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Let him eat the pasta. No big deal. He can eat all he wants when she dumps him
AlTAH for not wanting to share my food even though my boyfriend 'paid for it'?

Okay so my boyfriend and I ordered takeout. He said he'd cover it this time, which was sweet. I got my usual pasta, he got a burger.

When it arrives, he immediately starts eating my pasta. Like full bites, not just "can I try a little?" type stuff. I told him to stop and he goes, "Relax, I paid for it."

I said that doesn't mean it's automatically his, it's still my meal. He said I was being ungrateful because he spent the money and it's "ours now."

We ended up eating in silence, and now he's acting like I made a big deal over food. But like... I don't care who paid, that was my dinner.

AITAH for snapping at him?
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Also, never let an opportunity of "women do it too" go when a specific example of girls and women being violated by a man is the conversation.
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Can we split the world in half? Men on one side, women on the other?

I'd say they can just donate their sperm to us, but honestly it's probably best we just leave it there, at least us women can live out the rest of our human kinds days in peace

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many similar criminals out there that have run revenge p_rn sites living their lives unabashedly unashamed like Craig Brittain. You may follow him right now, but we should never allow these types to live their lives as if they didn't devastate so many others.

He now shills as an "activist".
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FTC Approves Final Order In Craig Brittain 'Revenge Porn' Case

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After a public comment period, the Federal Trade Commission has approved a final order resolving the Commission's complaint against Craig Brittain, alleging he used deception to acquire and post intimate images of women, then referred them to another website he controlled, where

they were told they could have the pictures After a public comment period, the Federal Trade Commission has approved a final order resolving the Commission's complaint against Craig Brittain, alleging he used deception to acquire and post intimate images of women, then referred them to another website he controlled, where they were told they could have the pictures

removed if they paid hundreds of dollars.

The settlement was first announced in 2015. In its complaint, the FTC alleged that Brittain acquired the images in a number of ways, such as by posing as a woman on the advertising site Craigslist, and offering nude photos purportedly of himself in exchange for photos provided by women. Brittain also allegedly solicited viewers of his site to anonymously submit nude photos of people to his site, according to the complaint, at times offering cash "bounties" for images of

specific individuals.
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He did this to 34 other minor girls and 5 adult men. He was sentenced to almost 11 years in the Netherlands and an additional 13 years in Canada where Amanda lived.

In Jan he had the audacity to appeal to dismiss the Canadian sentencing proving his lack of remorse. It was denied.
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Dutch court rejects bid by Amanda Todd's tormentor to scrap Canadian sentence

Aydin Coban was serving time in the Netherlands for separate offences when he was given 13 years

in B.C.

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Coban was convicted by B.C. Supreme Court of the extortion and harassment of Port Coquitlam teenager Amanda Todd, seen here in a photograph entered into evidence at his trial. (B.C. Supreme Court) The Dutch Supreme Court has rejected online extortionist Aydin Coban's bid to scrap his Canadian sentence for tormenting B.C. teenager Amanda Todd.

Coban is a Dutch national who was extradited, tried and given a 13-year sentence in B.C., before being sent back to the Netherlands where he was already serving time for separate offences.

The Canadian sentence was then converted to six years by Dutch authorities. She took her own life in October 2012 after being blackmailed and harassed online by Coban for years, starting when Todd was 12.

The month before Todd died, she uploaded a nine- minute video using a series of flash cards detailing the abuse she experienced and how it had affected her life. It has since been viewed millions of times.

A Dutch court sentenced him to almost 11 years in prison for similar online offences following a trial in Amsterdam in 2017, where he was accused of the online abuse of 34 girls and five gay men.
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Amanda Todd a 15 year old girl went through years of bullying, sextortion, revenge p_rn, on & offline harassment until she took her own life because an adult man aydin coban in the Netherlands thought it was fun.
Amanda Todd: I have nobody 
I need someone Aydin Coban
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Or here me out, maybe make the dudes wear blindfolds until they learn consent instead?
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Nearly 1 in 10 women murdered by men in their lives were murdered by their sons in the UK and on the rise.
My mum was killed by my brother over a bacon sandwich no jail time will be enough'

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Published December 10, 2023 12:30pm Updated December 12, 2023 1:02pm

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Jordan Bush, pictured holding a photo of her mum, Kelly, was left devastated after her brother, Lewis, had killed her mum Kelly (Pictures: SWNS/Jordan Bush)

A woman whose brother brutally murdered their mum over a bacon sandwich says no amount of jail time will be enough
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I am tired of hearing how women are afraid

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If you check statistics, you will find out that men are the main victims of violent crime. Yet we keep hearing how many women are afraid for their safety. All men know you need to take some precautions, and do it. And yet, way too many people pretend men can walk around safely, while women need to be very cautious. Tell that to all the men who get assaulted, and/or killed on the streets.

Such morons are doing a disservice to women and men. Women feel they are in more danger than they really are, which is stressful. And men are being treated as offenders simply based on their sex. It also prevent society to engage with the real issue of male on male violence as men are allegedly already safe.

It is so hard to check basic statistics?
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Oh no, only age appropriate women are attracted to him. How will he survive?
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Hi guys, 4 years experience of software engineer. Im 29 years old. Never had gf. Even if i do hard work and gymmaxxing i feel like it will be too late. I feel like only 30 year old woman will look me because its tic toc for their eggs. I just cant open my ide, i just cant go to gym now. Im like paralyzed.

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So this teacher Charles McCant casually tries to indoctrinate the kids at LoveJoy High School to believe women shouldn't be educated. And turns out this isn't the first time this social studies teacher has been saying this.

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Abuser Speak 101.

See how he leverages passive voice, in my past this woman was hurt in a domestic violence situation, to shift accountability?

He hurt her, went to prison for it but he frames it as a situation and not his action.

Everyone in his life should be wary.
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Okay so I have this past. In my past this woman was hurt in a domestic abuse situation. I was incredibly wrong for it. Over 8 years ago this happened. I went to prison for it and for drugs. Over the last almost 4 years Jesus has completely changed my life. I built a big fb page and a business page and well that lady has become a weird stalker and at every

chance has messaged and attacked my wife and I verbally and finally she reported pictures we posted of our son who's a year old. He was wearing no clothes cuz he's a baby, she reported it as sexualizing a child under 18. We are sickened by this very sick persons actions. I lost not only the business conversations but the posts of our daughter being born, of our wedding, my first sermon. All of it deleted and gone. But neither my wife or our friends and family in our beautiful city of will let this Poor sad soul ruin our joy. Our joy comes from God. Anyway rant over please pray for people with mental illnesses. Please pray for pe
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Nope. That wasn't dirty talk.
When love is unkind, it is not love anymore.

My husband told me he hated me while we were being intimate, and now he's acting like it's not a big deal

This is my first Reddit post. It feels wild sharing this online but I don't feel comfortable talking to my friends or family about it. I'm at a loss right now and truly do not know how to feel

My husband (28M) and I (28F) have been married for almost two years. Lately, it feels like we've been fighting about everything both big and small.

A few days ago during an argument, I told him (for the first time) that it felt like he hated me. He immediately apologized, comforted me, and said that wasn't true. He assured me that he loved me and never wanted me to feel that

way.

IG & Threads: @ask_aubry Later that same night, we went over to our neighbors house to watch the UFC fights. We both had a few drinks while we were there, nothing crazy though. When we had got home, we started being intimate. We've always had a playful and good dynamic in that area, and we're comfortable with each other.

We both enjoyed some dirty talk with each other and had been doing it for years. But this time, something felt different. In the middle of us having sex, he leaned in close and whispered in my ear, "I hate you." I froze, thinking surely I must have misheard him. But then he said doubled down and said it again.

I immediately told him to stop. I don't even think he realized I was serious until I yelled at him to get off of me. I was completely shock and couldn't even find the words to say to him in that moment, so I just ended up sleeping in the guest room that night. The next morning, we had plans to go to Costco. The car ride was silent and tense until I finally brought it up. I told him how weird and hurtful it was that he said that to me. He brushed it off, saying that he was just drunk, that he didn't mean it, and that I t was just part of "dirty talk". He convinced me that I was overreacting.

But this wasn't the same as what we've done before, not even close. Especially because earlier that very day, I told him it felt like he hated me. And then he said those exact words during one of our most vulnerable moments.

By the time we pulled into the Costco parking lot, I was crying. I told him I wasn't going inside and just sat in the car, trying to process what had happened.

I don't know if I'm overreacting, but I can't shake how wrong this feels. I keep replaying it in my head and just feel embarrassed and ashamed. The whole situation is so bizarre it doesn't even feel real.
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Hilarious how he inadvertently proves the point about chores. Does he think that these women are cleaning their hookup:s homes?
Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?

Question For Women We already know the answer and we've been screaming on top of our lungs that the real reason why women say they need a "perfect emotional connection" with the husband, want their husbands to be perfectly attuned to their emotional needs and do all the household chores on time, and want all the stressors of life at bay, in order to want to have sex with them, is simply because they are not that physically attracted to their husbands. Their husbands are not their physical types. They're not the men they would choose for casual hookups, one night stands and FWB. And because of that they blame "hygiene factors" in marriage when the real intrinsic motivation to have sex is not there. And right after divorce these women start having casual sex to no end with good-looking, hot, fit, younger men who absolutely bring no additional value to their lives and perform absolutely no household chore for them. Because these men are f'n hot & young, women can start viewing sex as a purely physical need/release, a shallow recreational activity meant to release stress, rather than something f'n requires everything else in life to be perfect.

There are so many articles being written on this, the redpill about a significant number of women sexually settling in marriages get proven again and again, yet there's no acknowledgement from women Can you finally admit how weak excuses like "household chores" sound when used to explain a woman's lack of sex drive in marriage?

Can you finally admit how dishonest the advice to men is - that doing more chores and being extra "emotionally attuned" will somehow rekindle her desire - when the real issue is often that she's simply not physically attracted to him?
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Dude: Dating is so easy for women. Just pick one of hundreds of Nice Guys™ on the app.

And what's on the app: $5000
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He needs to pick his daughter over his GF.
My 32F GF went through my kids 8F cell phone and confronted her about a conversation with her mother.

I live with my GF 32F of 3 years, her daughter 5F and my daughter 8F. We do not have kids together. GF is terribly insecure from a past life doing drugs from 18-25. GF mom is pretty toxic and I feel contributed to this in the way she was raised. GF often gets offended if I do stuff for my kid while she is at her mom's two days a week. Example: Kid forgot to take her lunch box the other day so I dropped it off at her mother's house hung it on mailbox on way to work the next morning as we live close in a small town GF blew up about that claiming "you will jump and do anything for your ex and nothing for me". Another time my daughter was jumping on the trampoline and yelled "hey dad can you record me doing a flip so i can show mom" GF stormed out and said "you don't need to be asking your dad to take and send pics to your mom this is why we fight".

IG & Threads: @ask_aubry Current issue, my kid got some artsy toys for birthday back in April at her mom's house. They have a two year old and didn't want the mess and after 6 months of them not being opened yet daughter asked if she could bring them to my house. One day two weeks ago daughter got home from school and on her own phone my daughters mother text my daughter -"you forgot to tell your dad to bring you to get those toys". Daughter responds - "dad's GF and her daughter are always around and I kind of just want to play with them myself". Her mom- "talk to your dad" that was the entire convo that day. Yesterday my daughter was to be riding the bus home, sometimes she beats me home by 10 minutes so I sat her phone on the kitchen counter so she could find it and call me if she needed something while I got home. I left for work and 10 minutes after I left my GF went through her messages to her mom and saw the two mentioned above (I can see what time the messaging app was accessed first in parental control Whole day goes by and GF didn't mention them to me. GF and daughter got home at the same time and GF confronted daughter about messages and told her she doesn't need to be sending her mom stuff like that, she blamed messages like that for why daughters mom and GF can't get along. I realize we both need to work together and be able to raise kids in the house together but it seems incredibly screwed up to read through a kids messages with her mother without even mentioning or asking me. When you are not the biological parent of a child in your household where should an expectation of privacy lie for children texting their parent? Where is the moral high ground here?
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They literally show a housewife in a servant's uniform. They see women just as a product to purchase rather than a human being.
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And why can't dudes write each other?
are lonelier but you only care about women

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Whenever a man posts that he's lonely, struggling, or just looking for friends, he is usually completely ignored. No upvotes, no replies, no dms or anything. He could pour his heart out, talk about self-harm, depression, or just wanting someone to talk to, and people will scroll past like it's invisible.

But the moment a girl posts the same thing. suddenly there are dozens of comments, DMs, and people trying to comfort her.

I'm not saying women shouldn't get support. Everyone deserves it. But it's messed up how a friendship or basic empathy online seems to depend on gender.Men are statistically lonelier, more isolated, and more likely to take their own lives. Yet when they reach out, no one cares.
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And adult, Jason Chad Fleming, confessed to molesting a six year old boy.

Then his mom goes on Facebook to say "all of our kids go through this.. it's in your family too".

Like lady, I don't know what goes around I your family and church, but no this isn't something EVERYONE does.
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Jason Chad Fleming, 19, was charged with felony lewd conduct with a child and felony child sexual abuse.

If found guilty, Fleming faces a potential sentence of life in prison and/or a fine of up to $100,000. His bond was set at $250,000.

According to court documents, a detective with the Madison County Sheriff's Office was notified of a possible sex offense involving a 19-year-old and a 6-year-old victim.

The victim participated in a forensic interview in which he said Fleming had touched his private parts, but they later washed their hands and prayed afterward, according to court documents.

When Fleming was interviewed, and after

understanding his Miranda Rights, he spoke with the detective about the alleged incident, according to court documents.

The document states that Fleming admitted to touching the victim on his private parts. Fleming sai 2h

I hanks for reaching out everyone.

Yep, sometimes life throws you curveballs. The news usually doesn't get the whole story, and will report and twist thinas however they want to. But the bottom line is that s one of the best kids on the planet, has never had his first kiss, and doesn't even have any traffic violations. I also understand that the law was written to get bad guys. But Jason is not a bad guy. This is some thing that I think ALL OF OUR KIDS go through and many parents don't even know about it. The issue with is that we were able to protect him during his younger teenage years, so I think he is a "late bloomer" with dealing with an issue. News flash..... It's in your family too.

I'm stuck in a hard place...... Yes, tears flow quite often. But Jason and I can not deny the power of God through the miracles that have happened. And we are ready to be the voice piece of the Lord in helping and warning other families about how this "sickness and poison" Is entering and affec
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The way these dudes always think they are going to be the "masters".
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I think slavery should be legal

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I think if we breed humans and don't send them to school then they could be effectively used like animals. Some animals are shown to reach the intelligence of a 7 year old human, so if we're allowed to harvest and exploit animals then I don't see why humans should be off limits. Incels are already treated as sub-human, so what's the difference? Ignorance is bliss, so living a simple life as an uneducated slave is probably better than our existence anyway. We could have work slaves so that we can relax and enjoy our copes and we would obviously have sex slaves to fulfill our sexual desires. Giving women rights in the first place was probably the worst mistake humanity has
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P_rn brain rot.

When everything isn't design to make his peepee feel funny.
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Dude: Dating is so easy for women. Just pick one of hundreds of Nice Guys™ on the app.

And what's on the app: I offer nothing. What more do you women want!?!?!
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Wtf more do you god damn women want? You're gonna make me homo if you keep this shit up. I do not want to text endlessly and I will not explain my life to someone I haven't met.

If you aren't down to get a drink or do something fun - or both - DONT waste my time matching me. And get off Tinder; you're completely fucked up on its CLEAR and WELL DEFINED purpose.
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Yeah... I feel like I get why she dipped
NgI I've been having a tough time lately.

Few weeks ago I got a match on bumble one of those girls that not everyone thinks is pretty but I thought was plenty cute, assuming we got on well.

We did. Had a nice first date, plenty of laughs, no dead silences and ended with a kiss. Started texting daily after that. She even started calling me pet names a little too early She had gastritis and said she hadn't enjoyed a nasi lemak in years.

So I put in the work to come up with a recipe for gastritis friendly nasi lemak. I was excited to make it for her

Day of when we were supposed to meet up, she cancels. Tomorrow, she said. Cancelled again. Then vanished

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Probably met another dude on the app she liked more, whatever. 20h

So it wasn't that working out that has got me into a state of depression, just the state of dating in general these days.

It has practically become a giant meat market.

And rather than trudge through this shit day in and day out, I think I prefer to just step out entirely. 20h

Don't feel bad for me, if I'm honest I've been with more women than a man of my looks or height should ever dream of.

I had a couple chances to settle down and I blew them. That combination of right person and right time is likely one will never see again

No one to blame but myself.

Besides, I'm rich. I'll be fine. Pick up some young hottie who only wants my bank account 20 years from now.