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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 14h

Maturing is realizing that overplaying your part in people's life to prove your loyalty and love is only proving how much you don’t value yourself. Deal with people how they deal with you. Rarely, barely, and accordingly.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 14h

I’d be lying if I said I didn't get in my feelings about the way people treat me, but I’ve learned it's life and everybody isn’t going to move like me, everybody not going to show the same love that I show... but for that reason alone I know I’ll be okay.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 1d

I'm enjoying me, rn. I'm hurting, I'm healing. I'm evolving, i'm releasing. I'm setting boundaries & staying firm. Im being consistent w the things I need & want. I'm getting to know me all over again.

It's RAW & TRANSPARENT, I'm loving every minute of it. I love this for me!

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 1d

I sat and watched everybody pick who they wanted to over me, and I still remained the same simply because I knew when I started picking ME over EVERYTHING it was a wrap and there’s no coming back from that! you gotta leave people to the one's they think so highly of.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

Baby I done started over so many times idc about losing nothing or nobody! I promise you I'll be ok! When you’re at a place where you didn't have nobody but God it shows you how resilient you are. I'll start over from scratch any day and end up with more than what I lost. Losing you won’t scare me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

I think I won't date again for a while, l just hate being so in love and getting so comfortable with someone then have to move on. They know my body, my secrets & all about me and I don't like that. Love is actually scary fr. You really don't know what's real & what's fake anymore, I'm cool off it.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 4d

I just don't want to be around a lot of people no more. I talk to who I wanna talk to and that's it. This year has taught me NOT to be cool with everybody. I DONT like everybody in my space now. People really do be weird, negative, messy, and fake. I stay to myself and go about my business and life.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 4d

A lot of men end up old and lonely asl cause they never did right by the woman God put in their lives for a reason. Keep doing people dirty thinking everyone is replaceable you'll see later in life and regret it fr

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

If I choose to cut you out of my life over something "simple" understand that it wasn't the situation, it is just your last strike. Sometimes it's not what you do, it's how tired I am of going through the same things and seeing it doesn’t bother you that it’s hurting me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

Love isn't enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me.
I need to know you won't give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I’ll be the softest version of me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

I realized I had to let him go, he was unbothered watching me lose my mind over his choices and lies. I lost myself trying to fight for something that was dead to begin with, all I ended up doing was draining myself. The more chances you give someone the more they will take advantage of you.

Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

Once I mentally separate myself from you, you'll never get the same me again! I'm somebody you gotta do right the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection! Bc we both grown and it's hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play in my face…

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 6d

Sometimes you're just not that girl a 🥷🏽 wanna change for and THAT'S OKAY! Life goes on and you meet new people. Stop tryna force it and focus on YOU.
You'll drive yourself crazy tryna figure out why he refuses to speak your love language. What's for you will flow so naturally and effortlessly.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 6d

When someone does you dirty and you still love them that sht eats you up! Especially when they play the victim. It doesn't matter how much you try to move on. It still fcks w you. When you have a good heart, loyalty means everything to you. Getting fcked over will put you in a different head space!

Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 7d

don't play both sides with me, on my soul you don't have to spare me, no matter what our bond is. Go with yo move and make sure it's your best cause ain't no coming back no matter what the situation is!! friendships, relationships,
family, it’s dead 😴 that door will be closed

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 7d

some people will never see any wrong in their actions, you could be crying and heartbroken trying to explain to them the pain they've caused you and they'll either turn it on you or sit there confused bc they don't think they did anything wrong, nothing you say will matter just leave those ppl alone

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 9d

Never understood how a man can lay up w different women. Touch em, hug em, grab em the same… no woman is the same… I don't get it? Bc I could never. Once I like you that's what I want… the way you smell, feel, touch me, etc… I can’t do two, three, multiple men. That’s just not me and never will be.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 9d

I just realized that I’m the problem, I’ve allowed people to do me any kind of way and I just love them hard anyways and I tend to choose people who aren't willing to put me first and hold onto them. I try to pour everything I have in me into them without them giving the same in return 😔 never again