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I'm certain of a few things. I have no idea what I'm doing. I need coffee. Trans rights are human rights. Dogs are perfect angels. #UglyDogs #Leguminati She/Her. IG: houseferngullyart
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Watson is doing well, too. She loves her little brother and has taught him the ways of spinny-butt combat. I just gave her eleventy million kisses.
So that’s why he’s picking up new things so fast! 😬 For real, though - he’s capable of generalizing new skills on his own, and that really astonishes me. Like, “place” - he decided on his own that also works in the living room, outside, anywhere there’s a mat. He’s going to be SO MUCH FUN.
Clemenza is growing every day! He’s the sweetest little guy, so very smart and eager to learn, incredibly snuggly, intuitive and sensitive, and just… he’s a dream.
Oh no.. Kat, I’m so sorry I missed all of this! I’ll boost.
Me too 🥹 and he hugs me!! Stops in the middle of playing to gently climb into my lap and wrap his head around my neck and rest it there for a moment before he runs back to finish playing.
Hi all, quickly popping in to show off this goodest little boy who completed his fourth day of the relaxation protocol* and was still ready to keep going.

*Karen Overall’s program to teach a dog to relax amidst activity. Menza is taking to it like he was born to ace it.
💜 thank you. I’m finding levity in unexpected places, and it helps. Like realizing the email I sent to the funeral director had my husband on CC as his nickname in my phone, “Nachoooooooo”. I’m a professional, can you tell?
This is so true, yes. Unfortunately, there’s no other way to describe this situation. She was a hoarder her whole life, but it’s so much worse now and I think she was deeply depressed and unable to deal with it, so it snowballed out of control.
Blegh. Yeah. True. I have two attorneys I trust who specialize in this, I just didn’t want to use them at all if I could avoid it. Her attorney hasn’t worked with her since 2006 and no longer has any of her paperwork, so that sucks.
So… if there’s no will, what do we do? Shit. I do have to get that lawyer. Did you have to pay the $900 charge, or did that come out of the estate? (I’m sure it’ll be different here, just trying to get a sense of what I’ll have to plan for.)
My husband hasn’t been to see it yet. I’m trying to shield him from it, but he’ll have to see so we can clean it out. I’m dreading that.

Anyway, thank you all for the great advice and love. 💜
Her house absolutely shattered me. The state of it was just awful. The house itself is fine, as best as I can see, but it’s one of the worst hoarding cases I’ve ever seen. We haven’t seen her in years and she didn’t allow anyone to see her house, so no one knew how bad it was. I cried.
The good news is, she didn’t have much of an estate. Except for her house (with a mortgage), all her wealth was in physical stuff, so that’s the primary PITA because she was a hoarder. There’s no cash, little other debt, no medical debt I could find, no life insurance policies, just lots of stuff.
Free!! Wow - we have to pay $25 each, even if we only need 1.
Yes, thank you! It sounds like what I’m trying to do, but we don’t yet have the death certificate so I can’t start on a lot of it yet. It helps a lot with how to approach it. ☺️
Do you mind elaborating? This will be my first experience doing this and I don’t know what I’m heading into, except that I’ve got a journal where I’m writing everything down, everything I think of that needs to be done, and so on. It’s just me and my husband, so we don’t have other “cooks” involved.
Hi frens, I know I’ve been MIA for a while, but will continue to be for a while longer. Clemenza and Watson are doing wonderfully, but we lost my MIL a little over a week ago, and her affairs are falling on my dude and me to clean up. And it’s a lot. We’re okay, just overwhelmed.

Love you all. 💜
I don’t know, Mac, but he needs to slow down!! I’m scared of how big he’s going to be when I see him again on Sunday. I’ve had to be away this week, and he’s growing faster without my eyes on him to watch.
He got bark instead!
Good point. Yeah… I removed it.
I’m deaf! 🤭 Doesn’t bother me!
Okay hear me out: stainless steel teething ring.

I made sure it’s food safe. He’s not keeping this set of teeth. He can’t possibly swallow any part of this ring.

What am I missing?