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Helen Clare
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I help schools support their staff through perimenopause and menopause so that they can keep on doing their jobs in the way we know they can.
Getting lost on the way to school? Or worse driving to school when you're off out somewhere special? Losing your car in a car park?

Losing our way can happen more and more often in peri/menopause. Day 8 ofvthe Advent Calendar gives us chance to talk about it!

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December 8, 2025 at 6:52 AM
Do you need a gold star today? Here's how to get one from me!

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December 7, 2025 at 12:28 PM
How much does menopause cost?
Day 6 of the Advent calender gives us an opportunity to talk about it.

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December 6, 2025 at 6:43 AM
It's a Christmas pudding in today's advent calendar - so let's talk about alcohol and menopause!

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December 5, 2025 at 6:58 AM
It's yet another snowman in the Advent calender! Getting tricky! But still about peri/menopause!
December 4, 2025 at 7:48 AM
Day 3 of the Advent Calendar. Another snowman. But this is about menopause too!
December 3, 2025 at 6:37 AM
Day 2 of the Advent Calendar. What's behind the door and what on earth could it have to do with menopause?

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December 2, 2025 at 7:28 AM
It's Advent Tomorrow.

Over the next 24 days I'm going to be opening an advent calendar door each day, and explaining just what that little bit of chocolate has to do with perimenopause and menopause, and specifically menopause in schools.

It'll be fun. And useful!

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November 30, 2025 at 12:56 PM
1/3 Meet my new branding, thanks to G Sabini-Roberts

It's bold, clear and fun.

And you might not feel as if menopause or perimenopause are fun right now - but I promise you once you get me in a room with a group of your menopausers it will be! Tough, honest, supportive and fun.
November 28, 2025 at 8:14 AM
1/2 Don't get me wrong. Face to face work is lovely - and I enjoy being in a real room with all the trust and support and laughter - but that can all happen in a virtual room too.

I'm in Manchester - I do travel. When the trains work it's a great day out.

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November 27, 2025 at 7:51 AM
1/3 I had terrible skin problems when I was in peri-menopause - rosacea, dermatographia, contact dermatitis. I spent months trying different face creams - they'd be ok for a week and then wham! I'd be red, blotchy and sore again.

Eventually I landed on Aveeno.
November 26, 2025 at 6:30 AM
1/2 I've had my water kefir granules longer than my boyfriend!

I got them during lockdown. I keep them fed on sugar water and they make me lots of lovely water kefir.

It's full of lactobacillus and other useful bacteria - and a lot easier to make than either milk kefir or kombucha.
November 25, 2025 at 7:16 AM
1/2 I know. It's a terrible joke. But there's a serious side to this.

Perimenopause can sometimes bring bowel issues. Our hormones can speed up the transition of food through the gut - or slow it down. We're a little more inclined to allergies - which can include food intolerances.
November 23, 2025 at 1:28 PM
My (chimney) breast job took 6 months in the end - but look at the difference!

I still have some more decorating to do in the room and I also have the fun job of finding more pictures to hang off the picture rail.

I'm absolutely delighted with it.
November 20, 2025 at 6:23 AM
1/2 It won't wash will it? Especially if your lesson plans there and you have forgotten what you meant, or your brain has lost the words that fitted in between the framework.

It's really tough.

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November 19, 2025 at 6:23 AM
Isn't that nice! Fortunately I just love talking to school staff about perimenopause and menopause, how to weather them in a challenging working environment - and how to support their colleagues.

Would this be helpful in your school?

It costs £140.

Drop me a line.

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November 18, 2025 at 6:25 AM
I thought a picture of Lysander being a lovely idiot might brighten up your Monday morning - he has certainly brightened up mine.

Have a great week!
November 17, 2025 at 6:19 AM
1/3 Let's be honest about this. Sometimes our health and wellbeing gets put last. We make sure our family are ok. We put off dealing with our own health during term time because we don't want to put extra strain on our colleagues.

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November 14, 2025 at 6:59 AM
1/2 Verbal memory loss is common in perimenopause and going into menopause. It can be really unnerving when it happens and for those of us who work in schools it often happens when we're at our most exposed - when we're talking to a class!

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November 13, 2025 at 6:51 AM
Schools are a unique environment. Perimenopause and menopause play out differently for those who work there. I've spent a lot of my life in schools and I understand that environment and the people who work there.

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November 12, 2025 at 6:46 AM
1/2 In case you haven't 'met me' yet. I'm Helen and I help schools support their staff through perimenopause and menopause so that they can keep on doing the jobs they love in the way we know they can.
November 11, 2025 at 7:09 AM
1/4 Yes, you need a menopause policy.

📝 You need it because you have a legal obligation to support employees through perimenopause and menopause.

📝 You need it because it enables you to consider what that support might look like - and put reasonable boundaries on it.

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November 10, 2025 at 5:47 AM
1/2 "Go blet yourself!"

"You absolute blet!"

"We got completely bletted last night!"

I feel that blet would be a fantastic swear word.

But in fact these medlar are bletting. They're are in a box with a banana until they go brown and soggy and rather off-putting.
November 9, 2025 at 12:34 PM
It's all about the conversations! Supporting school colleagues through perimenopause and menopause hinges on them being able to have supportive conversations - whether that's about a moment of empathy or digging into the realities of offering adjustments.

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November 7, 2025 at 6:48 AM
Does perimenopause ever make you feel like this? As if there's no way out? Or maybe there's a way out, but you just can't see it?

You might not be able to walk away from perimenopause - but you can find ways to deal with it so you can get on with life and feel good!

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November 6, 2025 at 6:18 AM