Rail enthusiast wife Daria
@dariaphoebe.com
Angry old woman. intersectional urbanist, fascinator wearing cyclist, storyteller/poet; distributed systems dev. @marie.tech’s wife. PVD via OAK,BOS&PIT. she/her
Tonight’s fun thing: Murder for Two, Holiday Edition, at Capital Rep in Albany!
November 29, 2025 at 12:56 AM
Tonight’s fun thing: Murder for Two, Holiday Edition, at Capital Rep in Albany!
“But you know, if they run this up the flagpole, I'll salute.”
November 28, 2025 at 6:51 PM
“But you know, if they run this up the flagpole, I'll salute.”
My wife looked over my shoulder and saw this and said
November 27, 2025 at 12:44 AM
My wife looked over my shoulder and saw this and said
Doing so right now. Cheers!
November 27, 2025 at 12:26 AM
Doing so right now. Cheers!
I mean I guess 10 years ago my body was less cranky?
November 26, 2025 at 11:34 PM
I mean I guess 10 years ago my body was less cranky?
If I am trying to leave the house, Nip will show up.
November 26, 2025 at 4:14 PM
If I am trying to leave the house, Nip will show up.
There’s a reason we call it the breakfast alarm when the smoke alarm goes off first thing in the morning
November 26, 2025 at 1:35 PM
There’s a reason we call it the breakfast alarm when the smoke alarm goes off first thing in the morning
Not sure I believe those stories about women sleeping their way to the top.
I’ve improved my sleep hygiene as much as possible with an old woman’s bladder, I can sleep anywhere and at any time, and it hasn’t even improved my job prospects let alone my employment.
I’ve improved my sleep hygiene as much as possible with an old woman’s bladder, I can sleep anywhere and at any time, and it hasn’t even improved my job prospects let alone my employment.
November 25, 2025 at 10:19 PM
Not sure I believe those stories about women sleeping their way to the top.
I’ve improved my sleep hygiene as much as possible with an old woman’s bladder, I can sleep anywhere and at any time, and it hasn’t even improved my job prospects let alone my employment.
I’ve improved my sleep hygiene as much as possible with an old woman’s bladder, I can sleep anywhere and at any time, and it hasn’t even improved my job prospects let alone my employment.
The scarediest cat says hello.
(And then runs away)
(And then runs away)
November 25, 2025 at 3:07 AM
The scarediest cat says hello.
(And then runs away)
(And then runs away)
POV: you are fighting with autoconf m4 macros in the same outfit you went to a play hours earlier in.
(I’m trying to get m4_foreach to expand a list into macros but the list comes from a shell variable and I hate myself)
(I’m trying to get m4_foreach to expand a list into macros but the list comes from a shell variable and I hate myself)
November 24, 2025 at 3:14 AM
POV: you are fighting with autoconf m4 macros in the same outfit you went to a play hours earlier in.
(I’m trying to get m4_foreach to expand a list into macros but the list comes from a shell variable and I hate myself)
(I’m trying to get m4_foreach to expand a list into macros but the list comes from a shell variable and I hate myself)
When there’s a sign reminding people to keep their dogs leashed
November 24, 2025 at 3:10 AM
When there’s a sign reminding people to keep their dogs leashed
Today, Burbage Theatre’s “An Iliad”, in Pawtucket!
November 23, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Today, Burbage Theatre’s “An Iliad”, in Pawtucket!
Sunday zen is definitely better when it’s not right next to cars 😢
Arcadia Mount Tom trail
Arcadia Mount Tom trail
November 23, 2025 at 5:34 PM
Sunday zen is definitely better when it’s not right next to cars 😢
Arcadia Mount Tom trail
Arcadia Mount Tom trail
Tonight’s fun thing: Brown/Trinity MFA program’s production of Mother Courage and Her Children, downtown Providence.
November 23, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Tonight’s fun thing: Brown/Trinity MFA program’s production of Mother Courage and Her Children, downtown Providence.
Ok. I didn’t do it for prizes but I came in 3rd. Anyway enjoy this pic of me with my prize, I took a donated bag of coffee beans which is hilarious because I don’t drink coffee.
November 22, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Ok. I didn’t do it for prizes but I came in 3rd. Anyway enjoy this pic of me with my prize, I took a donated bag of coffee beans which is hilarious because I don’t drink coffee.
I had no team so it was just me. But, two turkeys, 20 pounds of potatoes, some veggies, some underwear, gloves, and socks… and a few funny photos!
November 22, 2025 at 7:37 PM
I had no team so it was just me. But, two turkeys, 20 pounds of potatoes, some veggies, some underwear, gloves, and socks… and a few funny photos!
It’s Cranksgiving day in Providence and it looks like the rain will end in time!
See you at Lefty Loosey Bike Collective?
See you at Lefty Loosey Bike Collective?
November 22, 2025 at 3:52 PM
It’s Cranksgiving day in Providence and it looks like the rain will end in time!
See you at Lefty Loosey Bike Collective?
See you at Lefty Loosey Bike Collective?
Update: the necklace, which I’ve had even longer and bought with what money I had to put together a wardrobe in a bleak time, came apart while I was taking it off.
I hope I can fix it.
I hope I can fix it.
November 22, 2025 at 5:21 AM
Update: the necklace, which I’ve had even longer and bought with what money I had to put together a wardrobe in a bleak time, came apart while I was taking it off.
I hope I can fix it.
I hope I can fix it.
Today’s outfit for talking with middle school students about their ideas for improving their parks.
One little detail: found these earrings 9 years ago, cast off in Pittsburgh. I was among a group getting a tour of a building being rehabbed after being empty for years.
One little detail: found these earrings 9 years ago, cast off in Pittsburgh. I was among a group getting a tour of a building being rehabbed after being empty for years.
November 22, 2025 at 3:44 AM
Today’s outfit for talking with middle school students about their ideas for improving their parks.
One little detail: found these earrings 9 years ago, cast off in Pittsburgh. I was among a group getting a tour of a building being rehabbed after being empty for years.
One little detail: found these earrings 9 years ago, cast off in Pittsburgh. I was among a group getting a tour of a building being rehabbed after being empty for years.
Wishing @wsferrys.bsky.social was the real WA Ferries cuz maybe then I could actually manage to lay my hands on a Rainier Reverie ORCA Card 😭
November 21, 2025 at 11:10 PM
Wishing @wsferrys.bsky.social was the real WA Ferries cuz maybe then I could actually manage to lay my hands on a Rainier Reverie ORCA Card 😭
Tonight’s fun thing: Gamm Theatre’s production of Frankie + Johnny in the Clair de Lune, in Warwick!
November 20, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Tonight’s fun thing: Gamm Theatre’s production of Frankie + Johnny in the Clair de Lune, in Warwick!
This is hardly the most ludicrous thing I’ve done. Hauled a second bike sprawled over a trailer for repairs. Hauled my (previous) wedding invites to the post office. Hauled leftovers of a catered work meal to a queer youth drop-in shelter.
Here’s the invites
Here’s the invites
November 20, 2025 at 9:37 PM
This is hardly the most ludicrous thing I’ve done. Hauled a second bike sprawled over a trailer for repairs. Hauled my (previous) wedding invites to the post office. Hauled leftovers of a catered work meal to a queer youth drop-in shelter.
Here’s the invites
Here’s the invites
Hilariously, overloaded, bike, and trailer as I make a drop food not bombs
November 20, 2025 at 4:04 PM
Hilariously, overloaded, bike, and trailer as I make a drop food not bombs
10 years ago today I was in Austin for work.
Having met a local trans friend for the first time days earlier, I joined them on city hall’s steps for a Trans Day of Remembrance observance.
I still have the glass stone I took that day.
We lost many more since, including my partner Amelia.
Having met a local trans friend for the first time days earlier, I joined them on city hall’s steps for a Trans Day of Remembrance observance.
I still have the glass stone I took that day.
We lost many more since, including my partner Amelia.
November 20, 2025 at 2:40 PM
10 years ago today I was in Austin for work.
Having met a local trans friend for the first time days earlier, I joined them on city hall’s steps for a Trans Day of Remembrance observance.
I still have the glass stone I took that day.
We lost many more since, including my partner Amelia.
Having met a local trans friend for the first time days earlier, I joined them on city hall’s steps for a Trans Day of Remembrance observance.
I still have the glass stone I took that day.
We lost many more since, including my partner Amelia.