Blake (Pandora Blake)
@pandorablake.bsky.social
Porn performer, sex worker, queer film-maker, spanking switch. Writer, campaigner, and union organiser. they/them
In Jungian psychology, the ‘shadow self’ is the parts of yourself that you’ve tried to disown and suppress. What does this conceptualisation have to teach us about our sexual selves?
December 7, 2025 at 9:29 PM
In Jungian psychology, the ‘shadow self’ is the parts of yourself that you’ve tried to disown and suppress. What does this conceptualisation have to teach us about our sexual selves?
Jamie Fenrir has fled in the heat of the skirmish, leaving his brothers to die – and there is nothing his Queen hates more than a coward.
December 6, 2025 at 4:29 PM
Jamie Fenrir has fled in the heat of the skirmish, leaving his brothers to die – and there is nothing his Queen hates more than a coward.
If you were taught to be good and compliant - and most of us were! - you may have learned early on how to bury your rebellious urges deep down.
December 5, 2025 at 5:31 PM
If you were taught to be good and compliant - and most of us were! - you may have learned early on how to bury your rebellious urges deep down.
True warriors neither whine nor falter - not in the heat of the battle, and not at the end of the Queen’s leather belt. But is Jamie Fenrir ready to regain his chance of a seat in Valhalla?
December 4, 2025 at 6:30 PM
True warriors neither whine nor falter - not in the heat of the battle, and not at the end of the Queen’s leather belt. But is Jamie Fenrir ready to regain his chance of a seat in Valhalla?
The fantasies that turn us on most intensely are often charged by exactly the emotions, desires and impulses we've learned to repress.
December 3, 2025 at 6:22 PM
The fantasies that turn us on most intensely are often charged by exactly the emotions, desires and impulses we've learned to repress.
You don’t become Queen of the Iceni without tanning a few hides, and this week it’s Jamie Fenrir’s turn over the stile!
December 2, 2025 at 5:30 PM
You don’t become Queen of the Iceni without tanning a few hides, and this week it’s Jamie Fenrir’s turn over the stile!
I often discuss the “shadow sexuality”, but it’s not an idea I’ve encountered outside of my own work. So what exactly do I mean by it?
December 1, 2025 at 9:31 PM
I often discuss the “shadow sexuality”, but it’s not an idea I’ve encountered outside of my own work. So what exactly do I mean by it?
The intimacy of a small group container is profound. When even half a dozen people show up with vulnerability and authenticity, magic happens. People feel seen.
November 30, 2025 at 9:29 PM
The intimacy of a small group container is profound. When even half a dozen people show up with vulnerability and authenticity, magic happens. People feel seen.
This cheeky headmistress has finally earned herself another spanking from the School Inspector - but she’s still not entirely satisfied…
November 29, 2025 at 4:50 PM
This cheeky headmistress has finally earned herself another spanking from the School Inspector - but she’s still not entirely satisfied…
People want kink education. Not just safety basics, but the deep stuff: the psychology, the complexity, the ethics, the WHY.
November 28, 2025 at 5:30 PM
People want kink education. Not just safety basics, but the deep stuff: the psychology, the complexity, the ethics, the WHY.
We begin today, 5pm GMT.
If you're tired of fighting your desires, if guilt and anxiety are exhausting you, if you're ready to understand instead of suppress - join us.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience. Only $33. Last chance to enroll before we start.
If you're tired of fighting your desires, if guilt and anxiety are exhausting you, if you're ready to understand instead of suppress - join us.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience. Only $33. Last chance to enroll before we start.
November 28, 2025 at 8:27 AM
We begin today, 5pm GMT.
If you're tired of fighting your desires, if guilt and anxiety are exhausting you, if you're ready to understand instead of suppress - join us.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience. Only $33. Last chance to enroll before we start.
If you're tired of fighting your desires, if guilt and anxiety are exhausting you, if you're ready to understand instead of suppress - join us.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience. Only $33. Last chance to enroll before we start.
Headmistress Blake has a mind to give someone a good hard seeing-to with a wooden paddle…but this time, it’s herself!
November 27, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Headmistress Blake has a mind to give someone a good hard seeing-to with a wooden paddle…but this time, it’s herself!
✨ 5 live calls
🌊 Somatic grounding practices
🔮 Live Tarot readings
🔥 Winter Solstice ritual
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts TOMORROW.
🌊 Somatic grounding practices
🔮 Live Tarot readings
🔥 Winter Solstice ritual
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts TOMORROW.
November 27, 2025 at 6:30 PM
✨ 5 live calls
🌊 Somatic grounding practices
🔮 Live Tarot readings
🔥 Winter Solstice ritual
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts TOMORROW.
🌊 Somatic grounding practices
🔮 Live Tarot readings
🔥 Winter Solstice ritual
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts TOMORROW.
"I actually told my husband about my kinks this evening and it went really well. I wanted to say thankyou because exploring stuff through your workshops gave me the confidence to talk to him about it! Your course has been brilliant and it's helped me so much"
This is what we do.
This is what we do.
November 27, 2025 at 4:30 PM
"I actually told my husband about my kinks this evening and it went really well. I wanted to say thankyou because exploring stuff through your workshops gave me the confidence to talk to him about it! Your course has been brilliant and it's helped me so much"
This is what we do.
This is what we do.
Kinky Is Beautiful was such a success that I'm running a longer, deeper version - launching this Friday. I'm equal parts wildly excited and absolutely terrified, which means I'm doing something that matters!
November 26, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Kinky Is Beautiful was such a success that I'm running a longer, deeper version - launching this Friday. I'm equal parts wildly excited and absolutely terrified, which means I'm doing something that matters!
I spent years thinking my kinky desires meant I was broken.
Turns out they were showing me the path to healing.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 2 days. Are you ready to meet all of yourself?
Turns out they were showing me the path to healing.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 2 days. Are you ready to meet all of yourself?
November 26, 2025 at 6:13 PM
I spent years thinking my kinky desires meant I was broken.
Turns out they were showing me the path to healing.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 2 days. Are you ready to meet all of yourself?
Turns out they were showing me the path to healing.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 2 days. Are you ready to meet all of yourself?
"Extremely similar to therapy sessions I've been through, except specifically focused around the kink side that often doesn't feel safe to talk about openly with a regular therapist."
This is what I offer. A safe place to do the deep work we can't do elsewhere.
This is what I offer. A safe place to do the deep work we can't do elsewhere.
November 26, 2025 at 4:43 PM
"Extremely similar to therapy sessions I've been through, except specifically focused around the kink side that often doesn't feel safe to talk about openly with a regular therapist."
This is what I offer. A safe place to do the deep work we can't do elsewhere.
This is what I offer. A safe place to do the deep work we can't do elsewhere.
All this talk of new beginnings and higher selves has left me itching to get my hands on some beautiful bottoms!
November 26, 2025 at 1:32 PM
All this talk of new beginnings and higher selves has left me itching to get my hands on some beautiful bottoms!
If you’re in the mood to get thrown over my lap, I’ve got a bit of space in my diary just for you…
November 25, 2025 at 9:50 PM
If you’re in the mood to get thrown over my lap, I’ve got a bit of space in my diary just for you…
"I always thought it was very minority, but I'm realizing that everybody has got erotic cornerstones."
The feedback from my last program made me cry. You're not alone. You're not broken.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts this Friday.
The feedback from my last program made me cry. You're not alone. You're not broken.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts this Friday.
November 25, 2025 at 8:28 PM
"I always thought it was very minority, but I'm realizing that everybody has got erotic cornerstones."
The feedback from my last program made me cry. You're not alone. You're not broken.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts this Friday.
The feedback from my last program made me cry. You're not alone. You're not broken.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts this Friday.
What if your "shameful" fantasies are actually maps showing you what parts of you need attention?
The Erotic Alchemy Experience: 5 live calls, shadow work, Tarot, somatic practices, Winter Solstice ritual.
Starting this Friday. Only $33.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience: 5 live calls, shadow work, Tarot, somatic practices, Winter Solstice ritual.
Starting this Friday. Only $33.
November 25, 2025 at 5:30 PM
What if your "shameful" fantasies are actually maps showing you what parts of you need attention?
The Erotic Alchemy Experience: 5 live calls, shadow work, Tarot, somatic practices, Winter Solstice ritual.
Starting this Friday. Only $33.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience: 5 live calls, shadow work, Tarot, somatic practices, Winter Solstice ritual.
Starting this Friday. Only $33.
Our favourite naughty headmistress makes sure the Peeping Toms get a good view of her bottom in her tight pencil skirt as she gives herself a good hard paddling.
November 25, 2025 at 3:56 PM
Our favourite naughty headmistress makes sure the Peeping Toms get a good view of her bottom in her tight pencil skirt as she gives herself a good hard paddling.
Spanking can lead us into something like an altered state of consciousness. Done well it’s an intense psychological experience, practically a drug in its own right.
November 25, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Spanking can lead us into something like an altered state of consciousness. Done well it’s an intense psychological experience, practically a drug in its own right.
I'm still buzzing from Kinky is Beautiful, and I owe you all a proper debrief.
November 24, 2025 at 11:18 PM
I'm still buzzing from Kinky is Beautiful, and I owe you all a proper debrief.
Your sexual shadow doesn't disappear when you try to repress it. It just spills out in vulnerable moments.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 5 days. 21 days to befriend your taboo turn-ons and turn your sexual shadow into gold ⚜️
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 5 days. 21 days to befriend your taboo turn-ons and turn your sexual shadow into gold ⚜️
November 24, 2025 at 8:27 PM
Your sexual shadow doesn't disappear when you try to repress it. It just spills out in vulnerable moments.
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 5 days. 21 days to befriend your taboo turn-ons and turn your sexual shadow into gold ⚜️
The Erotic Alchemy Experience starts in 5 days. 21 days to befriend your taboo turn-ons and turn your sexual shadow into gold ⚜️