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My top three reasons why I believe dating is harder now (continued down below)

1. Unreal Expectations- Couples content is usually faked, planned + shows the happy parts of a relationship, which creates unrealistic expectations on how relationships are supposed to be.
Pictures from my most recent trip to Italy.

📍Amalfi Coast, Italy
My college campus on a late fall night walk….
If a man can love the two blobs of fat on my chest, the he should love the curves and dips of my body, and the fat on my stomach and arms.
My top three reasons why I believe dating is harder now:

3. Red Flags - Little things should not be a deciding factor in a relationship. Make sure it’s a big issue. Like anger issues, commitment problems, etc. A red flag isn’t something such as a forgetting no shoes on the couch, lol. 😂
My top three reasons why I believe dating is harder now:

2. The Ick- I’m sorry, but someone having fun and goofing off bothers you? They’re comfortable enough to be that way with you, embrace it. It shouldn’t make you weirded out to see your partner so happy. I see it all the time in TikToks…
My top three reasons why I believe dating is harder now (continued down below)

1. Unreal Expectations- Couples content is usually faked, planned + shows the happy parts of a relationship, which creates unrealistic expectations on how relationships are supposed to be.