Lysistrata’s Stone Phallus
@lubottom.bsky.social
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Radical left, artist, disability history researcher, writer, CIC founder. Queer, disabled, Roma,. Carer of offspring. CTD, ME, uncontrolled epilepsy, CVS, fibro, dystonia, ND, mad. Survivor Permanent revolution FTW. Alt-banner = skynet resistance symbol
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Just discovered it had glitched, mixed different lists from different years and changed the settings to private. Have had to make a new one www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/...
lubottom.bsky.social
Yikes. Did they also judge you being disabled or was it purely focused on you being a Brit?
lubottom.bsky.social
I’m sorry. Found family can be much more wonderful than the “real thing” but you totally deserve both x
lubottom.bsky.social
I feel this is quixotic. Working class leaders didn’t make things better for working class ppl, leaders of colour didn’t make things better for ethnic minorities, women leaders didn’t make things better for women. I like Polanski & Sultana but they don’t get my trust simply because they’re my gen.
thecanaryuk.bsky.social
The World Transformed showed that top-down gatekeeping of our movement is over

The emergence of new, younger leaders in the form of Zack Polanski and Zarah Sultana summed up this year's The World Transformed: Gen-Z and Millennials will no longer be locked out.
www.thecanary.co/uk/analysis/...
The World Transformed showed that top-down gatekeeping of our movement is over
The emergence of new, younger leaders in the form of Zack Polanski and Zarah Sultana summed up this year's The World Transformed
www.thecanary.co
lubottom.bsky.social
Poor areas with the highest need levels being told they have to fund all of their needs from a low tax pool is just cruel and lacks all common sense.
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mcduff.bsky.social
Fundamentally one of the problems with "local taxes for local people" is the same one as "tax cigarettes to fund lung cancer research" - the amounts raised and the amounts needed for the project are basically unlinked.
tpgroberts.bsky.social
I do think the way council tax works is basically indefensible, but if you asked me to sketch out a replacement then I would simply flee instead.
tomashirstecon.bsky.social
Ahhhh (endless screaming). Where do they think *council* tax revenues go? Seems like an argument for raising council tax in the south east so they can enjoy much better local public services www.theguardian.com/politics/202...
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lubottom.bsky.social
If anyone can help, I need fiid packs, mash pots, Kool paks, incontinence sheets and incontinence pants (I’ve added incontinence pants that can go on a wish list now).

Sorry to ask. My disability is so bloody expensive where I have so many different issues.
lubottom.bsky.social
Just discovered it had glitched, mixed different lists from different years and changed the settings to private. Have had to make a new one www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/...
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ponekeantifa.bsky.social
The NZ government prepares a major attack on Māori rights today.

The Marine and Coastal Area (Takutai Moana) (Customary Marine Title) Amendment Bill had its third reading today.

This law is UNJUST for three reasons:
lubottom.bsky.social
Don’t worry, lovely. I knew what you meant. I’m sorry you’ve had such bad luck (if only it were luck and not people’s shitty opinions) xx
lubottom.bsky.social
When you add in being queer or trans and having to win over families in that regard, it can feel utterly impossible to pass the crip test too. Just hv to hope that partners don’t blithely agree w/ their families.
lubottom.bsky.social
I’m also ND and can be VERY quiet in some social situations which probably doesn’t help their concerned opinions.

It took my 1st MIL years to take to me & that was only because I ensured she could be an involved grandparent despite her son disappearing off for years before he died.
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shelleybwoke.bsky.social
Rest in Pride Queen 💔😞🏳️‍⚧️
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The trailblazing transgender rights activist Miss Major has passed away at the age of 78.

Miss Major was a lifelong organizer and participant in the ballroom scene. She took part in the 1969 Stonewall Riots and was injured by the police — but she kept fighting.
lubottom.bsky.social
What are they like now? Do you have contact?
lubottom.bsky.social
My 1st husband’s family were very concerned about him dating/ marrying a cripple but then he died at the age of 40 of bowel cancer & he was older than me when we got together but I’m now older than he ever got to be. And they appreciated my support when he was sick.
lubottom.bsky.social
I think ppl forget that most of us who don’t die prematurely will become disabled at some point in our lives & wouldn’t want their loved ones to be unloved if it happened to them.
lubottom.bsky.social
My 1st MIL didn’t like Tim dating a cripple but he’s now dead and we’re close. But my 2nd MIL was fine at first but not when it came to the reality of it- and she’s generally the definition of toxic.
lubottom.bsky.social
The mum of the lovely woman I’m seeing is concerned about her dating a crip, so I now have to disarm her with my very non-existent charisma.
lubottom.bsky.social
When I married my 1st husband, our marriage gift from his aunt was a letter (which his mum knew the contents of when she decided to hand it to us at our wedding) in which she detailed her disappointment that he wouldn’t just marry a cripple, he’d knock one up- the height of irresponsibility
lubottom.bsky.social
Non-disabled folks, this is a very real thing we often have to contend with:
lubottom.bsky.social
Crips & spoonies aka disabled folks: how do you deal with (potential) partner’s parents not approving of their offspring dating a cripple?
lubottom.bsky.social
Crips & spoonies aka disabled folks: how do you deal with (potential) partner’s parents not approving of their offspring dating a cripple?
lubottom.bsky.social
Also, not to shock everyone too much, but there’s queer Palestinians who’ve also been the victims of Israel’s genocide. It’s not like they filtered them out.
lubottom.bsky.social
Fuck every Zionist who acts like queer people are broken and naive for supporting Palestine. We don’t believe in collective punishment because we’ve had ample experience of it. It’s not hard to figure out.
lubottom.bsky.social
Fuck every Zionist who acts like queer people are broken and naive for supporting Palestine. We don’t believe in collective punishment because we’ve had ample experience of it. It’s not hard to figure out.
lubottom.bsky.social
Thanks, lovely. It’s all been a bit… much, lately. X