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oceans_of_mona 🏳️‍⚧️
@vanillablue.bsky.social
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Queer/trans/non-binary
Tri-Cities, WA ➡️ Bellingham ➡️Columbus
ADHD/AuDHD
Seattle Seahawks
Columbus Crew & Blue Jackets
Film dork/Blankie
Born into indie rock, moulded by it
Letterboxd https://boxd.it/2I4Dj
Sampler platter playlist http://bit.ly/3YZSNUd
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vanillablue.bsky.social
So, if you go to the Nordstrom Bistro at Easton, they'll let you order off the kid's menu, which has some totally different options than the main menu. Smaller portions, lower price. I love it 😁
Mona has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is wearing glasses with transparent frames. She has on grey eyeshadow, navy eyeliner, Russian Red lipstick. She is wearing a navy hoodie over a navy Seattle Seahawks shirt. She is wearing a grey skirt, white socks with blue stripes, and grey & blue Eddie Bauer hiking shoes.
November 13, 2025 at 11:42 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Went to the trouble of shaving my legs and my armpits this morning, so I hope y'all enjoy the yield of my labor. ☺️☺️
Mona is wearing a grey tank top over her grey Bewbus Maximus bra. She has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is femmed up with grey eyeshadow, navy eyeliner, and MAC Russian Red lipstick. In these 3 photos, Mona is wearing all of the above AND a navy knee length skirt, white socks with blue stripes, and grey and blue Eddie Bauer hiking shoes. Mona is wearing a grey tank top over her grey Bewbus Maximus bra. She has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is femmed up with grey eyeshadow, navy eyeliner, and MAC Russian Red lipstick.
November 13, 2025 at 7:08 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Yooo the weekend beacons! What cool stuff are y'all looking forward to? I'm psyched bc I have my kids this weekend—Looking forward to hanging out with them and watching the Seahawks together on Sunday 😊
Mona holds up an iced coffee while posted up at the Clintonville Cup O Joe. She has big blue Sony over-the-ear headphones on. She has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is wearing glasses with transparent frames. She has on grey eyeshadow, navy eyeliner, Russian Red lipstick. She is wearing a navy hoodie over a navy Seattle Seahawks shirt.
November 13, 2025 at 4:16 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Happy Thursday from the hamster wheel! 😊
Mona's at the gym on the elliptical machine! She has on a grey headband, big chonky black framed glasses, and a Seattle Seahawks Football shirt that is at least 17 years old.
November 13, 2025 at 12:56 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Movie night! Have heard really good things about the new Predator flick! 🍿🍿🍿
Mona takes a selfie in front of the IMAX poster for Predator: Badlands. She is wearing her Buster Keaton Blank Check nerd shirt. 🤓
November 13, 2025 at 12:18 AM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Glad I stumbled upon this! I made a distinction between my own gender identity/relationship with gender and the ways I present/how I intend/hope to be "read" by others. Also put the clean copy here too. #nonbinary #femby #transfem #agender #amabnonbinary #trans
A 6x6 table. Upper left (A1) is the "male" corner. Lower right (F6) is the "Female" corner. Lower left (F1) is the "Agender/Genderless" corner. Upper right (A6) is the "Genderqueer/gendered/non-binary" corner. Mona has added the label "My Internal Gender Identity" at the top. The squares F1-F4 are circled. A 6x6 table. Upper left (A1) is the "male" corner. Lower right (F6) is the "Female" corner. Lower left (F1) is the "Agender/Genderless" corner. Upper right (A6) is the "Genderqueer/gendered/non-binary" corner. Mona has added the label "How I Present/How I Hope to be Seen" at the top. The rage diagonally across the middle, covering the band connecting F1-A6, is labeled "Most of the time." The corner near F6 is labeled "Sometimes." A band from C/D 1-2 to A/B 3-4 is labeled "rarely." The corner near A1 is labeled "(almost) never." A 6x6 table. Upper left (A1) is the "male" corner. Lower right (F6) is the "Female" corner. Lower left (F1) is the "Agender/Genderless" corner. Upper right (A6) is the "Genderqueer/gendered/non-binary" corner.
November 12, 2025 at 8:26 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Putting these photos from yesterday together like this makes it look like these are headshots... For my 46D knockers! Hey-o! Just bc I don't put the goods on display everyday doesn't mean we're out of stock. All glory to my close personal friends Estradiol & Progesterone.🤩😍🤪🏳️‍⚧️
Four photos from yesterday where Mona is all femmed up, wearing silver eyeshadow, blue eyeliner, and red lipstick. She's wearing her Bewbus Maximus bra under a low cut v-neck red T-shirt.
November 12, 2025 at 6:02 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
OTD in 2022. I'm so fucking weird. 😂
November 12, 2025 at 3:02 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
OTD in 2006—My brother James and I got to watch the Seahawks beat the St. Louis Rams in dramatic fashion, 24-22, keyed by a 91-yard 4th quarter punt return TD by Nate Burleson. We got soaked to the bone but it was worth it! 💙💚🏈

(Yes, I'm wearing a Deion Branch jersey I bought in a fit of optimism)
A bunch of photos Mona took at the Seattle Seahawks vs St. Louis Rams game on November 12, 2006.
November 12, 2025 at 1:26 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Well, I think I found the main photo I'll be using on any/all dating apps for a while 😁🤪😁
Mona is all femmed up, wearing silver eyeshadow, blue eyeliner, and red lipstick. She's wearing her Bewbus Maximus bra under a low cut v-neck red T-shirt.
November 11, 2025 at 10:17 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Yoooo I'm messing around with a new lighting set up at my apartment bc I'm the vainest non-binary bitch alive 😂😁🤪💄🏳️‍⚧️
On the left, Mona looks casual as hell in her grey shirt with a green collar under a royal blue hoodie. No makeup. On the right she hit the va-voom button. All made up with silver eyeshadow, blue eyeliner, and red lipstick. Wearing her Bewbus Maximus bra under a low cut v-neck red T-shirt. In both pics, she has short dark hair with blue highlights.
November 11, 2025 at 9:37 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
11/11/06 (age 31) vs 11/11/25 (age 50). I've grown more comfy in my non-binary-ness... But facial hair is still a hard no. Waiting until my January appt to re-blue my hair is getting harder. I've gotten more aggressive about shaving my legs & armpits. So much gender stuff entangled w/hair for me.
On the left, 2006 egg Mona is on a flip phone of the era, and still has that full on denial beard. She is wearing a Seahawks logo and a Seahawks wordmark t-shirt. On the right, 2025 Mona has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is wearing a grey shirt with a green collar under a royal blue hoodie.
November 11, 2025 at 5:42 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
face + scent

(I'm obsessed with this SPECIFIC product from Bath & Body Works and am constantly at like Defcon 2 that they'll discontinue it and I'll need to hoard the remaining stock.)
Mona takes a selfie on November 11, 2025. She has short dark hair with blue highlights, and is wearing a grey shirt with a green collar under a royal blue hoodie. A photo of a tube of Bath & Body Works Warm Vanilla Sugar Moisturizing Body Wash.
November 11, 2025 at 12:46 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Wishing all my 12s a glorious #VictoryMonday from the winter wonderland of Columbus, Ohio. #Seahawks #GoHawks 💙💚🩶🏈
Mona takes a selfie wearing her Seahawks Victory Monday shirt, a royal blue hoodie, and a navy Seahawks/Kingdome throwback hat.
November 10, 2025 at 1:20 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Me 5 years ago today, apparently. My hair will be back to this color in less than 2 months. 💙💙💙
Nov 9, 2020 photo of Mona, who has short blue hair and is wearing red lipstick, foundation, pink-beige-ish eyeshadow, black eyeliner, and a low cut v-neck navy blue Seattle Seahawks shirt.
November 9, 2025 at 6:37 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
SUMMIT OF MONA FRONDS! Was great to get Grand Day & hit Japan Market Place with Rhea, Zoe, & Marj 🤩🤩🤩
Breakfast at Grand Day Cafe with Mona, Rhea, Zoe & Marj.
November 9, 2025 at 5:40 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
It's GameDay, 12s! 💚💙🩶🏈🤩

SEA!

#GoHawks #Seahawks
Mona takes a selfie wearing her Action Green Jaxon Smith-Njigba Seahawks jersey and a matching Seahawks logo hat.
November 9, 2025 at 2:36 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Bonus pics from my afternoon at Da Moveesh with my pal Rhea. I know I sound like an old person yelling at a cloud, but PLEASE try to go see Train Dreams (or del Toro's Frankenstein, or the upcoming new Knives Out movie) in a theater while you can rather than wait for it to hit Netflix.
Black & white photo of Mona seated with Rhea for a screening of Train Dreams at Gateway Film Center in Columbus on November 8, 2025. Mona is holding up a bag of sour patch kids for some reason. Black and white selfie of Mona in front of the big sign for the Gateway Film Center.
November 9, 2025 at 12:50 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
My updated 2025 Letterboxd Top 8:

1. SINNERS
2. Mickey 17
3. One Battle After Another
4. Sorry, Baby
5. Superman
6. 28 Years Later
7. Train Dreams
8. Black Bag
A screenshot of Mona's updated 2025 Letterboxd Top 8: 1. SINNERS 2. Mickey 17 3. One Battle After Another 4. Sorry, Baby 5. Superman 6. 28 Years Later 7. Train Dreams 8. Black Bag
November 9, 2025 at 1:32 AM
vanillablue.bsky.social
I had no idea the new connecting bridge/path for the Olentangy Trail in Clintonville was open. Neat! Bonus pic of me just bc I think it's a cool photo and I am terribly vain. 😊
Yoooo! This new pedestrian bridge over the Olentangy River in Clintonville is open! 🤩 Mona looking rad as hell in her big retro mirrored shades with a yellow frame that matches her Columbus Crew jersey. In the background, the bank of the mighty Olentangy River.
November 8, 2025 at 5:39 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Helllllll yeah I know the spot at my favorite restaurant (Tensuke Ramen on Old Henderson in Columbus) with the best lighting for selfies. 😂☺️🤪
Mona takes a selfie in the dining room at Tensuke Ramen on Old Henderson in Columbus. She is wearing a yellow Columbus Crew jersey. She has short dark hair with blue highlights.
November 8, 2025 at 4:10 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Getting ready to cheer on my beloved Columbus Crew in a playoff match, 11/8/15 vs 11/8/25. Ten years ago, #Crew96 beat the Montreal Impact to advance. Go forth and do likewise against FCC tonight, lads. #hellisreal #ColumbusCrew
On the left, in November 2015, Mona is all femmed up and ready to cheer on the Crew! She has blue hair in a short bob, glasses, and silver eyeshadow, black eyeliner, and red lipstick on. She is wearing a black Columbus Til I Die shirt under a Columbus Crew SC scarf. On the right, in November 2025, Mona has short dark hair with blue highlights. She is wearing a yellow Columbus Crew jersey.
November 8, 2025 at 2:14 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Prince Smartonius demanded the full English Breakfast, so I am (technically) awake 😴😂🥹🐈👑
Mona takes a selfie with her tabby kitten Smartie on her lap
November 8, 2025 at 12:04 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
In terms of makeup I'm wearing in these pics, it was:

—Ulta Perfect Matcha Eyeshadow Stick (with the Silver Lining flavor as eyeliner)

—Fujiko No Look Lip (Shade 01 - Rose)

—Neutrogena Shine Control Powder

—All applied on top of Cetaphil Oily Skin Oil Absorbing Moisturizer (SPF 30)

💄💄💄
Mona has short dark hair with blue highlights, and is wearing matcha green eyeshadow, silver eyeliner, and soft darkerish pink lipstick. In the top column, she is wearing a push up bra under a black low cut tank top. In the lower column, she is wearing a grey crew neck t-shirt over the same bra.
November 7, 2025 at 9:42 PM
vanillablue.bsky.social
Mixing it up for my remote work today. Fox in the Snow! Their biscuit w/jam = yum yum 😋
Mona holds up a cold brew she got at the Dublin location of Fox in the Snow Cafe. She's wearing that college navy # 14 Sam Darnold Seahawks jersey still. Nerd.
November 7, 2025 at 6:32 PM