Most 4B women are not part of womad or Megalia. The largest American group actively disavows them and are trans inclusive. A few anon S. Korean 4B'ers have stated other countries are free to practice as they like (re: trans inclusivity). ☕️💜

We are fighting for ourselves.
For the younger girls who don’t deserve what so many of us lived through.
For the women who never got the chance to speak up.
For the silence that nearly broke us.

This isn’t a battle women started.
But it is one we refuse to continue to lose.

’s not a war.
It’s accountability.
It’s healing.
It’s women saying “enough” after being drowned out for far too long.

And now that women are standing up, telling the truth, setting boundaries, calling out abuse, and refusing to accept behavior that was normalized for generations…
some people are suddenly calling it a “war.”

It

We have watched mothers, grandmothers, sisters, daughters, and friends carry wounds that society insisted weren’t real.
We have been told to endure for the sake of “keeping the peace.”
We have been taught to shrink ourselves so men could feel bigger.

.

We’ve lived through violence that never made the news, pain that got brushed off, trauma we were expected to swallow, and violations we were told to forgive.

For decades, centuries, entire bloodlines…
women have endured abuse, manipulation, dismissal, being silenced, being blamed, being minimized, being ignored, being told to “calm down,” “be nice,” “don’t make a scene,” and “that’s just how men are.”

There is no “gender war.”
There never has been.

What’s happening right now is simple…
women are finally refusing to stay quiet about what we’ve survived for generations.

TRUE! 😂🤣☕️💜

Oh hell no. They better explain. ☕️💜

I think you're painting with too broad a brush. It's only natural that women looking to cut men off romantically are going to need time to decenter and detox from them. 4B spaces have given them room to do it. We have time for the rest. But we have to let women heal. ☕️💜

Viv, 💜 do your best to focus on the positive comments. There are less negative ones than there appear. Negative comments always stand out more to creators. Positive ones, sadly, leave less of an impression on the brain. ☕️💜

No, it's not safe to say. There is plenty of discussion about forming community and sharing resources among 4B women in the U.S. However, due to the lack of men-free spaces online, the 4B subreddit has become one of the only safe places for women to vent about men without being banned. ☕️💜