Adam Fare 🖤🤍💜
@adamfare1996.bsky.social
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UK. Trying to muddle my way through life. Equity, AuDHD, Disability, Mental illness, Stomas and Eating Disorders. Ace 🖤🤍💜 Views are my own. (He/Him) This is a bigot-free zone. https://linktr.ee/adamcfare
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adamfare1996.bsky.social
No thanks, but it's clear you've missed the point and instead chosen to get defensive for some reason.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
As a disabled person I am not “insulted” by the tiny number of folk circumventing the system…

I’m insulted by disability benefits being less than a liveable amount.
By the process being inaccessible and harming vulnerable people.

By ableists making ableist assumptions.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Abled folk who think being in the office for 9 hours a day automatically means they “work hard”…

I’ve worked in that environment… I know it’s bullshit, and that many haven't done a day of proper hard work in their lives.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Again. Not the point I’m making here
adamfare1996.bsky.social
That’s a separate point altogether though tbh
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Extreme misogyny should be classed as terrorism.

Misogyny itself should be classed as a hate crime.

Sexual harassment should be made socially unacceptable by all of us committing to, and consistently, calling out our peers.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
The only accessible motor transport for me is my personal car. That’s it.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Still wouldn’t work for me personally….
adamfare1996.bsky.social
My dad has shown me what being a true man looks like.
How to respect women, and what unconditional love looks like.

None of it involves typical “masculinity”.
None of it involves controlling women.
None of it involves “banter”.

He's what a true man and role model should be.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
That women aren't automatically safe, and no one should automatically be assumed as safe, and the basics of safeguarding make this clear
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Yes, disabled people deserve nice things too.

They deserve to have whatever social life possible for them.
They deserve to have holidays if able.
They deserve to have support, entertainment, and hobbies.

All of these can be fundamental to a good quality of life.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
that’s a separate point.
And I don’t care if you “grant my premise” or not, I am giving you the fact of my life.
I’m not asking for permission
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Public transport, even at its most accessible, isn’t accessible for me.

It’s not flexible enough, and I simply cannot carry anything that I’d need to bring with me (or bring home) due to both hands being needed for crutches.

You cannot get rid of private cars completely.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
The right relies on people being, and staying, ignorant about the reality of society and the economy.

It’s why they resort to insults and name-calling whenever someone tells the truth… Because they don’t have any counter arguments, and get scared of the cards falling.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Yes I’m glad the NHS exists, and we don’t have a system like the US.
I just wish our government had properly funded and resourced the system.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
They’re all abusers in several ways imo…
adamfare1996.bsky.social
Disability benefits processes, “reforms”, and cuts kill people.

They kill disabled people through poverty.
They kill disabled people through fear.

And all the current rhetoric, hate, and misinformation kills more.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
I’ve answered your question.
adamfare1996.bsky.social
It’s the truth though.
They assume “single sex” equals “safe”.
They suggest parents are universally safe.
They ignore most child abuse happens in the home.
What more do you need?
adamfare1996.bsky.social
The toxic men, women and feminism in order to groom vulnerable boys and men into their misogyny
adamfare1996.bsky.social
To be honest, most boys are pushed towards that brand of toxicity because of other men and patriarchy, nothing to do with women