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#BLM #ACAB
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Long and short of it?
If you're going to move past the abuse you've sustained, you also have to move past the version of you that survived it.
If you continue to identify with that version of you, you're only going to seek the patterns that keep you there.
If you're going to move past the abuse you've sustained, you also have to move past the version of you that survived it.
If you continue to identify with that version of you, you're only going to seek the patterns that keep you there.
November 28, 2025 at 3:44 PM
Long and short of it?
If you're going to move past the abuse you've sustained, you also have to move past the version of you that survived it.
If you continue to identify with that version of you, you're only going to seek the patterns that keep you there.
If you're going to move past the abuse you've sustained, you also have to move past the version of you that survived it.
If you continue to identify with that version of you, you're only going to seek the patterns that keep you there.
Even I found myself guilty of falling into that trap several times.
What mattered was knowing that the best thing I could do is look for a way out of that cycle. Look for a way to heal. Look for ways to cultivate more happiness in a world of cruelty, even just a little bit.
What mattered was knowing that the best thing I could do is look for a way out of that cycle. Look for a way to heal. Look for ways to cultivate more happiness in a world of cruelty, even just a little bit.
November 28, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Even I found myself guilty of falling into that trap several times.
What mattered was knowing that the best thing I could do is look for a way out of that cycle. Look for a way to heal. Look for ways to cultivate more happiness in a world of cruelty, even just a little bit.
What mattered was knowing that the best thing I could do is look for a way out of that cycle. Look for a way to heal. Look for ways to cultivate more happiness in a world of cruelty, even just a little bit.
I watched a former friend spiral into starting one fight after another, using her own trauma as rationalization for attacking everyone and eventually attacking her closest friends.
We all knew she deserved better, but she was never going to stop using her victimhood to justify being a tyrant.
We all knew she deserved better, but she was never going to stop using her victimhood to justify being a tyrant.
November 28, 2025 at 3:22 PM
I watched a former friend spiral into starting one fight after another, using her own trauma as rationalization for attacking everyone and eventually attacking her closest friends.
We all knew she deserved better, but she was never going to stop using her victimhood to justify being a tyrant.
We all knew she deserved better, but she was never going to stop using her victimhood to justify being a tyrant.
Real love is stable... Real friendships are stable...
The foundations aren't shakable and basic kindness never feels like it has to be earned.
Any lacking in that stability, and it's just going to be one tower moment after another.
The foundations aren't shakable and basic kindness never feels like it has to be earned.
Any lacking in that stability, and it's just going to be one tower moment after another.
November 28, 2025 at 6:54 AM
Real love is stable... Real friendships are stable...
The foundations aren't shakable and basic kindness never feels like it has to be earned.
Any lacking in that stability, and it's just going to be one tower moment after another.
The foundations aren't shakable and basic kindness never feels like it has to be earned.
Any lacking in that stability, and it's just going to be one tower moment after another.
Omg that's GORGEOUS!
November 27, 2025 at 1:14 AM
Omg that's GORGEOUS!
They already did. There's a Sephora ad where she basically gave a big "fuck you" to poor people and that's resulting in a boycott of Black Friday.
November 27, 2025 at 12:57 AM
They already did. There's a Sephora ad where she basically gave a big "fuck you" to poor people and that's resulting in a boycott of Black Friday.
A lot of what I went through in my 20s I wouldn't wish on anybody.
If I can help someone out there with feeling less alone? Even just a little bit? I then I'm doing something right.
If I can help someone out there with feeling less alone? Even just a little bit? I then I'm doing something right.
November 26, 2025 at 8:56 PM
A lot of what I went through in my 20s I wouldn't wish on anybody.
If I can help someone out there with feeling less alone? Even just a little bit? I then I'm doing something right.
If I can help someone out there with feeling less alone? Even just a little bit? I then I'm doing something right.
In this analogy the bullies *are* the hurricane, but that also works. lol
November 26, 2025 at 8:47 PM
In this analogy the bullies *are* the hurricane, but that also works. lol
The best thing you can do with bullies and haters?
Treat them like a hurricane.
Hunker down, lock in, and keep existing in spite of the torrential rain and heavy winds blowing your roof off.
Don't allow yourself to get swept up in the cyclone.
Treat them like a hurricane.
Hunker down, lock in, and keep existing in spite of the torrential rain and heavy winds blowing your roof off.
Don't allow yourself to get swept up in the cyclone.
November 26, 2025 at 8:26 PM
The best thing you can do with bullies and haters?
Treat them like a hurricane.
Hunker down, lock in, and keep existing in spite of the torrential rain and heavy winds blowing your roof off.
Don't allow yourself to get swept up in the cyclone.
Treat them like a hurricane.
Hunker down, lock in, and keep existing in spite of the torrential rain and heavy winds blowing your roof off.
Don't allow yourself to get swept up in the cyclone.
I have just as much faith that Animorphs would be in good hands with Glitch the same way I have faith that Science Saru will knock Ghost in the Shell out of the park.
November 26, 2025 at 6:58 PM
I have just as much faith that Animorphs would be in good hands with Glitch the same way I have faith that Science Saru will knock Ghost in the Shell out of the park.
80-hour work weeks in dark offices, crunch time where you spend days away from home, the lack of compensation and awful pay, and the fact that it's almost entirely contract-based.
Stakes are so high and morale is so worn down that fist fights and emotional breakdowns occur pretty regularly.
Stakes are so high and morale is so worn down that fist fights and emotional breakdowns occur pretty regularly.
November 26, 2025 at 4:28 PM
80-hour work weeks in dark offices, crunch time where you spend days away from home, the lack of compensation and awful pay, and the fact that it's almost entirely contract-based.
Stakes are so high and morale is so worn down that fist fights and emotional breakdowns occur pretty regularly.
Stakes are so high and morale is so worn down that fist fights and emotional breakdowns occur pretty regularly.