Isles in a Dream
@4islesandco.bsky.social
A D.I.D. system formerly known as 'The Venus Bunch' with 12+ known alters. We hope to help people see themself[ves] thru a clear & loving lens.
36 - Memoirist - Oracle - Polytheist - Coffee & Cannabis = 🫶 - He/They - Polyamorous/Partnered [x1] - Cat Dad
36 - Memoirist - Oracle - Polytheist - Coffee & Cannabis = 🫶 - He/They - Polyamorous/Partnered [x1] - Cat Dad
According to Webster, adverse [adj.]: acting against or in a contrary direction; hostile - opposed to one's interests - causing harm --- Opening the floor to anonymous sends this last couple of weeks has illuminated how controversial a person changing can be. When people from the past ⬇️1️⃣
Hot Take: You can not be an ally to your transgender friend[s] & also be adverse to change
a man in a suit and tie is standing in front of a door that says change is good
Alt: A bald man in a pinstripe suit with purple tie & handkerchief gestures towards the screen. He is saying, "Change is good."
media.tenor.com
December 3, 2025 at 4:22 PM
According to Webster, adverse [adj.]: acting against or in a contrary direction; hostile - opposed to one's interests - causing harm --- Opening the floor to anonymous sends this last couple of weeks has illuminated how controversial a person changing can be. When people from the past ⬇️1️⃣
"does astrology influence who u decide to date?" - Good ? --- Yes & no. I don't run people's charts as a prerequisite to getting in my drawers 😅🤣 BUT I do believe astrological aspects can be responsible for our repeated patterns, toxic traits, etc. So, there...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
does astrology influence who u decide to date?
tellonym.me
December 3, 2025 at 3:41 PM
"does astrology influence who u decide to date?" - Good ? --- Yes & no. I don't run people's charts as a prerequisite to getting in my drawers 😅🤣 BUT I do believe astrological aspects can be responsible for our repeated patterns, toxic traits, etc. So, there...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
What did I achieve in 2025? I put thoughts that would've bounced around in my head until the day I 💀 down on paper. I BEGAN the process of quieting my mind. --- WE came together as a system, honoring our individual selves while being cognizant of the necessity for unity. #DIDSystem #memoir #goals
I DID! I COMPLETED A PROJECT. I WROTE A MEMOIR. --- I've got a couple of things in mind to enhance the reader's experience. I'll be doing those before unlocking access to FOUR chapters [beginning & end] in 3 weeks. --- Thanks to my fellow #queerwriters for ALL your support! #lgbtqwriters
#queerwriters Saturday: Check in Day!
How was your week? Did you accomplish what you set out to do?
Share your progress, encourage, cheer, and support others!
#WritingCommunity #lgbtqwriters
How was your week? Did you accomplish what you set out to do?
Share your progress, encourage, cheer, and support others!
#WritingCommunity #lgbtqwriters
December 3, 2025 at 3:10 PM
What did I achieve in 2025? I put thoughts that would've bounced around in my head until the day I 💀 down on paper. I BEGAN the process of quieting my mind. --- WE came together as a system, honoring our individual selves while being cognizant of the necessity for unity. #DIDSystem #memoir #goals
going 👻 till february after today
say goodbye however you see fit
You're welcome to say your goodbyes non-anonymously, too...
Consider this a goodbye thread.
#goodbye #farewell #seeyalater
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
say goodbye however you see fit
You're welcome to say your goodbyes non-anonymously, too...
Consider this a goodbye thread.
#goodbye #farewell #seeyalater
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
Send 'apoetismadenotborn' anonymous questions on Tellonym!
tellonym.me
December 3, 2025 at 2:40 PM
going 👻 till february after today
say goodbye however you see fit
You're welcome to say your goodbyes non-anonymously, too...
Consider this a goodbye thread.
#goodbye #farewell #seeyalater
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
say goodbye however you see fit
You're welcome to say your goodbyes non-anonymously, too...
Consider this a goodbye thread.
#goodbye #farewell #seeyalater
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
Reposted by Isles in a Dream
It’s my birthday month!! If you wanna get me a lil something something I wouldn’t complain 😉
throne.com/spilledinkan...
throne.com/spilledinkan...
December 1, 2025 at 7:47 PM
It’s my birthday month!! If you wanna get me a lil something something I wouldn’t complain 😉
throne.com/spilledinkan...
throne.com/spilledinkan...
"how is ur love life right now?" - I'm quite satisfied. I wouldn't turn down someone looking to be a platonic partner. Heck, I wouldn't even turn down a play partner, but both would need to understand my limits.
#polyamory #platoniclove #playpartner
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
#polyamory #platoniclove #playpartner
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
how is ur love life right now?
tellonym.me
December 3, 2025 at 1:59 PM
"how is ur love life right now?" - I'm quite satisfied. I wouldn't turn down someone looking to be a platonic partner. Heck, I wouldn't even turn down a play partner, but both would need to understand my limits.
#polyamory #platoniclove #playpartner
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
#polyamory #platoniclove #playpartner
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
I can't GUARANTEE a breaking of the testosterone barrier, but I THINK I'd probably cry if I woke up to an email saying this #wishlist item --- Business Investment on my Throne Wishlist! throne.com/theloveshack... --- was fully funded. #throne #crowdfunding #mutualaid
Contribute to 4 Isles & Co.'s Business Investment | Throne
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throne.com
December 3, 2025 at 1:33 AM
I can't GUARANTEE a breaking of the testosterone barrier, but I THINK I'd probably cry if I woke up to an email saying this #wishlist item --- Business Investment on my Throne Wishlist! throne.com/theloveshack... --- was fully funded. #throne #crowdfunding #mutualaid
gods above & below this was SO good 😋🤤
December 3, 2025 at 12:34 AM
gods above & below this was SO good 😋🤤
"which do u prefer, cheesecake or chocolate cake?" - This is an impossible choice, anon... it's cruel of you to even ask. But, chocolate, if I MUST choose.
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
which do u prefer, cheesecake or chocolate cake?
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 10:41 PM
"which do u prefer, cheesecake or chocolate cake?" - This is an impossible choice, anon... it's cruel of you to even ask. But, chocolate, if I MUST choose.
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
See if we can't make Jonathan's life a little easier.
👋🏼💥 URGENT 🚨 : Hi friends 🫶 I need to raise money for rent ASAP. Having no money without my first paycheck is killing me. I need help please. (Read below for more details)
Venmo: @JonathanMGuru
PayPal: [email protected] CashApp: $jonathansaiz
#mutualaidsaveslives
#mutualaid
#help
Venmo: @JonathanMGuru
PayPal: [email protected] CashApp: $jonathansaiz
#mutualaidsaveslives
#mutualaid
#help
December 2, 2025 at 9:53 PM
See if we can't make Jonathan's life a little easier.
"you never take anything seriously" - This is an interesting perspective. Also, something one couldn't possibly know about a person they aren't connected to. But, thank you for sharing, anon!
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
you never take anything seriously
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 9:49 PM
"you never take anything seriously" - This is an interesting perspective. Also, something one couldn't possibly know about a person they aren't connected to. But, thank you for sharing, anon!
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
"i like that you're not so arrogant" - Oh, goodness! Anon, I hate to break it to you, but I haven't always been like this! This took a lot of effort & honestly requires regular check-ins.
But, thank you for the compliment 🫶
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
But, thank you for the compliment 🫶
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
i like that you're not so arrogant
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 7:04 PM
"i like that you're not so arrogant" - Oh, goodness! Anon, I hate to break it to you, but I haven't always been like this! This took a lot of effort & honestly requires regular check-ins.
But, thank you for the compliment 🫶
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
But, thank you for the compliment 🫶
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
To be fair, I spent A LOT of my 'life as a girl' as an extrovert. I've found, in finding my center, that isn't who I really am. People who spend a majority of their time in that state make me kind of uncomfortable. I can't explain it, but there is like this buzzing feel that emanates from my ⬇️1️⃣
December 2, 2025 at 6:48 PM
To be fair, I spent A LOT of my 'life as a girl' as an extrovert. I've found, in finding my center, that isn't who I really am. People who spend a majority of their time in that state make me kind of uncomfortable. I can't explain it, but there is like this buzzing feel that emanates from my ⬇️1️⃣
This has been a fun game & I've had fun playing it. But, I've been sitting with the antagonistic behaviors that people feel more comfortable engaging with when there is anonymity available & 😬 yikes. --- Attempting to convince someone that they are someone they are not is coercive control. ⬇️1️⃣
"maybe ur secretly romantic" - The parts, or alters, that fancied themselves romantics are either in dormancy [ie. deep grief & healing] or are evolving. When your entire identity has been built on a mask that you HOPE pleases others, it's hard... #aromantic #DIDsystem tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
maybe ur secretly romantic
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 6:18 PM
This has been a fun game & I've had fun playing it. But, I've been sitting with the antagonistic behaviors that people feel more comfortable engaging with when there is anonymity available & 😬 yikes. --- Attempting to convince someone that they are someone they are not is coercive control. ⬇️1️⃣
...we've gone through nearly 2 full boxes of graham crackers in 12 days... #WTF
'The Littles' have been asking for graham crackers the last three Costco trips...
...finally gave in today. #noregrets
...finally gave in today. #noregrets
a white cat is eating a cracker from a person 's hand
Alt: A white cat with a gray spot over its eye is aggressively licking a graham cracker.
media.tenor.com
December 2, 2025 at 5:56 PM
...we've gone through nearly 2 full boxes of graham crackers in 12 days... #WTF
#NoShaveNovember update...
So, this is 2 months worth of growth...
The plan is to let it grow for an entire year. I might invest in one of the Etsy facial hair thickening oils I've had my eye on for a while & do some compare/contrast 📸
#ftm #transmasc #facialhair
So, this is 2 months worth of growth...
The plan is to let it grow for an entire year. I might invest in one of the Etsy facial hair thickening oils I've had my eye on for a while & do some compare/contrast 📸
#ftm #transmasc #facialhair
December 2, 2025 at 5:42 PM
#NoShaveNovember update...
So, this is 2 months worth of growth...
The plan is to let it grow for an entire year. I might invest in one of the Etsy facial hair thickening oils I've had my eye on for a while & do some compare/contrast 📸
#ftm #transmasc #facialhair
So, this is 2 months worth of growth...
The plan is to let it grow for an entire year. I might invest in one of the Etsy facial hair thickening oils I've had my eye on for a while & do some compare/contrast 📸
#ftm #transmasc #facialhair
In 27 days, the oldest of the three children tied to our existence will turn TWELVE. He is named after the infamous Johnny Cash, so happy early birthday to my favorite Capricorn ♑ #happybirthday
The real reason it takes me so long to get my house chores done...
Open living room = GREAT acoustics 👌✨️
I promised @xrobnx.bsky.social I'd try to do Mr. Cash justice. So, here's my attempt 💁♂️ #songcover #singing #johhnycash
Open living room = GREAT acoustics 👌✨️
I promised @xrobnx.bsky.social I'd try to do Mr. Cash justice. So, here's my attempt 💁♂️ #songcover #singing #johhnycash
December 2, 2025 at 5:11 PM
In 27 days, the oldest of the three children tied to our existence will turn TWELVE. He is named after the infamous Johnny Cash, so happy early birthday to my favorite Capricorn ♑ #happybirthday
Me: 'Dreams that make absolutely no sense'
Also Me: youtu.be/JB3IrnhEmBs #dreamwork #dreams #dreaminterpretations
Also Me: youtu.be/JB3IrnhEmBs #dreamwork #dreams #dreaminterpretations
December 2, 2025 at 4:59 PM
Me: 'Dreams that make absolutely no sense'
Also Me: youtu.be/JB3IrnhEmBs #dreamwork #dreams #dreaminterpretations
Also Me: youtu.be/JB3IrnhEmBs #dreamwork #dreams #dreaminterpretations
Me coming back to my old posts:
December 2, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Me coming back to my old posts:
We've been watching this any time we can't fully focus on a movie or whatever show we're currently into...
'The Littles' think it is the funniest show. Fellow ex evangelicals... DO THE THING, watch the show... the stuff that makes you feel kind of 'icky', confront it. You'll be glad you did.
'The Littles' think it is the funniest show. Fellow ex evangelicals... DO THE THING, watch the show... the stuff that makes you feel kind of 'icky', confront it. You'll be glad you did.
Hate to admit it, but this is my first time watching...
a black and white photo of the addams family standing next to each other in a room .
Alt: The Addams Family is snapping their fingers all together. This is from the 1960s television series in black & white.
media.tenor.com
December 2, 2025 at 4:33 PM
We've been watching this any time we can't fully focus on a movie or whatever show we're currently into...
'The Littles' think it is the funniest show. Fellow ex evangelicals... DO THE THING, watch the show... the stuff that makes you feel kind of 'icky', confront it. You'll be glad you did.
'The Littles' think it is the funniest show. Fellow ex evangelicals... DO THE THING, watch the show... the stuff that makes you feel kind of 'icky', confront it. You'll be glad you did.
I can't believe that thanks to you guys I now have not one but TWO pairs of packing underwear that ACTUALLY FIT. Your kindness this year has been incredible... so much so that it's hard to believe it's only been a year. #thankyou #gratitude
Reasons I need this #wishlist item --- throne.com/theloveshack... --- [1] *ahem* the photo should say it all --- [2] My waistline has DRASTICALLY reduced & the strap that belongs BENEATH my 🍑 cheeks is tucked into the waistband to ensure that my 🍆 doesn't slide down the leg of my 👖 --- [3] It's cute
December 2, 2025 at 4:29 PM
I can't believe that thanks to you guys I now have not one but TWO pairs of packing underwear that ACTUALLY FIT. Your kindness this year has been incredible... so much so that it's hard to believe it's only been a year. #thankyou #gratitude
"how do you think people view you?" - To be honest, I don't. 😅 there are days that the devil on my shoulder whispers all the 'bad' ways people see me. But that same guy has helped me land in some beds I'd hate to be caught dead in, so I take most of what... #idontcare
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
how do you think people view you?
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 4:15 PM
"how do you think people view you?" - To be honest, I don't. 😅 there are days that the devil on my shoulder whispers all the 'bad' ways people see me. But that same guy has helped me land in some beds I'd hate to be caught dead in, so I take most of what... #idontcare
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
"its nice how ur always honest " - Honesty is so much easier, man. Have you ever tried to keep up with, or worse... get ahead of... your own lies? It's exhausting.
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
its nice how ur always honest
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 4:12 PM
"its nice how ur always honest " - Honesty is so much easier, man. Have you ever tried to keep up with, or worse... get ahead of... your own lies? It's exhausting.
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
"where does your nickname come from" - You'll have to be more specific...
Not sure which name you're referring to.
#name #nickname #whatsinaname
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
Not sure which name you're referring to.
#name #nickname #whatsinaname
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
'@apoetismadenotborn'
where does your nickname come from
tellonym.me
December 2, 2025 at 3:50 PM
"where does your nickname come from" - You'll have to be more specific...
Not sure which name you're referring to.
#name #nickname #whatsinaname
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...
Not sure which name you're referring to.
#name #nickname #whatsinaname
tellonym.me/apoetismaden...