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PHLsuburbandom
@phlsuburbandom.bsky.social
Philly suburbs dom that’s actually just a big nerd who likes to read (and tie up men and degrade them)

Consider myself an accommodating dom—love helping subs with their fantasies

Recon, Fetlife, Venmo: PHLsuburbandom

https://linktr.ee/phlsuburbandom
Spending my Thanksgiving cooking while listening to smut. It’s the perfect way to spend the afternoon.
November 27, 2025 at 5:41 PM
Today I reached my goal of 150 books read for 2025. Want to especially thank all of the subs that keep me well read. Over 1/3 of the books funded by subs and another 1/3 from the library.

Still 1.5 months left and plenty in my TBR.

Btw I’m coming back online lol needed time
November 16, 2025 at 10:44 PM
Who what’s to come over and play?
#fcf
May 16, 2025 at 6:02 PM
Sometimes when you’re doing something nerve wracking like sounding, it’s good to give your sub something to focus on—-like hot wax dripping on their chest.
March 24, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Imagine starting your work week still feeling the sting on your ass from the night before.
March 24, 2025 at 12:32 PM
Hey, he said be brutal.
March 24, 2025 at 4:29 AM
Lol my masochist sub I’m seeing tonight seems to be challenging me.
March 24, 2025 at 12:57 AM
Always been a leather guy, but I’m really starting to see the appeal here.
March 22, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Happy Friday to all my locked subs :)
March 21, 2025 at 5:57 PM
No notes. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
March 19, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Hunger games obsession is fully back. This book is so good.
March 19, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Green? For St. Paddy’s Day? Groundbreaking.
March 18, 2025 at 2:40 AM
NSFW AUDIO🔈

Something a little different for today. Last night I had a gloved edging session with a sub I’m training and brainwashing. Grab your headphones and listen to all the intoxicating sounds he makes for me.
March 17, 2025 at 1:06 PM
“Who do you belong to?”
“You, Sir.”
March 17, 2025 at 5:00 AM
You should know that if you’re going to leak precum all over my gloves, you’re going to have to lick them clean.
March 15, 2025 at 7:02 PM
What a coincidence. Look what showed up at my doorstep today.
March 15, 2025 at 6:49 PM
I did fill out the stuff for JFF but on the fence about following through with it. Feel like it’s a big decision.
March 14, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Definitely! 1 there’s a lid to every pot. Not everyone will like what you like, but the internet is great for finding community. 2 it’s supposed to be fun and enjoyable. Explore with someone knowledgeable that you trust and make sure you like it. 3 communication, consent, and trust are essential.
March 14, 2025 at 7:33 PM
Yes. Recently wrote about it on my fetlife page. It really depends on the situation and the guy. While I try to say yes to my sub’s ideas, that one I turn down way more than I say yes to. Can talk more in dm if interested.
March 14, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I play hockey and lacrosse (goalie). My equipment is old & so smelly I have to keep it in the shed. It’s also basically held together with tape. Personally, I don’t find sports gear attractive, but I love indulging in a sub’s fantasy. I would probably need to invest in new gear though.
March 14, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Yes, but not as often as I’d like. I’ve had a few subs lately with a desire for ruined food—food I’ve stepped on, spit on, thrown on the floor, etc. I haven’t had a WAM sub in so long and, especially with today being PI Day, I’d love to make a sub into a disgusting mess soon.
March 14, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Similar to my thoughts on being vers, I think a dom should know how to submit and it makes them a better and more informed dom. Also, like being vers, I feel like I so rarely submit I can barely call myself a switch and I am quite bratty and dominant.
March 14, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Im trying to stick to a monthly budget and I’m failing haha

A custom wolf hood from @mistrbear.bsky.social, an old school canvas straight jacket, a latex @furrjoi.com drone hood, or a latex rubber short sleeve suit (feel free to recommend vendors), or wait and get a leather sleepsack.
March 14, 2025 at 6:50 PM
A hard question to answer because it changes often. My current fantasy is to get a sub in a canvas straight jacket. Popper him up and tease and edge him with my leather gloves. Maybe tickle him, spank him raw, or shock him with estim. Never let him cum and throat train him until he’s gagging.
March 14, 2025 at 6:33 PM
When a submissive boy is active and willing in his submission. When I give him a command or spit in his face and he makes unbreaking eye contact, accepts his position, and says “thank you, Sir.” Enthusiasm and confidence in submission drives me absolutely feral.
March 14, 2025 at 6:24 PM