Calder 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@ktg48.bsky.social
Gay trans guy living in SF. Activist, papa, husband, boy, Taurus, Swiftie, gym rat, mostly vegetarian. Kept alive by community, beach objects, theatre & books.
That seems to be their preference!
November 27, 2025 at 9:20 PM
That seems to be their preference!
Yup. I am guessing they’re trying to get out in front of the Trump admin threatening to cut off Medicare funding for anyone who offers pediatric GAC.
November 27, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Yup. I am guessing they’re trying to get out in front of the Trump admin threatening to cut off Medicare funding for anyone who offers pediatric GAC.
Hahahaha yes, I gotcha - the concept of a pizza vending machine alone was enough to put me over the edge
November 22, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Hahahaha yes, I gotcha - the concept of a pizza vending machine alone was enough to put me over the edge
Same! I literally could not spot the little face until it was expressly pointed out to me 🤣 I will pass on your words 😁
November 21, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Same! I literally could not spot the little face until it was expressly pointed out to me 🤣 I will pass on your words 😁
This is way out of line. I started today by reading (/crying my way through) the personal stories of TDoR in a past piece of Katelyn’s. There’s no one way to mark this day, and trans people all have a right to put their energy wherever it feels good to them. Can we please not police each other?
November 21, 2025 at 6:18 AM
This is way out of line. I started today by reading (/crying my way through) the personal stories of TDoR in a past piece of Katelyn’s. There’s no one way to mark this day, and trans people all have a right to put their energy wherever it feels good to them. Can we please not police each other?
I send my husband and kids my favorite internet find of the day, and today’s was Fred. I told them I couldn’t figure out his arrangement, and my kid sent me back this - thought you might appreciate 😆
November 21, 2025 at 4:25 AM
I send my husband and kids my favorite internet find of the day, and today’s was Fred. I told them I couldn’t figure out his arrangement, and my kid sent me back this - thought you might appreciate 😆
It was mutual. She very much took us in, too. 😻
November 20, 2025 at 9:30 PM
It was mutual. She very much took us in, too. 😻
She is my first! She was a stray - a totally abandoned street cat, starving, fleas, the works. She came inside and now runs the entire household. We are all her willing subordinates.
November 20, 2025 at 8:30 PM
She is my first! She was a stray - a totally abandoned street cat, starving, fleas, the works. She came inside and now runs the entire household. We are all her willing subordinates.
I have one of these magical creatures too!!
November 20, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I have one of these magical creatures too!!
Nope nope nope nope nope
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November 20, 2025 at 3:50 PM
Nope nope nope nope nope
No, I haven’t; I didn’t realize such a trove existed. ;) I’ll go look. Not looking to be incendiary intentionally.
November 19, 2025 at 5:05 PM
No, I haven’t; I didn’t realize such a trove existed. ;) I’ll go look. Not looking to be incendiary intentionally.
Yep. They’re also about to slash pediatric gender affirming care nationwide by threatening to cut Medicare funding to any hospital that offers it. The entire healthcare landscape is grim af.
November 19, 2025 at 5:04 PM
Yep. They’re also about to slash pediatric gender affirming care nationwide by threatening to cut Medicare funding to any hospital that offers it. The entire healthcare landscape is grim af.
Just curious: has Erin done something unsavory?
November 19, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Just curious: has Erin done something unsavory?
K bye, it’s been pleasant. If this is your version of a big tent you’re shit at it 😆
November 19, 2025 at 3:14 PM
K bye, it’s been pleasant. If this is your version of a big tent you’re shit at it 😆
Hon, I’m 50 years old and love history. It is time for something different. Democrats pandering to mythical centrists is not it. I suggest you look at the demographics of Mamdani’s win, ie the LGBTQ vote. If y’all want the queer vote, you are going to need to change your tune.
November 19, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Hon, I’m 50 years old and love history. It is time for something different. Democrats pandering to mythical centrists is not it. I suggest you look at the demographics of Mamdani’s win, ie the LGBTQ vote. If y’all want the queer vote, you are going to need to change your tune.
Also, trans women are not taking a goddamn thing from women’s spaces and you should be ashamed for insinuating such a thing. Women’s rights are indeed hard won - and won for ALL women, of every kind, under the sun.
November 19, 2025 at 1:42 AM
Also, trans women are not taking a goddamn thing from women’s spaces and you should be ashamed for insinuating such a thing. Women’s rights are indeed hard won - and won for ALL women, of every kind, under the sun.
Hahahahhaaaaa
Honey, I’m a trans man. Shows how much you can “tell.” Nature comes in many forms, variants exist everywhere. They’re big concepts but if you work hard you can learn them.
In the meantime, enjoy all the other benefits of science and medicine that you surely take advantage of!
Honey, I’m a trans man. Shows how much you can “tell.” Nature comes in many forms, variants exist everywhere. They’re big concepts but if you work hard you can learn them.
In the meantime, enjoy all the other benefits of science and medicine that you surely take advantage of!
November 19, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Hahahahhaaaaa
Honey, I’m a trans man. Shows how much you can “tell.” Nature comes in many forms, variants exist everywhere. They’re big concepts but if you work hard you can learn them.
In the meantime, enjoy all the other benefits of science and medicine that you surely take advantage of!
Honey, I’m a trans man. Shows how much you can “tell.” Nature comes in many forms, variants exist everywhere. They’re big concepts but if you work hard you can learn them.
In the meantime, enjoy all the other benefits of science and medicine that you surely take advantage of!
What the fuck have they even left to demolish. JFC.
November 19, 2025 at 12:10 AM
What the fuck have they even left to demolish. JFC.