Ogden
Winnicott
And sometimes Bion
For, when the power of imparting joy
Is equal to the will, no human soul
Requires no other Heaven
For, when the power of imparting joy
Is equal to the will, no human soul
Requires no other Heaven
Emotional freedom, the integrity and special quality of one’s own work - these are not first things, but final things. Only the patient and diligent, as well as the inspired, get there.
Emotional freedom, the integrity and special quality of one’s own work - these are not first things, but final things. Only the patient and diligent, as well as the inspired, get there.
We make out of the quarrel with others, rhetoric, but of the quarrel with ourselves, poetry. Unlike the rhetoricians, who get a confident voice from remembering the crowd they have won or may win, we sing amid our uncertainty.
We make out of the quarrel with others, rhetoric, but of the quarrel with ourselves, poetry. Unlike the rhetoricians, who get a confident voice from remembering the crowd they have won or may win, we sing amid our uncertainty.
“No poet ever wrote a poem to dishonor life, to compromise high ideals, to scorn religious views, to demean hope or gratitude, to argue against tenderness, to place rancor before love, or to praise littleness of soul. Not one. Not ever.
“No poet ever wrote a poem to dishonor life, to compromise high ideals, to scorn religious views, to demean hope or gratitude, to argue against tenderness, to place rancor before love, or to praise littleness of soul. Not one. Not ever.
“You can never read enough.”
“Modesty will give you vigor. It keeps open the gates of prayer, through which the mystery of of the poem streams, on its search for form.”
“You can never read enough.”
“Modesty will give you vigor. It keeps open the gates of prayer, through which the mystery of of the poem streams, on its search for form.”
“When you read the poem thoughtfully, you are a scholar. When you read the poem thoughtfully and feelingly, you are a scholar and a participant.”
“When you read the poem thoughtfully, you are a scholar. When you read the poem thoughtfully and feelingly, you are a scholar and a participant.”
Walter Savage Landor
I strove with none; for none was worth my strife,
Nature I loved, and next to Nature, Art;
I warmed both hands before the fire of life,
It sinks, and I am ready to depart.
Walter Savage Landor
I strove with none; for none was worth my strife,
Nature I loved, and next to Nature, Art;
I warmed both hands before the fire of life,
It sinks, and I am ready to depart.
They have their differences but they seem to enjoy living (or rather, being alive). They seem to be enjoy their lives. At least from the outside
Since you don’t know them, let me assume that they are not the toxic or naive
They have their differences but they seem to enjoy living (or rather, being alive). They seem to be enjoy their lives. At least from the outside
Since you don’t know them, let me assume that they are not the toxic or naive
“Listen,
the heart-shackles are not, as you think,
death, illness, pain,
unrequited hope, not loneliness, but
lassitude, rue, vainglory, fear, anxiety,
selfishness.”
“Listen,
the heart-shackles are not, as you think,
death, illness, pain,
unrequited hope, not loneliness, but
lassitude, rue, vainglory, fear, anxiety,
selfishness.”
“It is during that return, that pause, that Sisyphus interests me…I see that man going back down with a heavy yet measured step toward the torment of which he will never know the end. That hour like a breathing-space which returns as surely as his suffering,
“It is during that return, that pause, that Sisyphus interests me…I see that man going back down with a heavy yet measured step toward the torment of which he will never know the end. That hour like a breathing-space which returns as surely as his suffering,
But damn I get fucking disappointed when a book doesn’t come in the latest cover that I was expecting 😅
But damn I get fucking disappointed when a book doesn’t come in the latest cover that I was expecting 😅
“There will always be stronger, faster guys out there who try to make my life miserable. But I try to counter that with never staying in the same spot for more than a second…
The point of conditioning is that it allows you to do whatever your best thing is all the time, not just in
“There will always be stronger, faster guys out there who try to make my life miserable. But I try to counter that with never staying in the same spot for more than a second…
The point of conditioning is that it allows you to do whatever your best thing is all the time, not just in
You can be so busy trying to absorb lessons early in your career that you don’t realize it when you start to meet the moment…You’re no longer struggling for answers and hoping for the best. Now you believe. You are supposed to be successful.
You can be so busy trying to absorb lessons early in your career that you don’t realize it when you start to meet the moment…You’re no longer struggling for answers and hoping for the best. Now you believe. You are supposed to be successful.
“Man finds he has two halves to his existence - leisure and occupation - and from these separate considerations he now looks upon the world. In leisure he remembers radiance; in labor he looks for results.
“Man finds he has two halves to his existence - leisure and occupation - and from these separate considerations he now looks upon the world. In leisure he remembers radiance; in labor he looks for results.
Backwards I see in my own days where I sweated through fog with linguists and contenders,
I have no mocking or arguments…I witness and wait.
I believe in you my soul…the other I am must not abase itself to you,
And you must not be abased to the other
Backwards I see in my own days where I sweated through fog with linguists and contenders,
I have no mocking or arguments…I witness and wait.
I believe in you my soul…the other I am must not abase itself to you,
And you must not be abased to the other
“The quality of the [therapeutic] relationship…profoundly influences the quality of the information the therapist uses to make the diagnosis.”
“Good chemistry [of therapeutic alliance] is literally good chemistry.”
“The quality of the [therapeutic] relationship…profoundly influences the quality of the information the therapist uses to make the diagnosis.”
“Good chemistry [of therapeutic alliance] is literally good chemistry.”
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg