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key (rowan) jordan-abrams
@wheretherider.bsky.social
I need a job. ampersands. cats.

Chabad/Hillel warned you. too brown & too white. anti-Zionist. anarcho*.

#AAC, #Autistic, #Deaf, #Disability, #LongCOVID, mentally ill, seizures. clean & #Sober.

#Poet, writer.

mDNI. touch averse. no unsolicited advice.
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if you want to read actual longer thoughts, I can be found on Mastodon:

fannish, fun, squealing about real life & entirely politics-free 99% of the time blorbo.social/@californiummm

everything else including politics & how much Medi-Cal sucks kolektiva.social/@camilla
feeling guilty for the idea of asking for help when we just spent money that could have gone to bills on new clothes, new cell phone for spouse, things for the house.

we have a reserve, it's just that has to last me through probably February/March, & it won't stretch that far easily, if at all.
December 7, 2025 at 8:18 PM
#3GoodThings

1. my spouse & our cat.

2. a roof over my head & food to eat; food stamps & food pantries.

3. Narcotics Anonymous.

4. Medi-Cal transportation service.

5. technology & the internet, cell phones, laptops, et certera.
December 7, 2025 at 8:11 PM
in what I've done with my power #Wheelchair #WheelchairLife is I broke one of the footplates, leaving me with a single footrest for several days, so I ordered one to replace the the broken one.

I also ordered a hammock footrest & we put that on my chair and it's genuinely so much better.
December 6, 2025 at 3:02 AM
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Do you think it is a good idea to perpetuate the idea that there is ANY sort of morality in slaughter?

Some 60 million civilians in WW2

More than 3m in Korea a few years later.

Then at least 4m across Mainland SE Asia

Another few million across Latin America

More than 4.5m since 2001

You good?
December 4, 2025 at 5:23 PM
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For this morning's half-thinkers:

MILITARY ORGANIZATIONS ARE UNIVERSALLY GOVERNED BY INTERNATIONAL LAWS AND LAWS OF ARMED CONFLICT.

Can an individual be charged with civil crimes in addition to war crimes? YES!

Two things can be true, and your performative "this isn't war" shit does nothing.
December 4, 2025 at 5:05 PM
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Need a Twin Cities charity to support? Let me introduce you to Al Maa'uun, a non-profit serving North Mpls.

Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
December 4, 2025 at 5:36 PM
#3GoodThings

1. spouse's and my fifth wedding anniversary. I can't believe it's been five years.

2. my wheelchairs. walker, crutches, and mobility aids in general.

3. public transportation.
November 29, 2025 at 3:55 AM
I am bratting my friend with Kirby GIFs. there is a whole world of possibility here that I'm only just now recognizing.
November 25, 2025 at 2:29 AM
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who in #LosAngeles wants to build me a power #Wheelchair that uses motors from either an electric scooter or an electric bike? I really want to be able to go that fast.
April 22, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Zoey has opinions.
November 18, 2025 at 3:45 AM
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Sorry I didn't specify well enough. NPR wrote a piece in 2007* about how nominating Hillary would be a mistake because of Bill's connections to Epstein.

Two Dem presidents sat on everything to do with that sick fuck and I have not heard one valid reason as to why
November 18, 2025 at 3:15 AM
#3GoodThings

1. my wonderfullest spouse plus cat.

2. getting an assignment finished in a way that balances keeping my privacy, maintaining my professionalism with the unreasonable demand of the assignment.

3. friend who is staying with us getting shit starting to come together for her.
November 14, 2025 at 10:06 AM
had some fun with re-populating Guava with the necessary information but it's usable again.

rearranged some of my meds so that I wasn't taking every supplement all at the same time because that was getting to be a chore I did not look forward to; was starting to psychologically feel like choking.
November 13, 2025 at 7:03 PM
lolol my OCD just encouraged me to nuke my Guava account from orbit. don't worry, @guavahealth.bsky.social, I'm still using the app just had to start over.
November 9, 2025 at 8:18 AM
trying to navigate the confusing world of community college politics when you have professors commenting on each others' policies in class is like being dumped into a maze where every wrong turn…
November 9, 2025 at 7:40 AM
SSA decided that the first confirmatory exam they are going to send me for is an ENT to find out if I am physically Deaf or what is going on there, and audiometry with word discrimination, which should be funny; I have very little word discrimination most days.

however. the exam is in Lancaster.
October 24, 2025 at 6:58 PM
bedtime.
October 13, 2025 at 11:31 AM
the ease with which I get called "sir" these days is amazing.
October 7, 2025 at 12:19 AM
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You weren’t “aloof”.

You were protecting your nervous system.

You weren’t “uninterested”.

You were overstimulated.

You weren’t “self-isolating”.

You were seeking safety.

They called it avoidance.

But it was preservation.

This is the life of the autistic human.
October 5, 2025 at 9:11 AM
& of course when I go to book my trip before going to bed (because it saves me doing so later), using the app, it says, "invalid booking Access time".

I don't know what in the seven hells that actually means.

I'm guessing the app doesn't want to work until business hours?
October 5, 2025 at 12:11 PM
amusingly some of them are blocking me before I block them back, means I got onto a list of some sort somewhere. isn't there a tool to see whose lists you're in?
October 5, 2025 at 12:02 PM
stop blaming peoples' unacceptable or violent behavior on mental illness.

point the blame at the feet of:

- maga
- the tea party garbage
- q-anon
- conspiracy theories

the modern far-right now has a martyr. don't let them use it.
October 5, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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The US arms Israel, protects Israel at the UN, pressures allies to support Israel, produces jokey AI videos, then wants credit for a peace plan?

Gaza is destroyed, tens of thousands are dead, many of them children, all with US blessing.

The US is a partner in this genocide, not a peacemaker.
October 4, 2025 at 10:36 PM