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@yourfriendpiper.bsky.social

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She/her. pro cancel culture. PDX

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Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · Nov 15

Hi new people. I am a feminist in a kill god the Father, abolish the family, youth lib, KYLR kinda way. I’ll often talk about abuse, patriarchy, but also Portland, Oregon local politics

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The Clinton Street Theater @cstpdx.bsky.social · 7h

Would show a decent, slow-burn character study on "Uncle Ted" as an extension to the season's horror theme, but worry it'll be met with hostility or, worse, excitement by terminally-online audiences, and don't have the energy to host a post-screening discussion on the failures of primitivism.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Folks are right, I initially didn’t give keenan enough credit for their role. Hard to go from loving to this. But their stalking of me and my friends, manipulation of survivors, allying with anyone who had ever hated me etc when I haven’t contacted them since April 8 makes it very clear.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Keenan then suddenly accused me of abuse & I desperately tried believe them, but I could NOT agreed that they were entitled to me moving with them to Mexico. You can ask my friends how I worked through all this. I never spoke to Keenan again but they stayed entitled enough to try to extort me.

Ok Piper, your options are to accept the accusation like your stated ethics actually require you to do, which I would really prefer
26m O
Or if you send the 20k you promised me, I will lie, take them back and make them go away. I'll pretend like this was just a bad break up and I over reacted
25m
I have been very kind and told people that we just broke up with the exception of the Judith's Cantina

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Here this too, 6 days before our final breakup

Will, April 2: In general I've always kinda gotten the partial vibe that cameron personally does not like poly, but was convinced ethically and will forever torture themselves to check the checkboxes.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Things eventually fell apart triggered by boytits saying I couldn’t spend a single night in their home a month before we were all supposed to move together, for as best I can tell, reasons their best friend Will can tell you, from shortly before it all blew up

But we both know it boils down to they don't like their models being wrong and they feel threatened by yalls intimacy and communication

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Keenan has afterwards characterized this as coercive. The only way this is coercive is if I am not entitled to decide for myself what situations I feel comfortable living in. But they were so entitled to me they think I have to accept *any* circumstances.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

With Keenan, I told them I didn’t feel safe moving in with them in a foreign country if I was a secondary partner, last one everyone’s list. But, if that’s all the relationship they wanted with me, I’d still help them move by giving them a chunk of money like not enough to buy a house but like $20k

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

It was after a very scary conflict BT & Keenan had where I realized their relationship was NOT stable if tested I’d be kicked out to preserve it. I brought this concern up with both of them. BT bizarrely said they were more allied with me than the parent of their child.

If our polycule (🤮 I'm so sorry) could be said to have internal politics (for lack of a better way of putting it) my political allegiance is to you, not Keenan

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

They knew that that was too traumatic for me to actually think about at that time (I said!), but that it was great leverage (because it worked for huitzil!)

But I didn’t like BT controlling my relationship w Keenan & I started realizing *their* relationship would make me very vulnerable

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

Boytits and Keenan had convinced me to leave huitzil by telling me wanted to coparent being me so I could have a child. Once the possibly funding a home for them was on the table (I was hesitant), BT decided without me actually I could only have a child if I moved with them (funding it)

Sun, Feb 2
One positive mexico at least, is that it does open up a possibility that is foreclosed to us in the US and likely would still have been even if Harris had won.
And that's the possibility of you being able to have a child. And tbc, I don't say this lightly or casually and I wouldn't even bring it up if we knew 100% we were staying in the US bc l've run the logistics a hundred times every which way and I can't make it work out if we stay, and I would never want to ask you to grieve that future twice. But if we're already selling both houses and moving in together and the cost of living is dramatically cheaper and we are bringing extended family who could support with childcare logistics are much easier. And it would create a pathway to permanent residency for both parents

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 9h

So why Keenan and boytits? They saw what Huitzil, my abuser they were “helping me leave”, was taking from me and they wanted it. A house cleaner, childcare, a bank.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 10h

William Gillis is just a thousand rationalizations (in this case for their partners’ bigotry against transfemme rape survivors) in a trench coat.

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IYKYK @nisslbody.blacksky.app · 13h

Portland is good at antifascism because we have always had to fight against homegrown fascists. Let's not forget that, or sugar-coat it.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 14h

You are not going to make me feel like some kind of degenerate for NOT being a bigoted piece of shit.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 14h

deserving of bodily autonomy and only someone with nefarious motivations could possibly care. Arguments like this very obviously contribute to systemic marginalization, sexual violence, and disposability experienced by trans femmes.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 14h

CW: sv, transmisogyny

The idea that one would have to view themselves as a “savior of trans women” to simply care about the sexual violence they experience as much as that experienced by any other group reinforces and relies on the premise that trans women as a group are less

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

It might be @boytits or @techelon or @nobonzo. They groomed me then discarded me and tried to blackmail me for $20k. It’s so obviously bad faith but @nobonzo and @rechelon are famous so 🤷‍♀️

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

@nobonzo is a disgusting trans misogynist who in a period of only a few months denied two trans women’s rales. When I tried to address this William Gillis accused me of trying to destroy their relationship and therefore reputation because no bonzo would obviously flip on them too as they do.

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

Since everything I say is a lie and everything Cameron/boytits saud is tried I’ll let them tell you what this is all about

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

Id actually LOVE to not be a character in Cameron and Keenan’s only hobby. I’d like to never hear frim them for the rest of life but they won’t let me

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

This is a *second* very young person Keenan and Cameron were involved with

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

You’re welcome to talk to me, remember how Keenan came to you then decided to stand up to Cameron forcing them to break up with me and keenan was terrified Cameron would cut off access to their child? The 3rd partner of Keenan’s in a row Cameron went no contact on?

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

See I’m confused because Cameron saud fucking young people is fine as long as keensn doesn’t date them. So which is it? It’s only predatory if it’s both sex and a relationship?

Yeah, tbc like she is someone we've hooked up with several times at the club, tho we didn't know she was 23 until after, but in general yeah, not someone I would feel comfortable with either of us having a relationship that was any more serious than a casual sexual thing bc of the age difference
8:14 PM

Piper @yourfriendpiper.bsky.social · 1d

I was abused and groomed by Keenan and Cameron with the suppprt of will and no bonzo. I’m sorry you’re “embarrassed” but I’m being stalked and you’re helping