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You can’t keep a community safe if you’re running on empty. Set clear boundaries, ask for help, and rest when you need it. Care for yourself as much as you care for your space. #CommunityCare #Boundaries #BurnoutPrevention
Nurturing Your Online Community: Essential Moderation Tips
Nurturing an online community resembles a wild garden, requiring moderation that protects both the group and the moderator. Establish clear, kind guidelines and boundaries, invite co-moderators for support, and adopt restorative approaches to conflict. Prioritize self-care and collaboration to maintain sustainability and foster a healthy, welcoming environment for everyone involved.
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December 20, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Most SEO advice feels robotic. What if your SEO strategy built community instead of just clicks? Let’s create real pathways for readers to connect, belong, and explore your creative world. #SEO #CommunityBuilding #DreamspaceStudio
Felipe’s Friday Forage: How to Create an SEO Strategy That Actually Builds Community
Felipe emphasizes a community-focused approach to SEO, advocating for connections over mere traffic. He suggests engaging with readers genuinely, using relatable language, and creating inviting content. Internal linking should foster a sense of belonging, while celebrating small interactions strengthens community ties. Ultimately, SEO should cultivate a welcoming online environment.
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December 19, 2025 at 3:31 PM
You don’t need a huge audience to build community — every small post, comment, or story you share can be a spark. Show up as you are, connect with even one person, and you’re doing the work. #WritingCommunity #GentleGrowth #BuildYourVillage
How to Build Community Through Your Writing (Even Small Posts Count)
Creating a community doesn't require grand gestures; even small posts or comments can connect you with others. Consistency and vulnerability are vital, as they invite engagement and foster trust. Celebrating small interactions matters, as community building is a gradual process. Every contribution can help someone feel less alone.
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December 18, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Finding your people online doesn’t mean branding yourself into something shiny and fake. Real connection starts when you show up as you are — and let the right folks recognize you.
#WritingCommunity #NeurodivergentWriters #CreativeBelonging
How to Find Your People Online (Without Selling Your Soul or Faking Your Voice)
Finding online connections can be awkward, especially for neurodivergent or introverted individuals. Authenticity and clarity are essential; being yourself helps attract the right people. Instead of conforming to trends or pressure, seek spaces where you feel at ease. Building connections takes time, so be patient and allow familiarity to grow naturally.
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December 17, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Not every group is a real community. Here’s how to spot the green flags (and red) of creative spaces that actually nourish you. Find belonging, not burnout. #WritingCommunity #Belonging
What Makes a Healthy Creative Community? (Signs, Red Flags, and Real Belonging)
Not all groups provide genuine community, and many can feel unwelcoming. For neurodivergent individuals or introverts, belonging is crucial for artistic expression. Key indicators of a supportive community include kindness, accessibility, and inclusivity. Trust your instincts; seek spaces that nurture your authentic self and foster creativity without fear of judgment.
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December 16, 2025 at 3:30 PM
The “welfare queen” was never real. Corporate welfare is. Bootstraps were always a joke. People aren't failing, the system is. New essay on poverty myths, structural inequality, and why this narrative needs to die. #DreamspaceStudio #SocialJustice
Bootstraps, Billionaires, and Bullshit: Why the “Welfare Queen” Myth Needs to Die
The "welfare queen" myth perpetuates harmful stereotypes about those on assistance, primarily affecting women of color. In truth, corporate entities, not individuals, exploit the system. Poverty is systemic, exacerbated by inadequate wages and rising costs. To create meaningful change, support, equity, and proper policies must take precedence over individual blame.
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December 15, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Writers need community, even if you’re introverted, autistic, or strictly online. Here’s why gentle, cozy, low-pressure writing spaces matter more…

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December 15, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Why does standard productivity advice fail disabled and ND creators? Because it was never built for our bodies, brains, or rhythms. Here's what actually works — and why you’re not the problem. #NeurodivergentWriters #CreativeSustainability
Why Textbook Productivity Advice Fails Disabled and Neurodivergent Creators
Mainstream productivity advice often overlooks the unique needs of disabled and neurodivergent creators, assuming stable energy and executive function. This leads to ineffective methods that can cause burnout and frustration. Instead, embracing flexibility, sensory awareness, and non-linear workflows can support sustainable creativity, allowing individuals to thrive authentically and meaningfully.
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December 14, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Feeling stuck or heavy in your writing? It might be time to switch from Work Mode to Play Mode. ✨ Learn the signs, protect your creativity, and reconnect with joy in the process. #WritingLife #CreativeBalance
How to Know When to Transition from Work Mode to Play Mode
Writers face challenges not only in Work Mode but also in recognizing when to switch to Play Mode, which fosters creativity. Signs indicating the need for a break include mental drain, constant self-editing, physical signals like brain fog, and lack of writing for fun. Embracing Play Mode is essential for maintaining creative balance and enjoyment.
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December 13, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Felipe dug deep this week and unearthed some treasures: how search engines really rank your content! From crawling to indexing to building authority, here’s what matters — and how Dreamspace is quietly on the rise. #FelipesForage #SEOForWriters
Felipe’s Friday Forage: How Search Engines Decide Who Wears the Crown
Felipe, the rainbow armadillo, uncovers vital insights on search engine processes for Dreamspace blog. He highlights the importance of strong internal linking during crawling, thematic structure in indexing, and the authority gained through consistent, engaging content. Felipe encourages improvements in internal links, refreshing older posts, and creating pillar content to enhance organic reach.
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December 12, 2025 at 5:00 PM
Dreamspace After Dark didn’t come from strategy — it came from play. Here’s how letting yourself explore without rules or pressure created one of the most honest corners of the Dreamspace.
#CreativeLife #WritingCommunity
How Dreamspace After Dark Exists Because I Allowed Yourself to Play
Dreamspace After Dark originated from a desire to explore creativity without constraints, rather than through structured planning. It reflects the intimate, honest aspects of writing that emerge when freed from expectations. By embracing play, the author discovered deeper facets of their voice, creating a unique, authentic space for both themselves and their audience.
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December 12, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Your “serious” writing doesn’t suffer when you play — it gets better. ✨
Here’s how creative play strengthens your voice, deepens your ideas, and improves your craft.
#WritingLife #CreativeProcess
How Play Actually Improves Your “Serious” Writing
Incorporating play into writing enhances focus and creativity while reducing perfectionism. It allows writers to develop their unique voice through experimentation and generates raw material for serious work. Play also fosters problem-solving and rekindles joy, essential for sustained creativity. Embracing play as part of the writing process is crucial for growth.
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December 11, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Ok nom nom. Avocado toast for lunch. I like Wheat bread, heavily buttered then avocado, chunky more sliced because I don't like it too mushy. Texture thing. Minimum garlic salt. Preferred everything but the bagel or SPG.

How do you take your Avo toast?
December 10, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Every writer needs a sandbox project—a place to explore, experiment, and create without pressure. Here’s why this low-stakes play space strengthens your voice, confidence, and craft.
#WritingLife #CreativePlay
Why Every Writer Should Have a Sandbox Project
Writers often face pressure to create useful work, which can hinder creativity. Sandbox projects offer a playful, pressure-free environment for exploration and growth. They allow writers to experiment without expectations, boosting confidence and igniting passion. Ultimately, these projects are essential for nurturing creativity, free from the constraints of judgment and perfectionism.
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December 10, 2025 at 3:30 PM
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December 10, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Eating some noods, chicken and veggies for dinner.

I say send noods, that's what I mean.
December 9, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Why is it when I finally doze off during nap time, the car door slams? Twice? Can I get back to sleep now? No. I don't get to have nap. I have big sad about this.
December 9, 2025 at 8:39 PM
Cozy spoonie writer wins today: finishing my work early, having avocado toast for lunch, getting my groceries delivered on time with nothing substituted. I have a full plan for tomorrow and now I’m enjoying a cozy nap with my dog on the sofa.

What are your wins for the day? Tell me all about them.
December 9, 2025 at 7:24 PM
Your brain doesn’t just need structure — it needs recess. 🎨🧠
Here’s why unstructured, unsupervised creative play is essential for writers (and especially for neurodivergent minds).
#WritingLife #CreativeRecess
Why Your Brain Needs Unsupervised Creative Recess
The text discusses how traditional education restricts creativity, leading to anxiety in adulthood. It emphasizes the importance of "unsupervised creative recess" for mental well-being and creative flow. Such unstructured time fosters exploration, reduces self-criticism, and is especially crucial for neurodivergent individuals. Play allows creativity to thrive, essential for personal growth.
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December 9, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Discover how to create a cozy, ethical path for your audience with a funhouse approach to content. Say goodbye to funnels and hello to exploration! 🌟 #ContentStrategy #EthicalMarketing
Funhouse, Not Funnel: How to Build a Cozy, Ethical Path Through Your Content
The content critiques traditional content strategies that often feel manipulative and alienating. Instead, it proposes a "funhouse" model, emphasizing exploration and comfort for users, fostering genuine engagement. It highlights load-bearing posts that resonate with audiences, encourages respectful design, and advocates ethical SEO practices to enhance accessibility and community connection.
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December 8, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Volume 2 of Dreamspace Chronicles is now live — and so is my new guide SEO for Sparkkeepers, a gentle, ND-friendly intro to SEO with a free worksheet. Step into the portal →
✨ New Releases from the Dreamspace! ✨
The portal is open, Sparkkeepers — and today we’re celebrating two big launches in the Dreamspace Studio. 📘 Dreamspace Chronicles: Volume 2 (Ch. 6–10) Is Here Allison’s journey continues as the Dreamspace grows stranger, deeper, and more luminous.Volume 2 is now available in ebook and paperback through Lulu, accessible no matter where you prefer to read. If you’ve been waiting for the next steps in her awakening, this is your moment.
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December 8, 2025 at 1:00 PM
Writers don’t just need discipline — we need play. 🎨✨
Here’s why creating without pressure helps your voice grow, your ideas deepen, and your writing become more sustainable.
#WritingLife #NeurodivergentWriters
Why Writers Need Play as Much as Work: The Art of Creating Without a Deadline
Writers should integrate play into their routines to sustain creativity and engagement. While structure is important, play fosters exploration, imagination, and joy, leading to better writing. By removing deadlines and pressures, writers can tap into their creativity and produce richer work, nurturing their creative process as a living system.
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December 8, 2025 at 5:03 AM
AI doesn’t have to drain communities. Closed-loop cooling exists — hobbyists use it every day. Billion-dollar data centers can too. It’s time for ethical, sustainable tech. 🌍✨ #AIEthics #SustainableTech
The Hidden Cost of AI: Water Waste and Community Impact
Conversations about AI often overlook its environmental impact, specifically water consumption from local communities due to inefficient cooling systems. Closed-loop systems, similar to those used by hobbyists, are viable for data centers but ignored for cost-effectiveness. Sustainable practices are essential to protect ecosystems and communities from the industry's unchecked expansion.
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December 7, 2025 at 5:01 PM
E-E-A-T isn’t just for robots! Here’s how experience, expertise, authority, and trust actually help you build real connections — especially if you’re disabled, neurodivergent, or writing from the margins. Your story is enough. #bloggingtips #EAT #neurodivergent
Create Impactful Content with E-E-A-T Principles
This post demystifies E-E-A-T, emphasizing experience, expertise, authoritativeness, and trustworthiness for bloggers, especially those who are neurodivergent or disabled. It advocates for authenticity, sharing personal stories, and building community trust. Real SEO success stems from genuine engagement and purpose-driven content rather than just keyword optimization.
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December 7, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Freelancing as a disabled or neurodivergent creator? Here’s the real talk, survival tips, and resource links I wish I’d had. Your path can be accessible, sustainable, and yours. Let’s make it work, together. #spoonielife #neurodivergent #freelance
Freelancing as a Disabled and Neurodivergent Professional
Freelancing as a disabled or neurodivergent individual presents unique challenges, requiring self-advocacy and adaptability. There are no built-in supports, and managing workloads around health issues is critical. Practical strategies include creating flexible workflows, setting boundaries, and building a supportive network, ultimately leading to a rewarding freelancing experience despite obstacles.
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December 6, 2025 at 3:30 PM