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BlackCharmie🧁🏳️‍🌈
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30✨ ATL📍
Boy Mom💙
Book Lover📚
Anime Hugger📺
PS5 Gaming Noob🕹️👾
💤Napper Extraordinaire 🛌
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Before you slide in my DMs, please note this is how I look like without clothes on.
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💅🏾
December 1, 2025 at 12:25 AM
My new porn collection 😂
What was the point of saved posts again?
December 1, 2025 at 3:26 AM
Ireland, Scotland, South Korea, Cape Town South Africa
What's some places on y'all's traveling bucket list?
December 1, 2025 at 3:25 AM
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Savage! 🎄 Lake Street Church of Evanston creates a nativity scene with gas masks to remind us that Jesus was a refugee.

"This installation is not subtle. The crisis it addresses is not abstract. We ask viewers to confront the disconnect between professed religious or moral values & immigration."
November 30, 2025 at 10:54 PM
December 1, 2025 at 3:05 AM
What they stood outside for 😂
November 30, 2025 at 6:10 PM
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People ask me why it’s so easy for me to be strict and this is why. If you don’t even have the basic adult behavior, there’s no way I can build romance with you. The first time I see one of these basic skills aren’t there, I’m out.
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 5:29 PM
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Too bad a lot of people aren’t standard adults.
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 5:37 PM
Did yall talk about the Target swag bags yet? Cause I wanna do some speculating about it
November 30, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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HELLOOOO
And here’s the deeper truth most women are saying:

We don’t want someone to “take care of us.”

We want someone who creates the stability for us to take care of OURSELVES again.
November 30, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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Big mood lately.
You might be neglecting yourself because:

• money stress kills desire
• exhaustion kills rituals
• responsibility kills softness
• survival kills pampering
• constant vigilance kills relaxation
November 30, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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We’re going on a trip in our favorite rocket ship. Zooming through the skies

Y’all remember this song?
November 30, 2025 at 4:07 PM
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A healed man wants to:
• help you stabilize
• give you space
• hold you when needed
• take weight off your shoulders
• support your transformation
• see you evolve in real time
• be PART of your softening and blooming
November 30, 2025 at 3:20 PM
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You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 3:23 PM
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🙂‍↕️
Healed men think like this:

“I want a woman whose energy I can support so she FLOURISHES with me.”

For the right man, watching you grow is part of the intimacy.
November 30, 2025 at 3:56 PM
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Dropping knowledge to those who want to understand…
You may only THINK it’s “upgraded” because you’ve never been with someone who had the basics.

People with the BASICS feel like luxury when you’ve dated people with NOTHING.
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 3:40 PM
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😮‍💨💨
You might be neglecting yourself because:

• money stress kills desire
• exhaustion kills rituals
• responsibility kills softness
• survival kills pampering
• constant vigilance kills relaxation
November 30, 2025 at 3:48 PM
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Healed men think like this:

“I want a woman whose energy I can support so she FLOURISHES with me.”

For the right man, watching you grow is part of the intimacy.
November 30, 2025 at 3:19 PM
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The misfortune that yes it is…

AND AIN’T! Folks dysfunctional and trauma ridden making these things a high bar from some.
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 3:33 PM
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Seeing my wife chase her dreams is not only inspiring but also sexy.
Healed men think like this:

“I want a woman whose energy I can support so she FLOURISHES with me.”

For the right man, watching you grow is part of the intimacy.
November 30, 2025 at 3:31 PM
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You might be neglecting yourself because:

• money stress kills desire
• exhaustion kills rituals
• responsibility kills softness
• survival kills pampering
• constant vigilance kills relaxation
November 30, 2025 at 2:59 PM
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Fellas/Mascs

If your question ever is “how do I provide/show up for them” take a look at this shortlist. Our commitment to them should ease these areas:
You might be neglecting yourself because:

• money stress kills desire
• exhaustion kills rituals
• responsibility kills softness
• survival kills pampering
• constant vigilance kills relaxation
November 30, 2025 at 3:26 PM
You may only THINK it’s “upgraded” because you’ve never been with someone who had the basics.

People with the BASICS feel like luxury when you’ve dated people with NOTHING.
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 3:24 PM
You’re asking for:
• emotional maturity
• stability
• consistency
• communication
• financial responsibility
• support
• intention
• safety

That’s standard adult behavior.
November 30, 2025 at 3:23 PM
A healed man wants to:
• help you stabilize
• give you space
• hold you when needed
• take weight off your shoulders
• support your transformation
• see you evolve in real time
• be PART of your softening and blooming
November 30, 2025 at 3:20 PM