also like my cis husband uses the label femme as well as a lot of other gay dweebs (laudatory) so using "women and femmes" to exclude men just kinda does the opposite of what they think they're doing
I still prefer "You Cowards" as a non-gendered way of addressing people
Oh god I'm not nonbinary so I hope I'm not stepping on your toes, but the amount of people seeing I'm bisexual and telling me I have straight passing privilege as a man married to a man is just
My husband caught a tiny bug that he let me name NullPointer because it's a bug, and then I looked over and NullPointer is FUCKING HUGE AND REALLY SCARY OH MY GOD
My main Habbo experience was getting offered a bunch of furni if I guarded a door, but I had to give them a piece of furni as collateral so I didn't just run on them, and they'd pay me once they got back
God I feel this way about my own voice, I hate skimming through our videos for edits or clips because hearing my voice is like, the hearing version of petting a dog backwards eughghgh
I've always described it as needing to end your turn, like it's XCOM, you can take whatever small actions you want but when you take a major action you need to End Your Turn and let it play out
This thought process actually helps me immensely because I can now recognize when it's happening
Love this sequence of photos from @bonnoumamire420 on twitter. Sweet little Hanabi gets bitten by a praying mantis and immediately reacts the way any mammal should