The Poly Advisor (Michael E. Rubin)
thepolyadvisor.bsky.social
The Poly Advisor (Michael E. Rubin)
@thepolyadvisor.bsky.social
• Helping Humans ethically navigate Non-Monogamy
• On a mission to end toxic masculinity
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• @merubin75.bsky.social

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I agree with you on all of that.

I know there will be some folks who will quibble over the definitions and labels, but I’m ok with that. It will make people curious and some will ask questions to try and learn more.

Inspiring curiosity is always a win.
May 14, 2025 at 4:35 PM
Right there with you, amigo.
May 8, 2025 at 5:29 PM
My pleasure. 🥰
May 6, 2025 at 4:17 AM
That sounds heavenly. I love going to sleep with the window for open during a rainstorm.

Might I make a song recommendation? “I Can’t Stand the Rain.” Either the original by Ann Peebles or this amazing 1975 slow jam by Graham Central Station. #OldSchoolRnB

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I Can't Stand the Rain
YouTube video by Graham Central Station - Topic
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May 6, 2025 at 1:48 AM
That’s good advice. Do you have a boundary that you’d recommend in particular?
May 6, 2025 at 12:33 AM
It’s all part of the new normal.
May 4, 2025 at 1:46 AM
You’re not wrong. Drama keeps the cortisol — and the dollars and clicks — flowing.
May 3, 2025 at 11:11 PM
“Captain. What is this word you keep using: ‘love’?”
May 3, 2025 at 10:55 AM
Or this from Star Trek V? “Please, Captain. Not in front of the Klingons.”
May 2, 2025 at 8:58 PM
It reminds me of Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home when the alien probe tries to commubicate with whales, but they’ve gone extinct. “Only human arrogance would insist that the message must be meant for Man.”

And yes, I agree. I dig yours as well. :)
May 2, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Just this morning, I was wondering what would happen if aliens arrivged to Earth and tried to communicate with ants instead of humans.
May 2, 2025 at 6:46 PM
This is actually how I meditate. Although I don’;t scream it aloud, I alternate between mindful breathing and mindful exorcising. :)
May 2, 2025 at 6:44 PM