Yeah think it’s the same regardless of depth, typically 3 months. That my experience as well, but I wasn’t trying to rush anything. So I waited 3 months before really trying much of anything. Tho I also heal quickly, so mileage may vary

Time is relatiiiiiive

Local woman asking the internet why people act unoptimally calls getting ready for bed at 3am a reasonable hour.

But how will we be a perfect individual consuming units for capitalism if we learn how to connect with community. How can we remain content with our extraction of resources if we develop empathy? Truly tough times for white masculine america 😅😅😅

yeah. I think it’s very American individuality culture. Many of us were raised to be self sustaining problem solvers. Cause our parents certainly weren’t going to handle our emotions. Most of us aren’t the best emotional regulators so I find it unsurprising many fall short for partners

People deal with emotions differently. And everyone literally doesn’t know. I get it tho and I would try to ask or be gentle. But my mind jumps to solution building. Cause that’s what I do when I feel emotions too lol. That’s how I self sooth. Even if it’s not ideal

Usually best to ask what a person needs when they’re venting. It’s all miscommunication with intent to help. Talking to people in crisis is a learned skill through trial and error unfortunately. Especially if both people are in crisis

This hypothetical also doesn’t indicate severity. A less severe situation this may be more helpful and practical. A high severity situation it’s probs less helpful and better to focus on how they feel.

This nuance is likely lost to some autistic or less tactful people.

Think it’s just a “different people” thing. Like #1 can literally help some people emotionally regulate.

I think to some people that’s how they problem solve. Understanding the problem, considering the angles. They trying to help. Tho they likely lack tact about it.

Get quested fool

lol oh noooooo 😭

Clout chaser lol

JAPAN ONLY :((((((((((((

Finally all of the inner senshi are complete!
It will be a while before starting the outers

The bit of Gundam Wing Ui continues

PLEASE. And make it super cheesy too

Getting close to the end of the show. All these poor emo space boys