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emma, she/her. detrans lesbian for trans liberation. my writing seeks to reframe issues of detransition through a radical transfeminist lens. co-host of @crackedivorypod.bsky.social links: dolphindiaries.carrd.co fiction: @mzakharuk.bsky.social
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dolphindiaries.bsky.social
A case of competing needs (or are they?) and a synthesis of dominance transfeminism and disability justice.

(FYI I finished this before the fucking court case, I hate to be relevant 😭)

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A stark, almost black-and-white image of a gavel rested atop a table. Over it there is a title and a subtitle of an essay from dolphindiaries.substack.com. Title: "Detrans Women v. Trans Men, Or: The Sanity Of Sex Change." Subtitle: "What madness lies at the heart of patriarchy?"
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taliabhatt.itch.io
I'll also frankly state that a lot of these discussions are motivated by anxieties around "who will and will not date me" and at the end of the day that is not something that will be answered by making everyone get on board with the correct theory to pass universal queer community bylaws.

Just ask.
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taliabhatt.itch.io
like yeah you'll run into trans guys at the local dyke bar. if people are pleasant to be around you might find them around people they do not wholly share identities with. queerness is an axis of social solidarity but the rule of "just be chill" still applies.
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taliabhatt.itch.io
I think most discourse about X identity in Y spaces is usually had by Z people in no spaces
androgynyfiend.bsky.social
me reading discourse about trans men in lesbian spaces and nodding respectfully before suddenly realizing I'M the trans man in lesbian spaces but I just don't think of it like that bc it's just like. "hanging out with friends" to me
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stealthyqueer.bsky.social
There goes the other shoe now.
Fuck Israel
babadookspinoza.bsky.social
“Israeli” ceasefires only ever apply to the other party. They’ll continue to kill whomever they want, whenever they want until they are stopped. They see themselves as occupying an altogether different moral plane than their enemies, like any colonizer.
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BREAKING: Three Palestinians were killed after Israeli quadcopter drones opened fire on residents inspecting their homes in the Shujaiyya neighborhood, east of Gaza City.
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
it's not my fault i'm an ex-pianist
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
I typed too enthusiastically and now my fingers hurt RIP
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taliabhatt.itch.io
I genuinely think Ari Drennen does not think of trans people who exist below a certain tax bracket, yet insists on generalizing her incredibly narrow and limited worldview to the experiences of a population pushed out of the formal economy worldwide.
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taliabhatt.itch.io
Transsexualism is bourgeois, which is why most of the Western girls I know are crowdfunding their healthcare costs to get it overseas
vibingvalerie.bsky.social
Are women bourgeois?

Ari: WELL I AM
Ari Drennen @AriDrennen
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Transsexualism as we conceive of it in America is bourgeois, the product of a society that venerates the freedom of an individual to choose. There is no designer vagina under communism, I'm sorry.
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
"transness is a bourgeois western decadence" is exactly the line used outside the West to deny *very local* trans people's right to exist, and it's kinda insane to see Western trans ppl say "yeah that's right"
vibingvalerie.bsky.social
Are women bourgeois?

Ari: WELL I AM
Ari Drennen @AriDrennen
X.com
Transsexualism as we conceive of it in America is bourgeois, the product of a society that venerates the freedom of an individual to choose. There is no designer vagina under communism, I'm sorry.
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tpwrtrmnky.bsky.social
two competing theories

-MK Ultra had exactly one successful outcome and it was pink spirals that make you want to be a woman

-Sometimes repression makes people get off to the idea of being "forced" to do something they secretly want to do anyway

Impossible to figure out what's more likely here
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tpwrtrmnky.bsky.social
weirdo sexologists would rather invent elaborate lore on the corrupting influence of crossdressing than apply "sometimes topics of deep shame are sexualized as a coping mechanism" to trans women in line with how it works for everyone else
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maddiequestions.bsky.social
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popeguilty.bsky.social
As always on this topic I much recommend Talia Bhatt's "The Third Sex" for a thorough discussion of how cis anthropologists bullshit and lie
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
I argue it from the position of bodily autonomy. No one knows better than me what to do with my gender, and trans existence is not some terrible cross inferior to cisness that only ppl who will definitely never-ever change their might should be allowed to have it
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dolphindiaries.bsky.social
I obviously don't think transition needs to be permanent to deserve to exist. I think my transition was the best decision I could've made at the time, and it did help me then. And even if it was entirely negative, someone forcing me to go against my will on this wouldn't have helped
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
It's that defence for transition is built up on the basis of it being a permanent decision, so when there arises an instance of someone for whom it wasn't, it falls apart like a house of cards
dolphindiaries.bsky.social
IMO the main issue is that the concept itself--of someone transitioning and then changing their mind and transitioning in the opposite direction--is weaponised as an antithesis to transition. So the word being used doesn't really matter, because the issue is not linguistics
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theabigailthorn.bsky.social
Thinking more about this, the relationship of gender clinics to trans people has always been extractive. They make money and careers off the suffering they inflict on us.