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I asked if she was okay, and my brother said she was fine
Dear Uncle Gary,I’m 19 and live with my parents. My brother (32) and his girlfriend, she’s either 21 or 22- I live about 15 minutes away, but they stayed with us this weekend for my dad’s birthday.My ...
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November 10, 2025 at 2:02 AM
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Suddenly a Single Father of Five. What Now?
Hey Uncle Gary,Twenty years of marriage. Five kids. Back in February I lost my job, and though I’ve recently found another in the same field, it came with a 50% pay cut. I was overpaid before, and the...
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November 8, 2025 at 4:59 PM
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We recently talked about exploring our sexuality
Dear Uncle Gary, I (25F) love my boyfriend (27M). We recently talked about exploring our sexuality, including swinging or threesomes, and admitted we’re both bi-curious. I told him I’d support him if ...
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November 8, 2025 at 4:20 AM
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I’m a bottom
Dear Uncle Gary,I have a question that feels a little unusual, and I haven’t met anyone, or even heard of anyone, in quite the same situation. Is it normal for me not to orgasm during sex?I genuinely ...
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November 8, 2025 at 3:43 AM
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My mom (39) is dating her coworker (20). I’m 21.
Hey Uncle Gary,My mom (39) is dating her coworker (20). I’m 21, and I’ve actually known him for years; she even tried to set me up with him last summer. We flirted a little, nothing serious, but now h...
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November 8, 2025 at 1:54 AM
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This Week on Ask Uncle Gary
Why Some People Quietly Steal the Room (and How You Can Too)Ever notice how certain people walk in and the air changes? Not because they’re shouting or peacocking, but because something about them jus...
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November 8, 2025 at 1:02 AM
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Am I out of line for asking my husband to pick up tampons for me?
Hey Uncle Gary,I got into a bit of a blowout with my mother-in-law after I asked my husband to run to the store and grab me some tampons last night. Personally, I didn’t think it was a big deal, and n...
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October 29, 2025 at 6:39 PM
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I could use a little perspective.
My fiancé is super particular about cleanliness; he showers daily, sometimes even twice. Meanwhile, I tend to shower every other day and wash my hair every 3–4 days.
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October 29, 2025 at 6:36 PM
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Does anyone else feel this?
Dear Uncle Gary,I’m 59. A mother, a wife, a teacher. My life is steady, even lovely, two grown children finding their way, a marriage that still feels like home. I’ve lost people, yes. Parents. A sibl...
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October 22, 2025 at 8:33 PM
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How many of your married friends are happy?
Hey Uncle Gary, Out of all your married friends, how many would you say are genuinely thriving in their relationships, not just sticking it out, but actually happy and fulfilled?Signed, Curious George...
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October 20, 2025 at 9:39 PM
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We've been friends since the first day of kindergarten.
Dear Uncle Gary,What do you say to someone who is dying at 33?Last November, my friend was diagnosed with an aggressive breast cancer. Now, less than a year later, she’s in palliative care. The doctor...
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October 17, 2025 at 9:03 PM
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If women have the 6-6-6 checklist, what’s the male equivalent?
Uncle Gary,My wife hit me with a question that stopped me mid-sip: “If women have the 6-6-6 checklist, six feet tall, six-figure income, six-pack abs, what’s the male equivalent?” In other words, do m...
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October 12, 2025 at 11:48 PM
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Aesthetic Fluidity and the Currency of Adaptability
The PremiseLet’s start with a truth that’s not universal, but it’s gaining traction: In 2025, financial and social success often correlate with being “aesthetically fluid.” It’s not a law of nature, b...
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October 10, 2025 at 9:02 PM
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The Slow Death of Critical Thinking
I came across a line that stopped me cold: “You can silence fifty scholars with one fact, but you can’t silence one fool with fifty facts.” -This quote’s authorship is uncertain.It captures the trage...
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October 10, 2025 at 6:19 AM
