RaiRaiTheRaichu 🔜 HELL
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RaiRaiTheRaichu 🔜 HELL
@rairaitheraichu.zyntaks.ca
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31 y/o They/Them Therian ΘΔ&, furry trash, Homestuck trash, your favorite local fox. SPT/Single Player Tarkov team. Programmer. Musician. Modder of all things. Reverse engineer...er? Check out my ko-fi? ko-fi.com/rairaitheraichu
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hello, im rairai. 30 years old. they/them. fox therian ΘΔ.

i'm a programmer and modder for just about anything that can (and can't) be modded.
i'm familiar with 3d and 2d assets for games and have worked on them for many, many years.
i fucking hate people. i’m under a ridiculous amount of pressure and the spare time i have to dedicate to updating my mods is so minimal it’s embarrassing.

the number of people harassing me to push out releases is actually insane.

my work will be done when it’s done. i’m not holding things back.
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i can’t lie and say in certain ways, i do have friendship decay in the sense that if i’ve been primed to expect a certain level of interaction and someone just Stops putting in effort with no explanation, i’m going to feel the distance.

but yes there are people i’ll always leave my door open to
welp, someone (/nbh) pissed me off so it’s time to sleep. people can be so thoughtless.
i can’t lie and say in certain ways, i do have friendship decay in the sense that if i’ve been primed to expect a certain level of interaction and someone just Stops putting in effort with no explanation, i’m going to feel the distance.

but yes there are people i’ll always leave my door open to
you never know what your friends are going through. be a positive influence and a source of comfort. don’t add on to their discomforts, stresses, anxiety, and negativities.
everyone knows we’ve all got enough.
don’t play games. don’t be spiteful. just be there for each other as best you can.
and if a friend does reach out to you after going silent for an hour, a day or two, more
just get back to them as normal, when you can. don’t hold it against them.
if they didn’t want to reply, they wouldn’t have.

show compassion and ease their pressure.
all in all, these threads have been about one thing: be considerate of your friendships.

check in with your friends here and there. even if it takes weeks, be open, say you don’t have the ability to talk at the moment but you’re thinking of them.
don’t let the bridges rot. real friends understand.
also:
don’t fall into the trap of thinking “it only takes a few seconds to type a reply.”

don’t get me wrong; you’re right, and in cases that’s valid. if you’re trying to make plans to hang out and getting ghosted bc “something came up” all the time - of course. that’s not what i’m referring to.
PLEASE do not play petty games with your friends or partners. do not do the whole “they took x minutes/hours to reply, therefore i will take x amount of time to reply”, or test your friendships by seeing how long it takes for them to message you first.
now, you’re obligated to reply more, opening yourself up to more emotionally taxing conversations you aren’t ready for.

replying to you might require replying to others who are also awaiting a response.

it might mean having to sort priorities.

something they lack the ability to do at the time.
what i’m referring to is the thought process behind someone who is overwhelmed, neurodivergent, struggling with burnout, ADHD, OCD, or other mental conditions that make socializing difficult.

a ten second reply is then a commitment to make more replies. dedicating energy they might not have stored.
also:
don’t fall into the trap of thinking “it only takes a few seconds to type a reply.”

don’t get me wrong; you’re right, and in cases that’s valid. if you’re trying to make plans to hang out and getting ghosted bc “something came up” all the time - of course. that’s not what i’m referring to.
PLEASE do not play petty games with your friends or partners. do not do the whole “they took x minutes/hours to reply, therefore i will take x amount of time to reply”, or test your friendships by seeing how long it takes for them to message you first.
i don’t know who needs to hear it, but read it and read it again and when you feel like crashing out, read it a third time
you will kill your friendships this way and it is not because they don’t care, it’s because they will interpret the *change* from your usual behavior as disinterest and drive them away.

don’t play these games. it’s self-destructive.
PLEASE do not play petty games with your friends or partners. do not do the whole “they took x minutes/hours to reply, therefore i will take x amount of time to reply”, or test your friendships by seeing how long it takes for them to message you first.
zero idea why this person has the following they do, tbh.
i sent a message months ago about something they’d post from time to time, since it was common ground, asking about their interest and what they thought about it and i got hit with an “uhm actually if you paid attention to my posts about it then you should already k-“

and after that, i checked out.
had to unfollow an account bc they’d always be posting these interaction bait-type things (“ask me anything!”) etc and every time someone sends them something it’s always the most passive aggressive or rude or stuck up response

why ask for attention and be a dick to people who give it? like DAMN
(nsfw) sometimes, the less context, the better.
found out Sam Rivers (limp bizkit bass player) passed away the other day

that actually really upsets me, a lot
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today is definitely a struggle with energy n motivation

depressed and self-esteem could not be lower rn.
honestly, with how insane people are, i almost just want to delete this post lol