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Becca
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Nonfiction/Reality TV Writer/Producer, Pizza lover, Dog Hugger. Ask me about unionizing all of nonfiction TV!!
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I'm sorry, I can't work today. I have books to read.
We just had a batch of fireworks, I think, in San Diego. It sounded really close!!
November 28, 2025 at 7:23 AM
I ordered 6 pairs of socks from Bombas. They sent me 3 pairs in the first package, and have now sent me 2 more, which leaves one more pair out there somewhere. This feels…wasteful.
November 26, 2025 at 6:53 AM
Jesus Christ just tell him people will like him if he extends them indefinitely. His rich buddies won't, but they don't actually get the money anyway. Can the Democratic leadership not read a few articles on Psychology Today about how to deal with narcissists before we all die? FFS.
NEW: Donald Trump says he wants ACA funds to end after 2025

“I’d rather not" extend them, he tells reporters on AF1. "I don’t want to extend them for two years. I’d rather not extend them at all."

He wants cash to go "directly" to people. Unclear how that'd work.

www.nbcnews.com/politics/don...
Trump says he would 'rather not' extend Obamacare tax credits 'at all'
The president said he prefers to let the Affordable Care Act subsidies expire on schedule at the end of December, saying if anything he wants the money to go to "the people directly."
www.nbcnews.com
November 26, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Make a seat I won't bump my knees on and I'll consider it. They are threatening to make us stand on planes. C'mon. Tell me you don't sit in coach without telling me you don't sit in coach.
November 26, 2025 at 3:43 AM
It's TV, but reboot Prey and Forever Knight, you cowards!!
If you were a despotic president, what movie would you force Hollywood to make? I want to see Quentin's Star Trek movie or maybe Kill Bill Vol 3.
November 26, 2025 at 3:40 AM
No, no, it's actually DELIGHTFUL when a brand who is already sending me 2-3 emails a day wants me to sign up for a text list to get early access to a sale when the whole reason I signed up for those emails is to get early access to a sale. Like, why are you gatekeeping me giving you money? WEIRD.
November 24, 2025 at 5:25 AM
First refuel for my new car. It wasn’t empty yet, but I have a lot of driving this week so I wanted to top off the tank. Bought about 7 gallons of fuel and spent $30. My last car needed a full refill once a month (I work from home) on which I’d spend about $60 for a 13 gal tank. Already saving!!!
November 23, 2025 at 10:54 PM
Someone is shooting a scene for something outside in front of my building and I am very tempted to peek outside but I don't want to ruin the shot (I have my blinds closed). This feels very hollywood, but they are taking a long time for run and gun.
November 23, 2025 at 2:00 AM
One thing is clear from today - Y’all really have not done enough reading on narcissists.
November 21, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Reposted by Becca
Earlier today, I was notified that someone was at my door.

This is who it was:
November 21, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Listened to Avery talk about the origins of camouflage today; wore my camo cardigan out into the LA rain this evening. If you’re curious about the history of fashion, particularly American cultural connections to fashion, check out this pod! podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a...
Gear: Chapter 5
Podcast Episode · Articles of Interest · S7 E6 · 58m
podcasts.apple.com
November 21, 2025 at 2:58 AM
Changing the definition of antisemitism to benefit yourself instead of Jews worldwide is narcissism.
On the left side, Yoram Hazony to Ross Douthat in the NYT, today. (www.nytimes.com/2025/11/20/o...)

On the right side, a headline in the Washington Post, also today. (wapo.st/3Mbd9a6)
November 20, 2025 at 6:38 PM
I had time today so I cleaned my fridge and wow, that thing was gross. It’s a good thing I’m the only person here. But now it’s clean! Yay! Will conquer the microwave tomorrow.
November 20, 2025 at 4:20 AM
Once again: my dad spent the last 10 years of his life trying to convince us we didn't need hot water for showers or washing dishes. He just didn't want to pay the bill anymore. So he made it a loyalty test. If you love him, you'll agree with him. That's what this is. That's what it always is.
Trump on climate change: "The world was gonna burn up, but it actually got much cooler. It's a little conspiracy. We have to investigate them immediately. They probably are being investigated."
November 19, 2025 at 5:33 PM
It’s so interesting who is encouraged to unionize and who isn’t. Who gets support and who doesn’t. Also interesting? Who shows support.
November 19, 2025 at 4:41 PM
Just had the least dramatic interaction with Spectrum ever to get my bill lowered! It's very silly that I have to call every year, but one of the women I spoke to actually told me to put it in my phone to remind me to call next year and check on discounts. But my bill is $60 lower+ higher speeds.
November 18, 2025 at 11:32 PM
One day, I may learn how I ended up on a text list for land owners in Beaufort, SC, but I will absolutely never be able to entirely get myself off the list, no matter how many times I tell them I have no property to sell.
November 18, 2025 at 8:01 PM
I know someone who used to tell me we didn’t need a union because we can just negotiate better rates but eventually even her EP-level negotiating power ran out because funding disappeared and she immediately about-faced. Negotiating is not possible when you aren’t in a position of power.
Trump: "THE ONLY HEALTHCARE I'LL SUPPORT OR APPROVE IS SENDING MONEY DIRECTLY BACK TO THE PEOPLE W/ NOTHING GOING TO THE BIG, FAT, RICH INSURANCE COMPANIES, WHO HAVE RIPPED OFF AMERICA LONG ENOUGH. THE PEOPLE WILL BE ALLOWED TO NEGOTIATE & BUY THEIR OWN, MUCH BETTER, INSURANCE. POWER TO THE PEOPLE!"
November 18, 2025 at 4:19 PM
I started a can of soda for the first time in several weeks yesterday around 3 PM. Around 5ish I dumped what was left. I think I drank about 3/4 of it? Anyway, I didn’t sleep a wink last night, so I guess that’s it for caffeine in my life. We had a good run!
November 18, 2025 at 2:12 AM
The call box on my apt building is analog and management has no interest in updating it because the landlady still has her landline. In her defense, reception in our neighborhood isn't great. In LA. I can only imagine rural coverage.
AT&T has been trying to get rid of landlines in California for YEARS because they are expensive and annoying to maintain, with shrinking market share. The people who use them, however, REALLY need them for safety and communication esp in rural areas with limited cell coverage.
They rely on copper landlines for emergencies. AT&T could threaten their lifeline
AT&T is fighting to ease regulations requiring landlines, which cost it $1 billion per year in California. It has spent big on lobbying.
calmatters.org
November 17, 2025 at 11:24 PM
I have done the thing where I call like a grownup and ask questions of the nice people at the insurance company and actually got answers that helped me figure things out instead of just winging it and it will actually save me some money.
November 17, 2025 at 9:41 PM
Watching the Ken Burns doc. I appreciate how far the team has come since the Civil War doc. Starting the narrative with the indigenous people already here is the correct choice in my humble producer-y opinion.
November 17, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Terrible, tragic news: they've changed the recipe for the TJ's dark chocolate covered peppermint Jo-Jos and the main taste is some sort of chemical. They're TERRIBLE.
November 16, 2025 at 11:23 PM
The most important thing to a narcissist is to be loved by everyone. BUT! Because they lack emotional maturity, their perception of "loved" is skewed, so generally, they perceive attention as people loving them. Exceptions: Don't believe whatever they say? Don't love them. Disagree? Don't love them.
November 16, 2025 at 6:06 PM
I have to run a few errands in the rain tomorrow and it is very distressing. I grew up in FL, so I can drive in the rain, but the rest of y'all? Not so much. Maybe just stay home? Tell your friends to stay home. Everyone stay home! LA STAY HOME! (except for me; I have stuff to do)
November 15, 2025 at 4:58 AM