Does lifting a person feel different than some weights? I’d imagine it does. Plus with weights, you do more than one rep, if you lifting your date, you might not have to do more than one “rep”. Well i guess that depends. I’m tired & thinking out loud, don’t mind me.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. It appalls me just how much people ignore boundaries and are cool with scaring people and making them uncomfortable.
Dang. Two things: 1) he couldn’t have come up with “it was lovely to meet you” on his own? and 2) he got rejected using ChatGPT lol. I’d rather get rejected for my own words not someone else’s lol
![As 32-year-old Rich points out, though, "it's not like using ChatGPT guarantees success".
When he met someone in a bar one Friday night and swapped social media handles, he asked AI what his next move should be.
ChatGPT discerned that sending an initial message on Monday midmorning would set the right pace. "Then it gave me some options for what the message could be," says Rich.
"Keep it light, warm, and low-stakes so it reads as genuine interest without urgency," the bot advised. "Something like: Hey Sarah, still laughing about [tiny shared moment/reference if you've got one] - good to meet you!" Rich went back and forth with ChatGPT until he felt they'd hit upon exactly the right message ("Hey Sarah, it was lovely to meet you") but sadly she never replied, he says. "It's been two weeks now."](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:ugcmot4f3ool6cottht63wx4/bafkreierpoqvjgg5hqx3zhtlfmvrfq3vaakb3h5wppcdzrvs5jh3zr7ce4@jpeg)
