felt

I’m a total luddite when it comes to these apps like Snapchat, TikTok & Instagram etc
it was just not my scene & now I only really use them because Im in love with a girl lol

she knows more about these apps even though shes older than me
so it feels funny because Im the more tech literate one

oh Snapchat is the worst, I hate the unintuitive UI

I literally only use it because its where Ruby sends me spicy stuff sometimes lmao

you do deserve that hun, you deserve to feel ownership of your body
sometimes that’s organic, other times that’s through modern alchemy and fleshcrafting ~

it’ll be wonderful for you 💕

it is a lot,,
you’re multiplicatively marginalized
it’s why in a deeply fatphobic society like ours, fat liberation is just as integral to trans liberation as any other part of a truly solidarity based movement

we all, especially fat people, deserve to enjoy a meal shamelessly like anyone else 💕

Id say its doubly hard on us trans girls because our body image is tied into our sense of safety & survival

you are not a failure if you might not meet certain standards
but saying so does not make things easier to feel at home in your body when coming to love it is farther from mind than surviving

that’s a massive struggle in these things & it’s a thing I try to be cautious about as a thinner person, is not overly objectifying aspects of someone else’s body that they struggle with

dysmorphia & societal expectations are beasts to wrangle, kink & love can help, but ultimately it’s an inner war

no shame in the occasional indulgence and being a creature of comfort ~
I know what it is to get lost in snacking even if one deserves more of a meal 😘

hehe
happy to sell it 😆

but I mean, I’d be lying if I said it was all wholesome
like, the tenderness & sensuality is as much a part of it as is my raw sexual attraction to fat bodies & stuffing someone with rich foods untill they’re helpless under my hands~

its still kink & celebration of taboo 😝

gosh, yeah, can’t deny I like the mechanical aspects and sounds of swallowing 😵‍💫💦

simple chocolate milk often comes into play with my wife and I hehe 😋

thats part of the delight in it for me
seeing someone become more comfortable in their body

the ability to fulfill someone with food, sex and the crossing of different pleasures and make them feel worshiped in their soft form

For someone to grow softer in love, is richly indulgent & kinky to me~

big feels there, which is part of the reason I never really thought about it on a food by food basis, because, again, to me it’s like of a means to the end

What’s sexy is seeing someone’s enjoyment and their fullness and fulfillment

something’s though can absolutely be eaten more sensually 🥰

like I guess it depends, because sometimes messy is cute other times its not

then theres decadence versus depravity (like cheesecake versus a stick of butter 😝💀)

I think pizza is a good standard, has variety, is accessible, middle ground on mess, can be healthier or not, generally looks cute eaten