Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate
@dontiepalone.bsky.social
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Special Education Advocate and Author of "Your IEP Playbook: A Parent's Guide to Confident Advocacy." Visit and learn more at ADayInOurShoes.com
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Because behind every empowered IEP parent is a village that actually understands what FAPE means.

https://village.adayinourshoes.com
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I was quoted in a recent article in USA Today. This quote was also in the article.

It's essential that you get advocacy training. If you don't get it from me, get it somewhere. (make sure they're reputable and not AI)

learn more: https://access.dontiepalone.com/dont-iep-alone-sale/
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As we inch closer to that age 22 mark, combined with more time at home due to summer, this one has been on my mind. Was true 10 years ago, still true today. Sigh.

A classic...dug up from the archives: https://adayinourshoes.com/special-needs-moms-distorted-sense-wonder/
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ABA isn’t one thing. It’s a science.
Old-school compliance-based ABA? Harmful.
Modern, ethical ABA? Builds communication, skills, and independence.
Let’s stop lumping it all together.
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As we inch closer to that age 22 mark, combined with more time at home due to summer, this one has been on my mind. Was true 10 years ago, still true today. Sigh.

A classic...dug up from the archives: https://adayinourshoes.com/special-needs-moms-distorted-sense-wonder/
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Special education is changing. Fast.
And not always for the better.
Cuts to services. More red tape. Fewer supports.
That’s why advocacy matters more than ever.
And that’s why I’m still here—after 15+ years—helping parents like you navigate every twist and turn.

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🌟Dear SPED Teachers:
Yes, we know you’re tired. And probably doing the job of 3 people. 💻
Your commitment, patience, and creativity do not go unnoticed. Not by me. Not by the families. Not by the kids who thrive because of YOU. 💙
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The Department of Ed is being dismantled. OCR complaints are going unanswered. Schools are making cuts.

This school year, being a prepared parent isn’t just smart....it’s necessary. The rules of engagement have changed. But the rights haven’t.

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There’s no secret password that unlocks services in an IEP.

It’s not one meeting or one email. it’s a strategy.

A paper trail. A stack of data. A pattern of advocacy.

It’s a process. And yeah, sometimes a long one

Join Don't IEP Alone Academy to get my 4-step strategy to apply to your situation.
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The reviews are starting to come in from the experts we asked to pre-read it before publication.

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Alcohol is a Group 1 carcinogen

The Intl Agency for Research on Cancer labels alcohol the same grave danger group as tobacco. It’s linked not only to breast cancer but also liver, mouth, throat, and colorectal cancers, accounting for about 5% of U.S. cancer cases and 4% of cancer deaths.
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It takes a village to raise a child… and an IEP team to test your patience. That’s why I built one.

https://village.adayinourshoes.com
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They say it takes a village. But for IEP parents? It takes a whole forum, some templates, and a lot of coffee.

https://village.adayinourshoes.com
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Kids who struggle with social skills sometimes need a little help or a nudge to start conversations.

Here's a free PDF: ---> https://adayinourshoes.com/conversation-topics-for-social-skills/
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Book reviews and endorsements are starting to come in--

Preorder now while you can still claim the bonuses!

https://adayinourshoes.com/book/
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As we inch closer to that age 22 mark, combined with more time at home due to summer, this one has been on my mind. Was true 10 years ago, still true today. Sigh.

A classic...dug up from the archives: https://adayinourshoes.com/special-needs-moms-distorted-sense-wonder/
dontiepalone.bsky.social
🌟Dear SPED Teachers:
Yes, we know you’re tired. And probably doing the job of 3 people. 💻
Your commitment, patience, and creativity do not go unnoticed. Not by me. Not by the families. Not by the kids who thrive because of YOU. 💙
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Binge & heavy drinking patterns are increasing-

🟨 17% of adults—and nearly 20% of women—report binge drinking (4+ drinks per occasion)

🟨 Heavy drinking (8+ drinks/week for women) remains a significant risk — and is linked to mental health issues like anxiety and depression.