D.L. Chandler
@dlchandler123.bsky.social
Journalist/Editor. Hip-Hop, NBA (Let's Go WIZARDS), MMA, & cocktail hobbyist/studier in that order. Born in DC, Raised in PG. Notable mumbo sauce expert. An actual writer, not an activist.
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People can tell that you’re navigating out of hurt and anxiety, hell we all are.
But it’s not fair to project your baggage onto others, and people can tell when you’re doing so.
But it’s not fair to project your baggage onto others, and people can tell when you’re doing so.
November 28, 2025 at 7:41 PM
People can tell that you’re navigating out of hurt and anxiety, hell we all are.
But it’s not fair to project your baggage onto others, and people can tell when you’re doing so.
But it’s not fair to project your baggage onto others, and people can tell when you’re doing so.
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I get this idea 100%, & women deserve SO much better, but I also believe people have to stop applying the one strike rule to everything then go off about being unsupported. We need to do the work IN the relationship. You have to open & be open. Healing together always does much more good than harm.
November 28, 2025 at 4:03 PM
I get this idea 100%, & women deserve SO much better, but I also believe people have to stop applying the one strike rule to everything then go off about being unsupported. We need to do the work IN the relationship. You have to open & be open. Healing together always does much more good than harm.
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Many of us cause harm & have no intention of doing so. It's also not one-sided, but that convo can't happen yet because it always becomes a battle of the sexes.
We too crave being sought out, desired, & deserve apologies when we share that you hurt us. Not to shift power, but because are humans.
We too crave being sought out, desired, & deserve apologies when we share that you hurt us. Not to shift power, but because are humans.
November 28, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Many of us cause harm & have no intention of doing so. It's also not one-sided, but that convo can't happen yet because it always becomes a battle of the sexes.
We too crave being sought out, desired, & deserve apologies when we share that you hurt us. Not to shift power, but because are humans.
We too crave being sought out, desired, & deserve apologies when we share that you hurt us. Not to shift power, but because are humans.
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Most of us crave vulnerability & want to be in love. Hell, I am. But beyond our vulnerability being weaponized, it also becomes harder to be forgiven for any misstep ever. We then make the list of "seven deadly exes" when all that needed to happen was a simple addressing of a behavior or language.
November 28, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Most of us crave vulnerability & want to be in love. Hell, I am. But beyond our vulnerability being weaponized, it also becomes harder to be forgiven for any misstep ever. We then make the list of "seven deadly exes" when all that needed to happen was a simple addressing of a behavior or language.
There is insecurity, and then there is what High Box Butt Jones did.
November 28, 2025 at 6:58 PM
There is insecurity, and then there is what High Box Butt Jones did.