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TheMerMolly- she/her/mer
@mollyandthecat.bsky.social
I am a nonbinary xenogender AuDHD published poet, essayist, bookworm & mermaid!
I 🩵 books, cats, candles, piano, gardening, skiing, hiking, baking, embroidery, coffee, trauma recovery & growing my hair.
Eeeeek! My book arrived…with mildew lurking between its pages. I would not call that a “good condition” used book. Would you?

I’ll be returning it and have already ordered a new (unused) copy.

I’m still SO excited to read this book, when my new copy arrives! ☺️

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#BookSky
December 9, 2025 at 2:46 AM
Time for my next book! I held the library book in my hand for about five seconds and swiftly borrowed the kindle version. It’s so heavy! Hahaha!

I hope to get up to date on Susanna Kearsley’s books over the next year or so. Only 8 books to go!

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#BookSky #library
December 9, 2025 at 1:21 AM
Edges are done. Next are the sparkly pieces!

🎄🧩✨🧩🎄
December 8, 2025 at 10:06 PM
Oh my goodness! So many natural waves today.

🧜‍♀️✨🌊
December 8, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Such beautiful cookies!! I’m excited to see how the coffee flavor comes through after a night of resting the dough.

🍪👩‍🍳🍪

#baking #chocolatechipcookies
December 8, 2025 at 9:01 PM
I’m always going to do this with our Christmas trees. Too bad it took me six years to realize how helpful it was! 😂

🎄✨🎄
December 8, 2025 at 6:24 PM
Little things that improve a difficult morning- an impromptu stop at the coffee shop for an overflowing Chestnut Praline Latte, reading cookbooks, and some excellent Floor Time with my kitty! Her fur is SO bright white! 🤭

🌰☕️🐈‍⬛

#FloorTime #cat #CatSky #coffee #CatsOfBlueSky #anxiety #selfadvocacy
December 8, 2025 at 6:01 PM
Advocating for myself can be hard but I did it!

I was anxious on my way to vestibular PT, so I sat on their floor reading a cookbook and breathing.

I asked for my discharge date to be next week instead of 12/30 (especially since the original discharge was supposed to be last week).

Good job me! 👏
December 8, 2025 at 4:26 PM
A #DNF this morning after reading 1/4 of the book.

The use of AS instead of Asperger Syndrome (now ASD 1) tripped me up. I had to “translate” AS every time.

The wording was not inclusive nor allowing for fluidity of the vast SPECTRUM of #autistic traits.

(I know the book is dated.)

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#BookSky
December 8, 2025 at 2:50 PM
I’m a mermaid. 🧜‍♀️

#autism #gender #autistic #nonbinary
December 8, 2025 at 2:27 PM
Time for a little bit of reading and sipping of coffee before heading off to vestibular PT!

I love starting my day off with coffee and a book in low light.

What are you reading today?

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#BookSky

I think the VPT place is milking my insurance for money. We should have ended services already. 🤔
December 8, 2025 at 2:20 PM
The 9/11 one just gave me goosebumps.

I mention it rarely but I woke up on 9/11 knowing something awful would happen. The events occurred a few hours later.

My mom and I both knew/know when death is coming. For me it’s famous people and residents at my work. For her it was her dad and dorm mother.
December 8, 2025 at 4:37 AM
Ross brought me my book.

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#BookSky #CatSky
December 8, 2025 at 4:25 AM
If you need me, I’m stuck here happily here with a cat on my foot. 🤭

#CatSky #CatsOfBlueSky
December 8, 2025 at 4:01 AM
The cookies with coffee grounds added are divine! Espresso-fine grounds melted into the dough and made the chocolate even more delicious.

10 cookies from the batch will be Christmas goodies for three people. I’ll bake them each the day I see them.

🍪🤎🍪

#baking #chocolatechipcookies
December 8, 2025 at 1:18 AM
My gigantic little cookie dough babies. 🤩

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#cookies #bakijg #chocolatechipcookies
December 8, 2025 at 12:10 AM
I love love LOVE Stacy Willingham! Have to read Forget Me Not yet??

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#BookSky #audiobook
December 7, 2025 at 11:00 PM
Cookie time!!!!!

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#baking #chocolatechipcookies

Meow!

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#cat !
December 7, 2025 at 10:50 PM
My first step to making the best chocolate chip cookies ever - making browned butter!

Today, I’m adding espresso-fine coffee grounds to the dough!

🍪👩‍🍳🍪

#baking #chocolatechipcookies #brownedbutter
December 7, 2025 at 10:20 PM
Between August and December, I keep my eye out for my favorite tea company’s holiday teas. The only ones I found around town were the few I’m either allergic to or find too sweet. This morning I remembered there’s this thing called online ordering. 😂

I’ve found NEW flavors and have #tea for a year!
December 7, 2025 at 5:13 PM
I love making #waffles but hate cleaning the waffle maker. I’ve learned I clean it way too well. My sister makes a “sacrificial waffle” each time that “cleans” it. In-laws pop a damp paper towel in there to gather up all the stuff with the lowest heat setting. I go at it like an archaeologist. Oops!
December 7, 2025 at 4:25 PM
December 7, 2025 at 3:56 PM
Cinnamon waffle batter is resting.

#Cat is sillying.

Holiday decor is sparkling.

Pumpkin chai candle is filling the room.

Sunday Baroque public radio is soft.

These things fill my heart.

Time to read Aspergirls and sip my espresso made lovingly by Ross before the waffles cook!
#BookSky #baking
December 7, 2025 at 3:45 PM
This will be our new Christmas tree! A smaller tree with no lights (what we had decided we preferred for our next tree earlier this year). At least we got 6 years out of our first tree! It was a great tree!

Our new tree should arrive the 12th-16th. Then, I can decorate the it!!

🎄✨🎄
December 7, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Baked potatoes with puréed centers topped with gravy and some of the turkey from Thanksgiving made a delicious dinner. I think I’ll always purée the potatoes when baking them AND boiling!

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December 7, 2025 at 2:34 AM