care of a domme too, during and after play. that being said, I also just love the intimacy of after, i mostly engage with sex through the shared intimacy and connection angle rather than just sexual gratification, while that is what i try to achieve during, aftercare is something i look forward to

also as a switch, i agree its a two way street, both parties need the aftercare, dommes are taking a lot of risk and we are in our own heads the whole time and managing safety, its common people fall into the trap that subs are passive agents in a dynamic, not active participants, a good sub takes

actually just so fucking gross

"celebration and warmth" yeah, definitely,,,

I've been on the Linux train for ages, on and off but really stuck with nixOS and found it's philosophy perfect liiike, a few years ago. but the year of the Linux desktop, any day now, it's so close (and yet always so far)

any year now 😭

i probably need it tbh, ive just been on and on and on and having turned off for a while 😮‍💨

hi, thanks Charlotte ^_^

thank you 🙂‍↕️

that actually nice first pic my friend took is sooo nice tho, colours are perfect

hiii joy! you too ^_^ <3

hii, yeah I've just been doing a lot, between recovery, getting back to climbing, and going out a lot to see people, just been pretty strung out.

hopefully I remember to sue this app more I miss y'all 😭

this one was spooky but so fun

training for the lesbians

To a lot of people, queer or not, Manhood is not seen as another facet of the gender-regime but represents the ultimate freedom from gender, and so anyone "queering gender" is seen as wanting to move closer to Manhood.

This notion makes blood pour out of my mouth, ears, nostrils and eyes.

it's giving "all intersex conditions are either male or female, it's binary" the existence of these conditions is proof enough that the future state of the body cannot be predicted from the current state, "developmental pathways" are assumptions, averages, there isnt a teleological purpose or design

I think I'm getting there

you see, this is actually a hot kink when youre not a part of the marriage, the trick is to get in there and be a homewrecker and steal the wife from her husband