Sai 🦝 ΘΔ
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saitheraccoon.bsky.social
And it’s part of a broader pattern where abusive people are oftentimes oblivious to how toxic and abusive they are. From their perspective, they’re the ones being wronged; and they’ll even engineer scenarios to bait you into proving them right - which you’ll rightfully perceive as more abuse.
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
Part of the challenge with handling DARVO’ers is that usually they’re unaware of it, and pointing that out is itself another thing they can DARVO. It’s a very resilient and versatile coping mechanism, which is why it’s common enough to have a name.
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
I meeaaaan yeah, when you have the entire story, that’s objectively what’s happening - they’re switching the roles around to their advantage. But there really is a ton of emotional crud that underlies it.
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
I guess I should clarify that I’m speaking *extremely* modally here, from the perspective of the person DARVO’ing. It’s a highly warped perspective that’s hard to illustrate without it looking like I’m defending it x_x
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
Part of DARVO is baiting people into over-reacting in a “court of law” sense, which gives you permission to dismiss your mistakes as minor and not worth addressing because they’re not causing “real problems” like the over-reactions are. Your reputation is built despite lies and drama, not on it.
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
People REALLY hate cognitive dissonance, and DARVO is a damn good way to alleviate it without actually introspecting
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
Depends on how productive you need to be later :p
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
Sounds like someone who’d take FMLA over a stubbed toe
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
I was teaching a friend about this the other day. Roommates being a pain? Get your own shit for cooking. Just a pot, a sauté pan, a colander, a small santoku, and a cutting board; and you can cook just about anything you want. It really doesn’t take much equipment.
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
Reasons why I had the pfp ready to go :P
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
What if we found a candy corn perfume?
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
I would, but the piercing shop wouldn’t have seen me if I came in drunk :p
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
A second stout will NOT be hitting the raccoon.

One 10.4% abv is enough @.@
saitheraccoon.bsky.social
🦦 “Wow just one beer. I really am a cheap date”

🦝 “Yeah, just a handful of lube and a milkshake for after”
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marf.dog
Marf @marf.dog · 1d
There's no croc like horse crocs
A pair of crocs that are designed to look like horses, with brown fur and a white nose, with a lock of blond hair. They are hideous to behold.
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saitheraccoon.bsky.social
You shouldn’t. This is art