch of sunlight.
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Thank you for signing this, it's such an important issue. I'd also love to see some consideration given to weighting LINC funding to the bottom end of the bottom 25%. Perhaps a greater allocation to the bottom 5%? (Full disclosure: that would include both my parishes.)
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Beautiful! Lovely colours.
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🤣 Just one of those 'loony left vicars' you hear about, going round encouraging people to love their neighbour, and other such revolutionary ideas.
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Ah, the 'spurious link to an IRA incident' card. My earliest memory is of an IRA bomb going off at the bottom of our street. But strangely enough it hasn't led me to think legitimising state violence without consequences is a good idea. In fact quite the opposite.