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janloma.bsky.social
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🏳️‍⚧️ she/they, 26, transfem nonbinary
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katie.bzky.team
transness is a gift. i need every trans woman to understand that by nature of their existence they have been blessed with the ability to pluck the strands of fate with their hands if they choose to. it is not always easy and it is not without hardship but every trans woman is capable of greatness.
November 14, 2025 at 1:15 AM
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mel.bzky.team
happy trans day of remaining the fuck alive
November 21, 2025 at 2:20 AM
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halfbakedrhymes.com
I've said it once and I'll say it again. Hedonism is an incredible way to live in the face of fascism.

Don't let anyone take your joy.
November 17, 2025 at 4:45 AM
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charlottetangle.bsky.social
lrt THIS IS WHAT I KEEP SAYING TO PEOPLE, YOU DONT HAVE TO MAKE THE BEST THING THAT'S EVER EXISTED, YOU JUST HAVE TO MAKE. you will make it better than a computer. you will probably make it better than a large part of other humans, too, but even if you don't, you Have to Make It! quoth the Man Ever:
Quote by kurt vonnegut: "Go into the arts. I'm not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow, for heavens sake. Sing in the shower. Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something."
October 5, 2025 at 8:21 PM
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ket.bsky.social
there's always someone who needs to read this so i am doing my traditional linking of @nataliereed84.bsky.social's "the null hypothecis" when gatekeeping is on the tl:
freethoughtblogs.com/nataliereed/...
After all, surely if we’re going to risk so much, put so much at stake, in such a monumental “decision”, we should approach it carefully, and make sure to be certain, right? Shouldn’t we be looking for proof that we’re trans before gambling our whole lives on that being the case? Well, maybe… if proof of being trans was even really something possible, beyond the simple proof of subjectively experiencing your identity and gender as such. But more importantly: we never ask ourselves for “proof” that we’re cis. Cis is treated as the null hypothesis. It doesn’t require any evidence. It’s just the assumed given. All suspects are presumed cisgender until proven guilty of transsexuality in a court of painful self-exploration. But this isn’t a viable, logical, “skeptical” way to approach the situation. In fact it’s not a case of a hypothesis being weighed against a null hypothesis (like “there’s a flying teapot orbiting the Earth” vs. “there is no flying teapot orbiting the Earth”), it is simply two competing hypotheses. Two hypotheses that should be held to equal standards and their likelihood weighed against one another. And of course the entire gatekeeping procedure is an extreme externalization of this entrenched cisnormativity, the assumption that cis is so incredibly “normal” that it’s the null hypothesis, that the burden of proof falls entirely on the hypothesis that the patient is trans, that she must meet a number of strict criteria before her claims to her gender identity will be accepted as true. At no point in the conventional gatekeeping model is the doctor ever expected to provide any evidence proving the contrary position, that the patient is really cis. And if a doctor or therapist suggests some possible theory for why a cis patient would become “duped” into believing himself transgender, again the burden of proof falls to the patient to falsify their assertion rather than for them to falsify her’s. This whole idea that your subjective identity can’t be legitimate unless you’re somehow able to back it up with objective evidence is a pretty awful situation to be put in, especially when you’re inflicting it on yourself, given how any “proof” of being trans is entirely dependent on subjective experience. What proves that you’re trans is only to understand yourself as trans. When dealing with gatekeepers and family and the numerous external forces that would deny us our identities, it’s not such a crippling situation, because at least we know, and we are the proof, and beyond that it’s simply a matter of figuring out what they think would count as “proof” and what exactly they need to see or hear to believe you (if anything). But when imposing this situation on yourself, when the only possible actual certainty is in accepting and understanding yourself as trans, but you refuse to accept and understand yourself as such until you have that certainty… you’ve created an impossible situation for yourself.
October 5, 2025 at 8:38 PM
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deviantdivine.bsky.social
Weird how this *remains relevant*
A Tumblr post from the-modern-typewriter reading: "How can you not be angry?" am angry" the werewolf said. "But unlike you, don't have the luxury of showing it without being called a monster. Without someone taking it as a sign of proof thatI need to be put down like a rabid dog, that I'm just like what the stories tell you." "But everyone gets angry...that's human." "Up until the point when you're not human" And the response from mckitterick: such a wonderful metaphor for anyone Othered by society
September 21, 2025 at 8:20 PM
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bundleofstyxx.bsky.social
Everyone moralizing and trying to fit drugs into their ideology of puritanical sobriety is going to get people killed. Everyone can nod and understand popping a painkiller when your leg is shattered.

but when the pain is psychic, when it’s the gnawing repetition of being trans and disposable
September 16, 2025 at 9:15 PM
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badambulist.bsky.social
Sometimes a memory just comes for you. One time, early in transition, I was waiting in my shitty old Nova with another trans girl for a third to emerge from her block. And the girl I was with was like, girls bounce when they walk, yeah? We should look for that, we'll see her in the crowd.
September 15, 2025 at 6:47 PM
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w0lfertinger666.bsky.social
i hate the idea of minorities, ESPECIALLY TRANS PEOPLE AND POC, having to be kind to their oppressors and beg for compassion and forgiveness that shit has gotten us NOWHERE and honestly just sets us back farther.

fuck your liberal garbage.
August 31, 2025 at 7:43 PM
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snekofspice.bsky.social
you deserve all the love in the world, especially if you're a fucked up online girlthing <3

play lonerdog snekofspice.itch.io/loner-dog
LONER_DOG://Snuff Puppy Carnage Society by Snek RK
the air reeks of dead dogs
snekofspice.itch.io
July 29, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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chowdzz.tgirl.gay
If you're legitimately scared of diyhrt then I hate to break it to you. But you're the biggest dork alive and rely too hard on the government to hold your hand about your own gender
July 31, 2025 at 1:10 PM
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eva.computer
HRT and trans medicine is a scientific miracle
August 8, 2025 at 5:17 PM
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crimew.gay
i am now officially the first 26 year old to still be in its early twenties
August 6, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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shirleymansbeen.transsexual.gay
as a transsexual it is vital that you are team drugs and weird porn
July 24, 2025 at 10:09 AM
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sarasoci.al
if you are a practitioner with a say in what your trans patients are allowed to do with their bodies, the bare fucking minimum is actually just closing your eyes and ears and saying "yes" unconditionally
July 23, 2025 at 2:32 AM
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broadwaybabyto.bsky.social
Today I was told that if I can’t at least cook simple meals for myself I should be institutionalized.

That people on disability should not be allowed to access “luxuries” like food delivery services because they’re unhealthy and expensive.

This is eugenics. 🧵

Feeding oneself is literal survival
July 23, 2025 at 3:42 AM
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toothepasteeyegirl.obama.games
transmedicalist mother vs diy hrt daughter
July 22, 2025 at 8:36 PM
janloma.bsky.social
it seems two of my friends and I are developing a more close relationship between the three of us. We have done kink play together and now they called me while cuddling talking about how they would like me to be cuddling with them and we made some plans for that. A good thing happening in my life :3
July 22, 2025 at 6:49 PM
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catgirlfingies.quest
Estrogen is the best
a four panel comic. With a stick figure like character laying down talking to a monitor as if they were a therapist. The monitor has the chemical image of estrogen on it. Panel one reads "oh Estrogen, I'm just feeling real low" Panel two reads "I CAN TURN YOU INTO A GIRL" says the monitor. Panel Three is the character laying looking at the ceiling in a paused state. Panel four reads "Oh shit, for real?. The character is slightly leaning up looking over to the monitor.
June 21, 2023 at 12:43 AM
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astraeadiol.bsky.social
Nothing in the world is as cute as the little twitches of a girl you love falling asleep on your chest
July 6, 2025 at 6:24 AM
janloma.bsky.social
ugh this is so dumb i just accidentally paid my landlord twice and now i have no money for the rest of the month. good to know i will not be evicted for one extra month but like, would be good to have enough to pay for food lol. will get through this ofc, but sucks very much
June 16, 2025 at 8:36 AM