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Nikki
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A little whimsical, a little odd, unapologetically me, a beautiful soul who appreciates what this earth has provided us. I love my cozy life, my spouse, kids, pets, home, and garden. 🌈 ally, 🔵 in Oklahoma.
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If you are on the struggle bus like me during these tumultuous times—don’t forget to take care of yourself. It’s okay that it is hard to watch and process. Because if it were easy to see, you wouldn’t recognize yourself anymore. That’s not weakness—it’s the most precious strength.
Representative Stephanie Bice is showing the fact that she can’t be bothered to read emails sent to her AND that she’s just a lil ol racist white lady. I plan to send this email to every single subject option she has. Daily. Until I get a satisfactory response.
Today marks one year without my soul cat, LucyFur. She took a piece of me with her a year ago. Losing her was harder than losing my parents (one to death and the other to going NC). She was there through all of it. Every now and again I catch a glimpse of her in the corner of my eye, though.
If someone could explain to me how TikTok is a national security risk but cabinet heads and the VP talking war plans over signal on personal cell phones while accidentally adding a reporter and not noticing once isn’t that would be great.
I stayed up to watch it 💜

I released a lot of things last night and feel like I need to recharge today, physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally…all of them 🤣
Knock on the door. Sales man starts in trying to sell me windows. In this economy 💀

Me: “I’m going to interrupt you and tell you no thank you”

Him: “Ma’am is the owner of the house in?”

Me: “You didn’t really think that would work did you”
Dancing and smoke cleansing —some good ol incense 💜
Even better, confirmed ICE protest in this conservative town 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Just drove past the high school in my conservative Oklahoma town (there is a church on literally every corner 🙄).

There is a group of 100+ students with signs in English & Spanish —did not have time to catch what they said—but I did hear them chanting “F*ck Donald Trump!”

I needed that today. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Watching Trump’s and Vance’s narcissistic abuse of Zelensky was hard.

Zelensky is being punished for having the audacity to not bend to Trump’s will. Full stop.

We are about to punish Ukraine for wanting sovereignty over themselves.

My 10 year old has more emotional maturity than these guys.
Same.

But in Oklahoma, I know most of the people I encounter on a daily basis did vote 🍊. It’s horrifying. We are steadily trying to rebuild that trusted circle because how can you ever get past that this is what they wanted 🤯😭
Healing is messy. You will uncover things you thought long healed that need attention. It just means you are building trust with yourself to honor and walk through those things. Grieving is messy. Trauma is messy. There is no “right way”. There is just your way. You are worthy of this work.
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What the actual fuck?! America, it’s time to rise. When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty!
If you’re in a red state, call your reps. They are trying to pass through some shady 💩. Especially if you’re in OK. They are trying to end no-fault divorce & bring in covenant marriage 😵‍💫. Call today!!!

And also call and annoy your federal reps. Let them know you are informed and disapprove.
While discussing dinner options my husband says, “We could work together to-”

🤣. Sir. I’m going to stop you right there. That sounds like way more effort than I’m willing to currently put in.

Great news is that there are pizzas in the freezer 😉

I did make homemade soup for lunch though.
After a two year hiatus, gardening is back 💜. My mom passed in 2023 when garden prep would normally start & it just didn’t happen.

The year beyond that my dad went wack-a-doodle & after 8 months of that trauma, I didn’t have a 2024 garden season in me.

The garden is making a 2025 comeback 💜💜
When you value and honor yourself—there isn’t an argument in the world that could convince you that you aren’t worth the effort of being treated with dignity and respect.

It astounds me how quickly people revert to suggesting you just abandon yourself as a means to “fix a relationship”.
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He really is going page by page through Hitlers playbook
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Lil update: Y’all, this Yule inspired cleaner smells AMAZING!!! Slight vinegar on the tail end but mostly tree and orange. This lil potion brewed around 4 weeks. Diluted with moon water from the first full moon of the year. Looking forward to infusing my home with her magick. #WitchSky