Bones
@bonesofether.bsky.social
An eclectic witch who leads an awkwardly charmed life.
I write. I draw. I game.
♀️ She/her/hers. 🔞 NSFW. ⛔ Minors DNI.
I write. I draw. I game.
♀️ She/her/hers. 🔞 NSFW. ⛔ Minors DNI.
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Bones
@bonesofether.bsky.social
· Mar 30
Support Bones ❤️
I'm Bones; writer, artist, and witch. ♥
If you like my work and would like to support me, please consider donating to my Ko-Fi.
ko-fi.com
A lot of debts are due.
So I’m opening up commissions, selling my stuff, and accepting donations.
My AO3: archiveofourown.org/users/boneso...
Commission me:
ko-fi.com/bonesofether
Selling my stuff: poshmark.com/closet/pixel...
Donate: paypal.me/etherbones
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Thanks!
So I’m opening up commissions, selling my stuff, and accepting donations.
My AO3: archiveofourown.org/users/boneso...
Commission me:
ko-fi.com/bonesofether
Selling my stuff: poshmark.com/closet/pixel...
Donate: paypal.me/etherbones
Please Click, Like, and/or Share.
Thanks!
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Millions of women have experienced sexual violence from acquaintances, classmates, or colleagues, to strangers.
Stigma, shame, and fear keep many silent. But abuse is never the survivor’s shame.
🗣️ Believe and support survivors
⚖️ Hold perpetrators accountable
✅ Every sexual act requires consent
Stigma, shame, and fear keep many silent. But abuse is never the survivor’s shame.
🗣️ Believe and support survivors
⚖️ Hold perpetrators accountable
✅ Every sexual act requires consent
December 9, 2025 at 12:35 PM
Millions of women have experienced sexual violence from acquaintances, classmates, or colleagues, to strangers.
Stigma, shame, and fear keep many silent. But abuse is never the survivor’s shame.
🗣️ Believe and support survivors
⚖️ Hold perpetrators accountable
✅ Every sexual act requires consent
Stigma, shame, and fear keep many silent. But abuse is never the survivor’s shame.
🗣️ Believe and support survivors
⚖️ Hold perpetrators accountable
✅ Every sexual act requires consent
Boy, oh boy, do I love it when those with a disability gatekeep others with the same disability!
Do I have to get another stamp on my Suffering Punch Card before I can be allowed into the support club?
This is all sarcasm, if it wasn't readily obvious.
Do I have to get another stamp on my Suffering Punch Card before I can be allowed into the support club?
This is all sarcasm, if it wasn't readily obvious.
December 9, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Boy, oh boy, do I love it when those with a disability gatekeep others with the same disability!
Do I have to get another stamp on my Suffering Punch Card before I can be allowed into the support club?
This is all sarcasm, if it wasn't readily obvious.
Do I have to get another stamp on my Suffering Punch Card before I can be allowed into the support club?
This is all sarcasm, if it wasn't readily obvious.
Yes. I know I've been on a promo'ing spree lately. I like the content and I want to see it grow and become even more popular.
Also... This is my social media account. I do what I want.
Also... This is my social media account. I do what I want.
a black suv is driving down a street with the words " i do what i want " above it
ALT: a black suv is driving down a street with the words " i do what i want " above it
media.tenor.com
December 9, 2025 at 11:25 AM
Yes. I know I've been on a promo'ing spree lately. I like the content and I want to see it grow and become even more popular.
Also... This is my social media account. I do what I want.
Also... This is my social media account. I do what I want.
If you or someone you care about has #autism, please check out @orion-kelly.bsky.social and his YouTube channel. I was so lucky to have found his content, because within an hour I was sending my partner Orion's videos. This guy explains so much of what I can't.
Orion is absolutely brilliant.
Orion is absolutely brilliant.
December 9, 2025 at 11:23 AM
If you or someone you care about has #autism, please check out @orion-kelly.bsky.social and his YouTube channel. I was so lucky to have found his content, because within an hour I was sending my partner Orion's videos. This guy explains so much of what I can't.
Orion is absolutely brilliant.
Orion is absolutely brilliant.
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HE SEES YOU WHEN YOU'RE SLEEPING
HE KNOWS WHEN YOU'RE AWAKE
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
The limited X-mas collection is up on my store! Featuring shirts, sweaters and more with 4 designs! It'll only be up until Christmas!
valdevia.store/collections/...
HE KNOWS WHEN YOU'RE AWAKE
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
The limited X-mas collection is up on my store! Featuring shirts, sweaters and more with 4 designs! It'll only be up until Christmas!
valdevia.store/collections/...
December 8, 2025 at 9:13 PM
HE SEES YOU WHEN YOU'RE SLEEPING
HE KNOWS WHEN YOU'RE AWAKE
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
The limited X-mas collection is up on my store! Featuring shirts, sweaters and more with 4 designs! It'll only be up until Christmas!
valdevia.store/collections/...
HE KNOWS WHEN YOU'RE AWAKE
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
YOU BETTER WATCH OUT
The limited X-mas collection is up on my store! Featuring shirts, sweaters and more with 4 designs! It'll only be up until Christmas!
valdevia.store/collections/...
Between @ballxpit.com and "Noobs are Coming," I have been head bobbing and jiving along in my chair here at work for a good week and a half now.
The best part? BallxPit is on Spotify! Check them out. They make great background music for working.
open.spotify.com/album/6wUpPq...
The best part? BallxPit is on Spotify! Check them out. They make great background music for working.
open.spotify.com/album/6wUpPq...
BALL x PIT (Original Game Soundtrack)
open.spotify.com
December 9, 2025 at 11:05 AM
Between @ballxpit.com and "Noobs are Coming," I have been head bobbing and jiving along in my chair here at work for a good week and a half now.
The best part? BallxPit is on Spotify! Check them out. They make great background music for working.
open.spotify.com/album/6wUpPq...
The best part? BallxPit is on Spotify! Check them out. They make great background music for working.
open.spotify.com/album/6wUpPq...
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Seeing & acknowledging the "good" in someone or their progress is not inconsistent w/ being realistic about their red flags or limitations. In fact, one of the most loving, supportive things we can do for someone is to be real about those red flags & limitations.
Do both.
Do both.
December 9, 2025 at 4:47 AM
Seeing & acknowledging the "good" in someone or their progress is not inconsistent w/ being realistic about their red flags or limitations. In fact, one of the most loving, supportive things we can do for someone is to be real about those red flags & limitations.
Do both.
Do both.
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You are worth so much more than half assed effort in relationships. Don't let your trauma history convince you otherwise.
"Their" inability to step up has zero to do w/ whether you deserve high effort. "Their" effort issue is a "them" issue -- which WILL catch up to them.
"Their" inability to step up has zero to do w/ whether you deserve high effort. "Their" effort issue is a "them" issue -- which WILL catch up to them.
December 9, 2025 at 4:46 AM
You are worth so much more than half assed effort in relationships. Don't let your trauma history convince you otherwise.
"Their" inability to step up has zero to do w/ whether you deserve high effort. "Their" effort issue is a "them" issue -- which WILL catch up to them.
"Their" inability to step up has zero to do w/ whether you deserve high effort. "Their" effort issue is a "them" issue -- which WILL catch up to them.
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I don't believe "everything happens for a reason."
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
December 8, 2025 at 12:05 AM
I don't believe "everything happens for a reason."
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
But I do choose to believe everything that happens to me & all of my responses, even the very imperfect ones, can teach me something I can use to strengthen & stabilize my trauma recovery.
I'm not wasting this pain.
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"They" are going to try to convince you you are "responsible" for their emotional reactions-- because "they" are not working a recovery. Those of us who are working our trauma recovery know, & remember, that we cannot "make" anyone feel anything or "control" anyone's behavior.
December 8, 2025 at 12:06 AM
"They" are going to try to convince you you are "responsible" for their emotional reactions-- because "they" are not working a recovery. Those of us who are working our trauma recovery know, & remember, that we cannot "make" anyone feel anything or "control" anyone's behavior.
Just had a coworker say that she hopes her daughter never has a seizure as bad as my numerous ones.
...um...I hope so, too?
Why did I have to be told that?
...um...I hope so, too?
Why did I have to be told that?
December 7, 2025 at 8:18 PM
Just had a coworker say that she hopes her daughter never has a seizure as bad as my numerous ones.
...um...I hope so, too?
Why did I have to be told that?
...um...I hope so, too?
Why did I have to be told that?
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To understand the life of a person with cPTSD, is to understand they’ve experienced multiple traumas and after each one, people taught them how to adapt to that pain, rather than making the traumas stop.
December 6, 2025 at 1:03 AM
To understand the life of a person with cPTSD, is to understand they’ve experienced multiple traumas and after each one, people taught them how to adapt to that pain, rather than making the traumas stop.
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Blanketing clouds in the sky.
#blueskyartshow #sky #clouds #photography #mountains #cloudy #eastcoastkin #artyear
#blueskyartshow #sky #clouds #photography #mountains #cloudy #eastcoastkin #artyear
December 6, 2025 at 3:38 PM
Blanketing clouds in the sky.
#blueskyartshow #sky #clouds #photography #mountains #cloudy #eastcoastkin #artyear
#blueskyartshow #sky #clouds #photography #mountains #cloudy #eastcoastkin #artyear
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One reason why trauma recovery can feel so weird for survivors is, we've been convinced we don't "deserve" to feel or function better. That "who do you think you are?" voice can be very loud.
Who do you think you are? You're a survivor who deserves recovery-- that's EXACTLY who.
Who do you think you are? You're a survivor who deserves recovery-- that's EXACTLY who.
December 6, 2025 at 5:00 PM
One reason why trauma recovery can feel so weird for survivors is, we've been convinced we don't "deserve" to feel or function better. That "who do you think you are?" voice can be very loud.
Who do you think you are? You're a survivor who deserves recovery-- that's EXACTLY who.
Who do you think you are? You're a survivor who deserves recovery-- that's EXACTLY who.
Oh this week is going to be a trying one.
December 7, 2025 at 3:22 AM
Oh this week is going to be a trying one.
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Our new pose reference drop is here!
Cyn Wei is back by popular demand & draped in fabric 💗⚔
Cyn Wei is back by popular demand & draped in fabric 💗⚔
December 6, 2025 at 3:34 PM
Our new pose reference drop is here!
Cyn Wei is back by popular demand & draped in fabric 💗⚔
Cyn Wei is back by popular demand & draped in fabric 💗⚔
Ah, it's always such a delight to have my weekend cut in half because the coworker that is fucking my supervisor decided to call out again.
It is so pathetic how whipped she has got this guy.
It is so pathetic how whipped she has got this guy.
December 6, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Ah, it's always such a delight to have my weekend cut in half because the coworker that is fucking my supervisor decided to call out again.
It is so pathetic how whipped she has got this guy.
It is so pathetic how whipped she has got this guy.
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Our new Flowing Fabric reference pack will still be dropping this week, just a little late.
One more sneak peek in the meantime. 💗💕
One more sneak peek in the meantime. 💗💕
December 5, 2025 at 2:05 AM
Our new Flowing Fabric reference pack will still be dropping this week, just a little late.
One more sneak peek in the meantime. 💗💕
One more sneak peek in the meantime. 💗💕
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It's not our fault the whole scene is A MESS. If you are an artist too you aren't failing. The whole industry is getting messed up right now!!
I know a lot of the times I feel like "why am I not good enough?"
We are good enough. they are trying to hire NOBODY
I know a lot of the times I feel like "why am I not good enough?"
We are good enough. they are trying to hire NOBODY
For those not in those circles, I just need to remind you that losing a job to AI is not a vibes based idea. We are being told explicitly by art directors that we are being weighed against AI for jobs, people on teams fighting against the AD and you. It sucks. It’s demoralizing.
December 4, 2025 at 10:53 PM
It's not our fault the whole scene is A MESS. If you are an artist too you aren't failing. The whole industry is getting messed up right now!!
I know a lot of the times I feel like "why am I not good enough?"
We are good enough. they are trying to hire NOBODY
I know a lot of the times I feel like "why am I not good enough?"
We are good enough. they are trying to hire NOBODY
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I don't care if a non-disabled person accesses a disability accommodation for the same reason I don't care if a child whose parents are rich gets free lunch at school. We don't need to means test being a kind person. I have better things to do with my time than be a cop over social services.
December 4, 2025 at 2:32 AM
I don't care if a non-disabled person accesses a disability accommodation for the same reason I don't care if a child whose parents are rich gets free lunch at school. We don't need to means test being a kind person. I have better things to do with my time than be a cop over social services.
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I'm begging any artists still using Twitter claiming it's integral to their work to just leave. It's been revealed the site works off a made up "credit score" from hell and punishes you for posting like a normal human being.
Abandon Twitter for good. It's time. It's been time.
Abandon Twitter for good. It's time. It's been time.
December 4, 2025 at 2:44 PM
I'm begging any artists still using Twitter claiming it's integral to their work to just leave. It's been revealed the site works off a made up "credit score" from hell and punishes you for posting like a normal human being.
Abandon Twitter for good. It's time. It's been time.
Abandon Twitter for good. It's time. It's been time.
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Looks like I’m havin’ a little chat with Stephen tonight.
December 4, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Looks like I’m havin’ a little chat with Stephen tonight.