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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 21h

On year, a bunch of people put up their Christmas decorations on September 26th and it began a 5+ year Christmas vs. Halloween war that still rages today in the neighborhood.

Now you can walk at 9pm at night in July and see Christmas lights still up across from legions of giant skeletons.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 1d

Aaaaaaw

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 1d

Aaron is full of surprises. Still amazed to be invested in him*.

*For now.

#DorleyPosting

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

But my own vulnerability aside, they all seemed disturbed by seeing what growing up was like for Melissa without a concept of trans... and horrified that I felt like it was the typical experience for me most trans girls on that situation, myself included.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

Which I think is probably good for them. I should probably just trust my old friends to handle it well. One of them commented on another chapter that he actually hadn't considered that I had a deadname. So I guess nobody in my old life uses it, even by accident.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

None of these guys knew me as a teen when I was going through what Melissa was, but some are like... married to the siblings of my Shy and Rachel and Ashley equivalents. That makes me feel extra vulnerable, and I worry they'll ask what I was like back then to their spouses?

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

That's a good way of putting it. That's how it felt to me, too, like I needed a few days to even start to put myself back together.

I'm getting their cishet feelings as they read, but we haven't sat and talked about it all together yet and I'm worried about falling apart a bit on this one.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

Strong "Wait, did you think a sweatshop is where they make sweat pants??" energy from Aaron in tonight's Dorley reading.

#DorleyPosting

Higlighted text that reads: And that guy? From Bournemouth? From earlier this year? He saved those dogs from being crushed up, or something.” “Crushed up?” Jane says, frowning. “Wait— Bournemouth? Oh, goodness, Aaron; what is it you think a puppy mill does?” “Not important,” Aaron says, making a mental note to ask someone.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

In Juni's defense, I have definitely responded to very normal questions with "haha, no, I'm not a cat I'm just trans!" just for the person to say "I didn't ask if you were a cat, I asked if you wanted a drink?"

Juni! 🥰 @literallyjustadog.online · 3d

a twink complimented my tail and asked if I'm a dog but I didn't hear him clearly so I said "haha no I'm trans"
to which he responded by repeating the question
and I said, oh ha, yeah.
and left out of embarrassment

girl what, when would I ever respond with that, regardless of the question

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

There are a lot of things I like where they're absolutely starved for merch by independent artists... but furry is the opposite of that. Could literally say "I want a shirt of a cute sphinx doing a crossword" and there are hundreds of artists I could pay to happily make that happen.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 2d

"Its FLESH is MARSHMALLOWS" feels like something you'd see scrawled on the walls in a gritty survival-horror game based on Ghostbusters.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 3d

I went from not having heard this idea to "Okay, I'm convinced" in about 2 seconds from reading this skeet.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 3d

I have some full body laser sessions coming up fast, and I need to figure out what areas are electrolysis-only for bottom surgery before then. Which raises the question of if I want any pubic hair or not. A question I have no idea how to begin to answer, but I need to.

I assume it hides the scars?

Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 3d

I was curious how the boys in the basement would take "Everything Must Go."

It probably speaks to their empathy that they're all finding it extremely hard. I was worried it would leave me gutted as a trans girl but barely dent the cishet guys. They seem shaken up, too, thankfully.

#DorleyPosting

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 3d

Honestly thought this was a post by @danifinnwrites.bsky.social for a moment there when I read "date with the cephalopod girl."

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

a group of soldiers are standing in a row wearing helmets and armor .

Alt: I'm doing my part line from Starship Troopers as a gif.

media.tenor.com

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meliss-AAAH! @mel.bzky.team · Jul 13

if you're transgender, your first duty is to live. if youve got anything to give after that, your second duty is to help someone else live, because it's not easy and no one but you and I and those like us will ever understand. your third duty, if you can make it that far, is to live happily.

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meliss-AAAH! @mel.bzky.team · Jul 13

also i am so fucking serious rn if you feel like nothing else will keep you alive, live from spite. do you have any idea how batshit upset you make transphobes by just existing. its not a good way to live but the years are lean and looking to get leaner so if that's the one thing thatll do, do it.

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Vyria Durav, Dragon Princess of the Night @vyriadurav.bsky.social · 5d

Oh my god someone donated enough to cover the rest of my bottom surgery gfm!!!! Holy shit

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

Heck yeah!

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

There is a joy to when your spouse, best friend, or sibling uses your chosen name. That joy, though, starts to make you aware of the people who circumvent that.

(My family is not actively transphobic, but I have never heard my parents or siblings use my full chosen name and it's been *years.*)

Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

I've become kinda hyper aware of when a trans girl prefers her full name, say Stephanie, and her family or coworkers or (bad) friends only call her Steph. Like when I never, ever hear them use her full name.

I'm sure they think they're getting away with it, but it's obvious they're not on board.

Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

I've become kinda hyper aware of when a trans girl prefers her full name, say Stephanie, and her family or coworkers or (bad) friends only call her Steph. Like when I never, ever hear them use her full name.

I'm sure they think they're getting away with it, but it's obvious they're not on board.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

Dorley is not a YA series, but of course the author of Magic's Pawn has always been a little alarmed at 13 year old kids reading it and calling it YA. But as a teenager, if I'd read "Everything Must Go," it would have been the very first time in my entire life that I ever felt seen.

#DorleyPosting

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

I keep thinking of how YA protagonists felt inscrutable, almost saccharine to me as a trans egg. But 13 year old Vanyel in Magic's Pawn was the first time I related to someone, and how my gay friends glomped onto him like a life raft.

I think the "Everything Must Go" Dorley chapter is my Vanyel.

Magic's Pawn by Mercedes Lackey, Japanese cover edition, showing a white slightly angellic sapient horse and a 13 year old feminine boy with long black hair, pale skin, and black clothes looking a bit traumatized.

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Mint 🏳️‍⚧️ @scriptkitten.bsky.social · 4d

Mint, a cat-faced sphinx based on an Andean mountain cat, in a chibi style by Kittrel holding a heart in the demigirl pride flag colors.

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