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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 3h

I find the word cunt to be stronger, albeit a bit provoking maybe, but a far better and more suitable word.

I would very much like to hear what other dominant women think about this issue. Am I way off here?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 3h

I now prefer and demand that he use the word "cunt" instead. Why?

As a dominant woman, I find the word vagina, which actually in old Latin means sheath or scabbard (referring to the male "sword") to be a bit sexist. The term pussy implies something that is meek, inferior and tameable.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 3h

Yesterday evening my husband and I were discussing a few specifics within our #FLR protocol and house rules. As a result of this I'm now disallowing use of the words "pussy" and "vagina" (Norwegian equivalents) when my husband addresses my divine body-part.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 8h

I'm doing research and trying to get in contact with other Dom owners prior to testing in on my husband when he's released from his 100 day chastity period November 6th.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 8h

A while ago I purchased an Edge-O-Matic davice from Maustec. So far I've only prepared it by attaching to sensor tube to the inflatable buttplug and installed latest FW. Does anyone know what sensitivity settings works best? Or is it a 100% individual calibration?

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

Please let me know if you you want something taken down. I'm also happy to update posts with proper source information.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

OK, I have a confession to make. Someone asked me where I get the photos and videos from. Only a few of the photos are our own (some of @rohosub.bsky.social, none of me). The rest of the material is from around the Internet and used to illustrate what I'm talking about.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

I think he, my friend's husband Robert, finally understood what dominance, submission, #Femdom and female-led relationships is all about. Afterwards she told my husband to drop his pants and show Robert his #chastitycage and piercing.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

To demonstrate the level of obedience my husband has towards me I gave my friend permission to order him around. Seeing her husband Robert's facial expression when she ordered @rohosub.bsky.social to get down on his knees and sniff my crotch was incredible.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

I'm actually posting this before going to bed 😂.
My friend's husband, Robert, just left our house wearing a #chastitycage (a #Bon4M) for the first time in his life. They are borrowing some of our extras. It was hilarious watching my husband helping him put it on.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 4d

Oh what a wonderful success last night was!
My husband, @rohosub.bsky.social, had prepared and made a wonderful 4 course dinner, served to perfection. The four of us discussed #FLR, male #chastity, #BDSM and even #cuckolding topics the entire evening and most of the night.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

Just Received another question:
Do you wear the key to you husband's #chastitycage visible for all to see?

As often as I can. with my line of work it isn't always possible or practical. When I'm not wearing it as a pendant, I wear it on the left side of my bra. Keeping it close to my heart.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

Both my husband and I strongly believe that women are superior when it comes leading an managing heterosexual relationships. We've chosen a female-led relationship together. It's a joint consensual decision. He obeys and worships me, he submits to me and accepts that I always have the final word.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

Some people are obviously still living in the stone age. My husband is physically much bigger and stronger than me. He is also a senior manager of a large company. He knows how to be a leader and to be in charge. If he wanted to he could easily physically handle and dominate me.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

For now I've chosen to always accept chat requests, but some of the ones I receive are quite hateful and negative towards strong self assured women like me. Today someone told me that I'm dominant and in charge of our relationship only and simply because my husband can't "handle" me right.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

I would love to contribute, but I'm living in Norway and my written English probably isn't good enough for that kind of writing.

However I do have almost 30 years of experience when it comes to enforcing male chastity in a female-led relationship. I'd love to see that aspect covered in your blog.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

This was an interesting read but it lacks quite a bit when it comes to the use of male #chastity in relationships. I'm really looking forward to the next parts...

KINK3D Official @kink3d.com · 5d

New blog post is live! This is the first in a series of posts we'll be doing to explain all things chastity. Think of it like Chastity 102.

kink3d.com/blogs/update...

Meanwhile, hope everyone's Locktober is going well! We're 1/3 of the way there — that horny meter should be powering up by now 😈

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 5d

This will be fun, @rohosub.bsky.social . You'll see.
I'm looking forward to watching Robert's facial expression when you show him your #chastitycage and your PA-piercing 😈.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

My record with my husband is 6 ruined orgasms in a row. The 6th was a completely dry one where he whimpered and virtually begged me to stop.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

Tip to other dominant women:
Did you know that most men don't get a normal refractory period after a properly #ruinedorgasm? His libido stays in overdrive and you can start stimulation of his penis almost immediately after obtaining his first load. Nice to know if you want to drain him completely.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

I never tire of watching the effect my scents have on my husband. The combination of scents and humiliation makes my husband's poor locked up penis start dripping "chastity tears" of precum in a matter of seconds.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

Every female-led household should have a decent piece of furniture for #queening or #facesitting. It makes receiving oral sex and enjoying my husband's eager tongue so much easier. @vanessachaland.bsky.social (i'm not soponsored) makes and sells this kind of furniture. Mine is built by my husband.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

Earlier this week I received a question: Do you use any kind of specialized furniture in your play?

Not much.
A female-led relationship doesn't require much in that regard.

* 10 restraining points concealed in our bed
* 1 Restraining point in my husband's "cornertime" corner
* 1 Queening chair

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

She got to study my husband's cage in detail. His piercing, how to put the #chastitycage on etc. She also got to witness both the level of control I have over my husband and his obedience. And I let her see first hand how I treat him if or when he misbehaves. It was a great evening.

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Mistress DragonFly @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social · 6d

Hi guys. Just thought I'd give you an update after we had my friend visiting our home last Saturday.
My friend now knows everything about our #FLR lifestyle and is very fascinated. She wants to adopt several aspects of it in her own marriage. I've invited both her and her hubby tomorrow.

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