Debbie Cribb Owens
cribbowens.bsky.social
Debbie Cribb Owens
@cribbowens.bsky.social
Knock-about writer. Curious person. Caregiver.
Back in my days
Of eating Pop Tarts
In my footed pajamas
My mornings would start
With Captain Kangaroo
And progress to reruns
Of #Bewitched on a
Black and white television
With an aerial on the roof
I was reared by my parents
And that flickering box
#vss365
December 10, 2025 at 11:47 AM
There is #consolation in knowing you thrived. I hate to think of myself as cruel, but in that moment, I was... youth and stupidity no excuse. I can still see the look on your face. But you, in turn, became more successful than any of us. You are strong, and I'm glad.
#vss365
December 9, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Back in my acting days, I had the great honor of playing Helen in The Trojan Women. It was the only role I ever had that was meaty enough to carry its own #soliloquy. I felt like a serious actor for the first and last time. Life took me away from the greasepaint..
#vss365
December 8, 2025 at 2:05 PM
#Magenta colors
The morning sky
Inclement weather
Imminent
Missing the thunder
Of surf on the sea wall
On days such as this
The power that stirs
My heart to be humble
#vss365
December 7, 2025 at 12:39 PM
It's a funny thing about the word "classy". Those who exhibit it are #chic, beautiful, and honorable in the eyes of others. Those who use it, particularly in reference to themselves, aren't.
#vss365
December 5, 2025 at 1:13 PM
Once again, I face the #vespertine question. Will my father settle in comfortably, or does he have day confused with night again? So many times, I have watched him sleep away the daylight hours then rouse and become needy when the sun goes down.
#vss365
December 4, 2025 at 1:28 PM
He used to be #chivalrous
Generous
Kind
At some point
His consideration
Dropped by the
Wayside
She was moved from
The foreground
To the background
Of his life
Another piece
Of the furniture
Taken for granted
Just a wife
#vss365
December 3, 2025 at 12:28 PM
Remember when photos
Were developed in #aphotic chambers
With toxic, noxious chemicals
Remember when a conversation
With a loved one far away
Tied you to a telephone
Attached to a wall
With long distance charges rolling
Remember what miracles they were
#vss365
December 2, 2025 at 11:12 AM
Sometimes, she would play up her redneck origins in jest, pronouncing #suave and debonnaire as swave and deboner. It was good, she believed, to remember where she started so she could appreciate how far she had come.
#vss365
December 1, 2025 at 2:02 PM
It can't #last. Everything, good and bad, has a beginning and an end. Maudie has to remind herself of that, especially during the holidays. It gets her through the chaos and reminds her to cherish the beautiful moments when they come.
#vss365
November 30, 2025 at 1:45 PM
What #matters now is that he's as comfortable as possible and that he doesn't feel lonely. He's not always sure where he is or who is around him, but he still has moments of clarity. He still worries about inconsequential things.
#vss365
November 29, 2025 at 2:32 PM
As I seek the benefits of smaller meals and regular exercise, my father's #health continues to decline. His good days come less frequently. Watching his slow withdrawal from my life is hard, but it's a duty I see as sacred. I just don't look past today.
#vss365
November 28, 2025 at 1:29 PM
She had a knack for #learning. All she had to do was pay attention and the information would attach itself and stay. Her only problem was paying attention when the subject held no interest for her. College required that she finally learn how to study.
#vss365
November 27, 2025 at 1:00 PM
#Reflection and renewal
Remembering fondly
What has passed
Letting go of those things
That do not reflect well
To make room for what will
#vss365
November 26, 2025 at 12:24 PM
Tuesday before
Thanksgiving
Preparations
Underway
Cooking, cleaning
Laundry, too
Getting ready
For the day
Recipes from
Grandparents
Some creative
Others #timed
Traditions
Culinary
Shared with those whose
Hearts align
#vss365
November 25, 2025 at 1:49 PM
What worried me
And made me fret
In my twenties
I find are now
Not #relevant
They seem petty
Small, out of date
And so I try
To remember
What seeks to vex
Me now, today
Will one day feel
As trivial
As those old woes
And go my way
#vss365
November 24, 2025 at 12:36 PM
It's amazing what becomes #achievable once you decide that it is. Dreams become goals. Yesterday's goals are today's reality. Tomorrow is determined by what you believe today.
#vss365
November 23, 2025 at 1:34 PM
My fitness progress is #measurable over time. Clothes that used to fit fine are now much too baggy. The scales move more slowly, but I have been steadily building muscle, which weighs more. A1C levels have fallen. So far, so good.
#vss365
November 22, 2025 at 1:51 PM
I can no longer set daily goals for my father. His condition varies from day to day. But I intentionally set #specific goals for myself. It would be too easy to get bogged down, mentally and physically, without some sense of structure and attainment.
#vss365
November 21, 2025 at 1:33 PM
Jerry Seinfeld says that men don't view #action heroes as fantasy figures, but as options. His proof is the guy who rides with a mattress tied down to the roof of his car and his arm out the window holding the mattress, as if he is what will keep it from falling off.
#vss365
November 20, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Life is filled with #options. We may not like them, but they are there, nonetheless. Options lead to outcomes. Some feel successful, others regretful. What matters is how we react and what we do next. Choosing not to act is an option with its own set of consequences.
#vss365
November 19, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Always wishing
Life were better
Kinder fairer
Different
Kept me bitter
Satisfaction
Just beyond my
Fingertips
Finally I
Let it all go
#Reality
I embraced
Found the beauty
In this moment
After all it's
All I have
#vss365
November 18, 2025 at 12:56 PM
I first came here to ensure my father didn't wreck his kidneys with too much sugar and salt. Medical personnel told me I was keeping him alive. The #goal has changed with time. Now I keep watch and try to give him dignity and comfort. Every day, the roulette wheel turns.
#vss365
November 17, 2025 at 1:10 PM
When presented with the #issue
She had need of a tissue
For joy can bring on tears
Just as well as griefs and fears
And though her smile did shine
Those tears did trace a line
Down the side of her face
She let them fall with grace
#vss365
November 16, 2025 at 1:42 PM
The cost to #transport my bedridden father is prohibitive for all but emergencies. There are procedures that might give him benefit, but not with the disruption of getting him to the facility, which would stress him unduly, never mind the cost. It is frustrating.
#vss365
November 15, 2025 at 12:23 PM