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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 2h

As a Leo, you play with me multiple times…you’re going to feel it in my silence.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 5h

I need to know which pasta you liked better

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 9h

Currently watching

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 11h

I did it to keep the non bathing far left out of my comments

KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 11h

Notice how they realize they are outnumbered at a certain point in the video.

It goes from acting tough to being scared.

Keep doing this to them.

KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 21h

It’s what he deserves

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 21h

It’s what he deserves

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 22h

Watching The Parkers.

God I forgot how much I loved this show.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

I stayed in

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Watching this documentary called “The Perfect Neighbor”

Already I hate this lady

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Should I go out or stay in ? Questions questions

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Watching news reports about Americans traveling to Mexico (crossing the border) to shop for their essentials because everything is expensive in the USA.

A lot of white Americans who voted for trump.

This is bad. This will drive up the cost of goods for actual Mexican citizens.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

I know what you did last summer was disappointing.

The killer what WHO?!?

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Watching “I know what you did last summer” 2025 version

At least they called the cops!

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Better with age?

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Today is the perfect brunch weather in NYC

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

My short bald king <3

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

My partner understands me and loves me unconditionally.

They respect my personal space and don’t try to control my identity.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

Anyway, I’m simply jotting down my thoughts. Perhaps this might be helpful to someone who’s currently going through something similar.

I managed to seek help through therapy, and I’m now in a loving relationship.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

He knew this and would use it against me by holding me and when i would scream out to let go, he would then blame me for yelling at him.

This, i realize now, was a tactic often used to break you down.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

There were moments when things got intense.

I was raped a few years before dating them after a drunken night out. And i have this thing where i dont like people to hold me and not let me go.

It’s claustrophobic for me. I get a panic attack.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

I did not have the tools to break away from the cycle because all i wanted to do was make things work.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

When the goalposts move, you start to feel crazy. And then when you push back (after giving in) it’s too late.

You are deemed like the crazy one. The one who is difficult. The one who is “hard to love”

The one who is the reason why the relationship is not working.

But i did not know how to end

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

My ex wanted me to be someone i am not and tried to change things about me.

They were subtle: from how i joked, to wanting to go through my phone “if you have nothing to hide why can’t i see it?”

The minute you give to ANYTHING, the goalposts start to move.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

I just had this come up in my brain and i started thinking about control and how it manifests in people.

Sometimes it’s intentional and sometimes people do not know they are doing it. And regardless, you should always know the difference between compromise and control.

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KIDANDTHECITY @kidandthecity.bsky.social · 1d

My ex: i would love for you to be more like this

Me: ummm no?

My ex: if you loved me, you would do it because its important to me

Me: ummm no.

My ex: you make loving you difficult

Me: thats not my problem, thats yours.

When someone tries to control you, you will notice it

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