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Lily Shears 🏳️‍⚧️
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Your 42yo Enby Transbian Aunt. Mother of One, and Divorcee. Recovering Optical Engineering PhD. Poly by accident, and that's fine 😁
Something that people Cant-o get right, apparently
November 27, 2025 at 3:53 AM
The disappearance of support networks like extended family has also made it harder to be a happy, calm, kind caregiver

I don't blame my son for this, but he was sleeping 4 non-consecutive hours a night all the way into elementary school. I can tell he suffered through parents in survival mode.
November 26, 2025 at 7:47 PM
The way he's piling them, like identical Tetris blocks, is unfortunate. Bricks, like most materials, are strong in one direction, and weak in another. Bricks are good at being compressed, which he isn't taking advantage of, and bad with shear pressure, the direction these things will be strained
November 26, 2025 at 10:36 AM
Yah. I suppose this is why I acquired both my partners through shit posting
November 24, 2025 at 9:49 AM
I feel like Matt Yglesias should not be so easy to recognize here. He's just a bald guy in glasses!
November 22, 2025 at 8:50 PM