Tyler Hayes
@bytylerhayes.bsky.social
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Bisexual Author and Forger of Feels. Award-nominated. THE IMAGINARY CORPSE available from Angry Robot Books. He/him or they/them. Living and working in Narragansett land. Follow for progressivism, pins, pro wrestling, and writing. https://tyler-hayes.com
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Hi new follows! Thank you all!
Quick intro: You're following Tyler, he/him or they/them, fantasy author and bisexual cozy-goth. You're in for writing updates, good news, signal boosts for progressives, video games, tabletop games, pro wrestling, and probably cooking. I'm happy you're here.
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Good morning,
Today's kindness upgrade is waking up early to meet with the DCYF about our resource family certification, and the yelling at electeds I said I'd do yesterday and lost in a haze of chores, as will occasionally happen. It's OK to stumble, just keep moving forward. <3
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Everything I am still mad about is totally reasonable.
Even the con six years ago where a guy at the front desk couldn’t find our registration, insisted that was our mistake not his, and when someone else stepped in and found it just wandered away. We got it fixed, so why do I still kinda hate him?
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What meaningless thing/experience are you still mad about? Like it should not matter at all, DOES not matter at all. But you’re still MAD.

And how long has it been?

I bought some bagels at Hy-Vee four years ago. So bad. Too big. Hard. Bland. WORTHLESS.

I’m still FURIOUS.
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Thanks to the magic of free-with-ads streaming I found a movie that I only knew about because I used to peruse the horror aisle at our local video store while my parents checked out. The cover haunted me and I was sure it was terrifying. I’ve put it on, and learned it’s a Troma production. Lol.
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If I cause more people to enjoy Supergiant's games I will feel as though I've lived a full life.
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#3GoodThings
1. An earlier-than-expected lunch break.
2. Hitting my stride with a creative project.
3. The postgame of Hades 2 continuing not to disappoint.
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Readers are happier than non-readers — for all we joke about ignorance being bliss, and for all keenly developed empathy will result in some very justified outrage, life is enriched by experiencing the literary arts.
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Tell me your most life-affirming literary opinion.
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Legos are on a pause while I wait for birthday presents time later this month. So, that's all the Making news fit to print!
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Querying: We now sit at 15 outstanding including 2 fulls, and 21 rejections including a partial request that resulted in a personal/high-tier form and another personal/high-tier form. Onward and upward.
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Cooking: Air-fryer sweet potatoes are lovely, but they need something, a sauce or something to put on after. We're currently thinking a chimichurri or a romesco, I'm going to see what I can find. (Honey or maple is classic, but blood sugar management means we try not to use too many sugar sauces.)
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~Making Things Log for the week of 13-Oct-2025~
Writing: I almost have a scene map! I'm hitting the point where the ideas are flying faster than I can write them down, which is a huge high but which I wish didn't always come after the week where I'm sure I'm out of ideas and done writing forever.
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Good morning, fancy bookplates of Bluesky!
Today's kindness upgrade is some screaming at my electeds, because sometimes the classics are classics for a reason. We got this!
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They don’t want small businesses competing with corporations

Credit: @sarahtaber.bsky.social
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For real the attitude at my work is “we need to prove empirically that this can’t do anything for us that the business heads above us will insist we try when they hear we aren’t using it.”
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Tuesday cat cleanse: Bruce is out like a light and this the envy of the entire house.
An orange and white cat sleeping on a blue couch.
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#3GoodThings
1. Access to ways to help others
2. An actual night's sleep
3. The enormous amount of postgame in Hades 2
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3/3 I just need to keep at it, keep those thoughts in my Uncertainty Box until such time as it's time to act on them, and process with the people trained to help me process. Which I guess summarizes...everything, really.
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2/ The noise will pass in time, thankfully. The writing stuff...well, that's a project for therapy. All I can say for sure is "boy, an unplanned 6 year gap in novel sales during which I had to leave my agent and the industry appears to be growing increasingly inhospitable sure is something!"
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I'm pretty decent. I had a relaxing weekend after the Trigger Parade of adoption class. My biggest stressors right now are the massive amounts of noise coming from the repairs going on in our basement, and worrying about trying to be an author in the year of our glob 2025.
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Here is your mental health checkpoint for the week of 13-Oct-25! Feel free to share how you're feeling; at least one person will read this. Numbered responses are my feelings. Have at!
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I first heard a variation of this about Spartans, so I suspect this is a myth we try to spread about ”warrior cultures.”
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We had to choose one console to stick with due to the limits of our time and budget, and this stuff from Sony and Msoft is a nontrivial contributor to why we went Nintendo.
Not that they are free from sin but they still at least, like, have a game library.
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Good morning, blustery fall storms of Bluesky!
Today's kindness upgrade is a little money for pizza for some protesters, and encouraging folks to switch away from Spotify and other apps running adds for the Nu Gestapo. Just a little at a time. We got this.