Eva wants more from life 🏳️⚧️(she/her)
@emcarlsen.bsky.social
GenX (52) trans woman trying to stay sane in the midst of madness. Landback. Abolish prisons. Defy your granfalloons. I post my wins.
evanerys on discord
DMs open to trans people. Everyone else - ask first.
PFP: Eva portrait pic
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DMs open to trans people. Everyone else - ask first.
PFP: Eva portrait pic
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The first step was accepting that I was powerless over my gender identity and that my life had become unmanageable.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
Introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild:
Cougar
Orca
Bald Eagle
Moose
Black Bear
Cougar
Orca
Bald Eagle
Moose
Black Bear
Introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild:
moose
puffer fish
hedgehog
macaque
heron
moose
puffer fish
hedgehog
macaque
heron
Introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild:
rattlesnake
bobcat
coyote (in the city!)
egret
mule deer
rattlesnake
bobcat
coyote (in the city!)
egret
mule deer
November 28, 2025 at 4:44 PM
Introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild:
Cougar
Orca
Bald Eagle
Moose
Black Bear
Cougar
Orca
Bald Eagle
Moose
Black Bear
I didn't eat 2 big pieces of Costco Pumpkin pie for breakfast with copious amounts of whipped cream, and frankly, I'm offended that you even suggested the possibility.
November 27, 2025 at 10:05 PM
I didn't eat 2 big pieces of Costco Pumpkin pie for breakfast with copious amounts of whipped cream, and frankly, I'm offended that you even suggested the possibility.
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you're seen.
Grateful Dead
King Crimson
Sky Cries Mary
Hell's Belles
I'm With Her
Grateful Dead
King Crimson
Sky Cries Mary
Hell's Belles
I'm With Her
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you've seen.
REM
The Wedding Presnt
The Flaming Lips
Taylor Swift
Barry Manilow 😏
REM
The Wedding Presnt
The Flaming Lips
Taylor Swift
Barry Manilow 😏
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you've seen
Courtney Barnett
Kings Of Leon
Heaven 17
Bruce Springsteen
Devon Sproule
Courtney Barnett
Kings Of Leon
Heaven 17
Bruce Springsteen
Devon Sproule
November 27, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Introduce yourself with 5 concerts you're seen.
Grateful Dead
King Crimson
Sky Cries Mary
Hell's Belles
I'm With Her
Grateful Dead
King Crimson
Sky Cries Mary
Hell's Belles
I'm With Her
I wouldn't condemn a Ukranian for shooting occupying Russian soldiers in E Ukraine, either.
Don't ask for clarification.
Don't ask for clarification.
November 27, 2025 at 6:17 AM
I wouldn't condemn a Ukranian for shooting occupying Russian soldiers in E Ukraine, either.
Don't ask for clarification.
Don't ask for clarification.
Absolutely not. It takes place during the antarctic winter, which runs from June-August. Are people really this unaware of the seasons?
Should John Carpenter's THE THING be officially classified as a Christmas movie? Let your voice be heard!
Is John Carpenter’s THE THING A Christmas Movie? Have Your Say
Should John Carpenter's THE THING be officially classified as a Christmas movie? Let your voice be heard!
dlvr.it
November 27, 2025 at 6:08 AM
Absolutely not. It takes place during the antarctic winter, which runs from June-August. Are people really this unaware of the seasons?
10 years
November 26, 2025 at 9:05 AM
10 years
Re-intro thread 💜💕:
Eva (pronounced ay-vuh)
Pronouns: she/her
Height: 5'11"
Shoe: 12
Zodiac: scorpio
Smoke: em if you got em, i don't mind
Tattoos: 1
Piercings: 2
Favorite drinks: dark chocolate mocha, blood orange & rasberry sunkist soda
Eva (pronounced ay-vuh)
Pronouns: she/her
Height: 5'11"
Shoe: 12
Zodiac: scorpio
Smoke: em if you got em, i don't mind
Tattoos: 1
Piercings: 2
Favorite drinks: dark chocolate mocha, blood orange & rasberry sunkist soda
November 25, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Re-intro thread 💜💕:
Eva (pronounced ay-vuh)
Pronouns: she/her
Height: 5'11"
Shoe: 12
Zodiac: scorpio
Smoke: em if you got em, i don't mind
Tattoos: 1
Piercings: 2
Favorite drinks: dark chocolate mocha, blood orange & rasberry sunkist soda
Eva (pronounced ay-vuh)
Pronouns: she/her
Height: 5'11"
Shoe: 12
Zodiac: scorpio
Smoke: em if you got em, i don't mind
Tattoos: 1
Piercings: 2
Favorite drinks: dark chocolate mocha, blood orange & rasberry sunkist soda
I've attended both an Ivy (Columbia) and community colleges. The instructors I've had at community colleges are better on average than those I had at Columbia. You'll get a far better education by going the CC-State school route than going to any ivy.
One of the bragging rights that the US ed system had in the 20th century is that we didn't have education tracks. Essentially, any kid could go to a CC or state school & major in whatever they wanted to (obviously an oversimplification). I fear this aspect of the American dream is dying.
November 23, 2025 at 6:03 PM
I've attended both an Ivy (Columbia) and community colleges. The instructors I've had at community colleges are better on average than those I had at Columbia. You'll get a far better education by going the CC-State school route than going to any ivy.
I'm going to be spending December 5 in Seattle. I have my ffs consult in the AM. Any moots want to get lunch or otherwise hang out?
November 21, 2025 at 11:50 PM
I'm going to be spending December 5 in Seattle. I have my ffs consult in the AM. Any moots want to get lunch or otherwise hang out?
I could've told you this before taking the test, tbh.
November 21, 2025 at 11:47 PM
I could've told you this before taking the test, tbh.
The first step was accepting that I was powerless over my gender identity and that my life had become unmanageable.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
November 20, 2025 at 1:30 AM
The first step was accepting that I was powerless over my gender identity and that my life had become unmanageable.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
The second step was realizing that transotion could restore me to sanity.
And it has.
I kinda want to go see Black Flag at El Corazon in January. That sounds like a party worth attending. Anyone else interested? Hit my DMs; let's plan it.
November 20, 2025 at 1:26 AM
I kinda want to go see Black Flag at El Corazon in January. That sounds like a party worth attending. Anyone else interested? Hit my DMs; let's plan it.
Sense8, and it makes me cry every time.
November 18, 2025 at 6:39 PM
Sense8, and it makes me cry every time.
It's telling that the current poster girl of American white supremacy got famous starring in a TV series where she was the third most attractive woman behind a woman of color and a trans woman.
Just sayin.
Just sayin.
November 18, 2025 at 3:46 AM
It's telling that the current poster girl of American white supremacy got famous starring in a TV series where she was the third most attractive woman behind a woman of color and a trans woman.
Just sayin.
Just sayin.
Data based
November 18, 2025 at 3:28 AM
Data based
Meanwhile, Kirk is already in bed with her.
"Doctor McCoy. If she is a Barbie girl, is it not logical to presume that she might be found in a Barbie world?"
"Damn your green-blooded logic, Spock! Can't you see that a life in plastic is fantastic?"
"Damn your green-blooded logic, Spock! Can't you see that a life in plastic is fantastic?"
November 17, 2025 at 4:50 PM
Meanwhile, Kirk is already in bed with her.
We don't spend nearly enough time talking about the fact that the King of England wants to be a tampon. We also spend too little time discussing the fact that his familial wealth was primarily built by selling African people into chattel slavery.
November 16, 2025 at 9:44 AM
We don't spend nearly enough time talking about the fact that the King of England wants to be a tampon. We also spend too little time discussing the fact that his familial wealth was primarily built by selling African people into chattel slavery.
I recall being absolutely terrified of showering in front of the boys in gym class, and when I expressed that fear to my older brother during the summer before 7th grade, he looked at me as though I was a freak to be apprehensive. My whole childhood & adolescence is full of non-boy experiences.
repeatedly relearning i never had a boy experience in my life
you know that constant terror you might do something too gay or girly and lose all your friends or worse
"not at all"
- my brother
"not at all"
- my brother
November 16, 2025 at 5:35 AM
I recall being absolutely terrified of showering in front of the boys in gym class, and when I expressed that fear to my older brother during the summer before 7th grade, he looked at me as though I was a freak to be apprehensive. My whole childhood & adolescence is full of non-boy experiences.
Ted Levine
Monk is great, but I keep expecting to hear "it puts the lotion in the basket" every time I watch, so I don't.
Monk is great, but I keep expecting to hear "it puts the lotion in the basket" every time I watch, so I don't.
What actor are you so (rationally or not) repulsed by that their work, no matter how good, is unwatchable to you?
Leonardo DiCaprio
Leonardo DiCaprio
November 16, 2025 at 4:41 AM
Ted Levine
Monk is great, but I keep expecting to hear "it puts the lotion in the basket" every time I watch, so I don't.
Monk is great, but I keep expecting to hear "it puts the lotion in the basket" every time I watch, so I don't.
Random reminder: If you haven't yet, read Octavia Butler's Xenogenisis and Parable series. They're amazing. Especially if you're gender nonconforming.
November 16, 2025 at 3:06 AM
Random reminder: If you haven't yet, read Octavia Butler's Xenogenisis and Parable series. They're amazing. Especially if you're gender nonconforming.
The best thing about all this is that even if they both deny it, it will only make us more certain Bill Clinton's balls have danced a rumba on Hair Furor's chin.
November 15, 2025 at 5:55 AM
The best thing about all this is that even if they both deny it, it will only make us more certain Bill Clinton's balls have danced a rumba on Hair Furor's chin.
So it turns out I'm pulling a double shuft tonight. Ugh. I need the ot, but ugh, just the same.
November 15, 2025 at 5:51 AM
So it turns out I'm pulling a double shuft tonight. Ugh. I need the ot, but ugh, just the same.
I personally believe Donald Trump blew Bill Clinton on JD Vance's sofa, and you won't convince me otherwise
November 14, 2025 at 3:13 PM
I personally believe Donald Trump blew Bill Clinton on JD Vance's sofa, and you won't convince me otherwise
The Mussolini corollary to the Golden Rule: It is moral to treat fascists as they treat their scapegoats.
November 14, 2025 at 4:39 AM
The Mussolini corollary to the Golden Rule: It is moral to treat fascists as they treat their scapegoats.
Reposted by Eva wants more from life 🏳️⚧️(she/her)
Some of you might be like, "wait, there's a fire escape plan type thing for spiralling?" and yes! It varies depending on the person, and a therapist can help you figure out what works best for you, but I can help with some of the classics.
Coping skill checkpoint do you remember what to do if you start spiralling
November 14, 2025 at 2:44 AM
Some of you might be like, "wait, there's a fire escape plan type thing for spiralling?" and yes! It varies depending on the person, and a therapist can help you figure out what works best for you, but I can help with some of the classics.