my gender is the queervoid
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Made a vent account so I don't shove this stuff on main
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Trying to keep intra community discourse and other bullshit off main
I was trying use Bluesky as a fresh start to get away from it completely but shit keeps ending up on my timeline anyway so here we are
I was trying use Bluesky as a fresh start to get away from it completely but shit keeps ending up on my timeline anyway so here we are
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I personally would appreciate it if the DIY evangelists were capable of acknowledging that there are still barriers to entry in a world where DIY exists but that's another matter
November 13, 2025 at 9:33 PM
I personally would appreciate it if the DIY evangelists were capable of acknowledging that there are still barriers to entry in a world where DIY exists but that's another matter
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I don't care how long you've been HRT, I don't care how many surgeries you've had. You're still on the same team as the hairy trans woman in her 50s who's still on the waitlist for HRT or enby who don't want it. Their fight is your fight. They deserves as much respect and support as you do.
November 13, 2025 at 8:55 PM
I don't care how long you've been HRT, I don't care how many surgeries you've had. You're still on the same team as the hairy trans woman in her 50s who's still on the waitlist for HRT or enby who don't want it. Their fight is your fight. They deserves as much respect and support as you do.
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The whole cissexual and transmed shit had reaffirmed my stance that nobody hates trans people quite like other trans people.
So many trans people want to be bigots so bad so they make up fuckass "woke" ways to be shitty to other queer people and feign ignorance when people call them out.
So many trans people want to be bigots so bad so they make up fuckass "woke" ways to be shitty to other queer people and feign ignorance when people call them out.
November 13, 2025 at 8:43 PM
The whole cissexual and transmed shit had reaffirmed my stance that nobody hates trans people quite like other trans people.
So many trans people want to be bigots so bad so they make up fuckass "woke" ways to be shitty to other queer people and feign ignorance when people call them out.
So many trans people want to be bigots so bad so they make up fuckass "woke" ways to be shitty to other queer people and feign ignorance when people call them out.
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Here's a thing that I despise: When someone is outed as an abuser, TERF, terrible human, and ppl start going "I never liked them anyway" "I never found them funny" "They never wrote good things to begin with" and seriously shut the hell up. All of that is just to position you are superior and (cont)
November 12, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Here's a thing that I despise: When someone is outed as an abuser, TERF, terrible human, and ppl start going "I never liked them anyway" "I never found them funny" "They never wrote good things to begin with" and seriously shut the hell up. All of that is just to position you are superior and (cont)
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If u never done so, please read hot allosatic load, esp if u consider urself an ally 2 trans & marginalized folk
Labeling people who c value in that essay as abusive or untrustworthy is reflective of the tactics the essay discusses but don't just take our word 4 it
thenewinquiry.com/hot-allostat...
Labeling people who c value in that essay as abusive or untrustworthy is reflective of the tactics the essay discusses but don't just take our word 4 it
thenewinquiry.com/hot-allostat...
November 14, 2025 at 2:11 AM
If u never done so, please read hot allosatic load, esp if u consider urself an ally 2 trans & marginalized folk
Labeling people who c value in that essay as abusive or untrustworthy is reflective of the tactics the essay discusses but don't just take our word 4 it
thenewinquiry.com/hot-allostat...
Labeling people who c value in that essay as abusive or untrustworthy is reflective of the tactics the essay discusses but don't just take our word 4 it
thenewinquiry.com/hot-allostat...
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Actual conversation I just had with one of KTP’s suppprters.
They’re really doing the “Attempted murder? Now honestly what is that? Do they give a Nobel prize for attempted chemistry? Do they?!” Argument.
They’re really doing the “Attempted murder? Now honestly what is that? Do they give a Nobel prize for attempted chemistry? Do they?!” Argument.
November 13, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Actual conversation I just had with one of KTP’s suppprters.
They’re really doing the “Attempted murder? Now honestly what is that? Do they give a Nobel prize for attempted chemistry? Do they?!” Argument.
They’re really doing the “Attempted murder? Now honestly what is that? Do they give a Nobel prize for attempted chemistry? Do they?!” Argument.
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They see it as activism and that it's therefore ends-justify-means.
There are a lot of people in this world who are bullies and desperately want to believe that they can be the first to find a way to use bullying for positive change, because it's easier to keep with that habit than doing real work
There are a lot of people in this world who are bullies and desperately want to believe that they can be the first to find a way to use bullying for positive change, because it's easier to keep with that habit than doing real work
November 14, 2025 at 6:58 AM
They see it as activism and that it's therefore ends-justify-means.
There are a lot of people in this world who are bullies and desperately want to believe that they can be the first to find a way to use bullying for positive change, because it's easier to keep with that habit than doing real work
There are a lot of people in this world who are bullies and desperately want to believe that they can be the first to find a way to use bullying for positive change, because it's easier to keep with that habit than doing real work
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It's wild that so many people seem to think that being in the closet to your co-workers and/or family means that you are "choosing to stay outside of the community out of cowardice".
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
November 13, 2025 at 7:56 PM
It's wild that so many people seem to think that being in the closet to your co-workers and/or family means that you are "choosing to stay outside of the community out of cowardice".
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
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This is the most fucked up thing. When I say “I am afraid to transition, especially considering the political environment right now,” the clique regularly tries to frame that as me claiming that “trans lives aren’t worth living”
It’s the most disgusting misrepresentation I’ve ever seen.
It’s the most disgusting misrepresentation I’ve ever seen.
November 14, 2025 at 9:40 AM
This is the most fucked up thing. When I say “I am afraid to transition, especially considering the political environment right now,” the clique regularly tries to frame that as me claiming that “trans lives aren’t worth living”
It’s the most disgusting misrepresentation I’ve ever seen.
It’s the most disgusting misrepresentation I’ve ever seen.
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I think this is a very good illustration of why the transmedicalists on this site are shitty people.
A decent trans person would hear a fellow trans person say “I don’t feel safe to transition right now” and be supportive.
The response from transmedicalists is to demonize and other them instead.
A decent trans person would hear a fellow trans person say “I don’t feel safe to transition right now” and be supportive.
The response from transmedicalists is to demonize and other them instead.
It's wild that so many people seem to think that being in the closet to your co-workers and/or family means that you are "choosing to stay outside of the community out of cowardice".
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
If any such people are "outside of the community" it's because you refuse to let them.
November 14, 2025 at 9:14 AM
I think this is a very good illustration of why the transmedicalists on this site are shitty people.
A decent trans person would hear a fellow trans person say “I don’t feel safe to transition right now” and be supportive.
The response from transmedicalists is to demonize and other them instead.
A decent trans person would hear a fellow trans person say “I don’t feel safe to transition right now” and be supportive.
The response from transmedicalists is to demonize and other them instead.
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Just saw the terrible news that US Bishops just banned gender affirming care at Catholic hospitals.
A reminder, from the reproductive justice front - For a lot of people, Catholic hospitals are their only option. Even places where they aren't, they sometimes set standard of care.
A reminder, from the reproductive justice front - For a lot of people, Catholic hospitals are their only option. Even places where they aren't, they sometimes set standard of care.
November 12, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Just saw the terrible news that US Bishops just banned gender affirming care at Catholic hospitals.
A reminder, from the reproductive justice front - For a lot of people, Catholic hospitals are their only option. Even places where they aren't, they sometimes set standard of care.
A reminder, from the reproductive justice front - For a lot of people, Catholic hospitals are their only option. Even places where they aren't, they sometimes set standard of care.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
It feels like the people I know who have become victims of this sort of thing has only been growing and it makes me disgusted at the fellow trans people in my communities just eating this shit up to feel like heroes for ostracizing some trans girl they never met
November 13, 2025 at 1:29 PM
It feels like the people I know who have become victims of this sort of thing has only been growing and it makes me disgusted at the fellow trans people in my communities just eating this shit up to feel like heroes for ostracizing some trans girl they never met
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You will never be welcomed into cis manhood with patriarchy and the hilarious thing is that being pressured to acknowledging your privilege, because you will be cut out of trans society if you did, is the least cis man thing that you could experience.
November 13, 2025 at 5:45 PM
You will never be welcomed into cis manhood with patriarchy and the hilarious thing is that being pressured to acknowledging your privilege, because you will be cut out of trans society if you did, is the least cis man thing that you could experience.
Reposted by my gender is the queervoid
Stop letting your dysphoria throw the less privileged trans people under the bus. Stop talking about your privilege frankly, you are bad at it. Instead of giving cis patriarchy talking points, lift up the voices of less privileged trans people.
November 13, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Stop letting your dysphoria throw the less privileged trans people under the bus. Stop talking about your privilege frankly, you are bad at it. Instead of giving cis patriarchy talking points, lift up the voices of less privileged trans people.
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The logic error is not that trans women experience male privilege, the logic error is that trans men must, and nothing supports that evidence. You are making a logic error in defining what a man is, what patriarchy does, what privilege is.
November 13, 2025 at 5:45 PM
The logic error is not that trans women experience male privilege, the logic error is that trans men must, and nothing supports that evidence. You are making a logic error in defining what a man is, what patriarchy does, what privilege is.
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It doesn't have to be that way. A trans man does not have a cis man's life. But it also betrays you as abusing your privilege (because almost every time you are white and relatively economically privileged.)
November 13, 2025 at 5:45 PM
It doesn't have to be that way. A trans man does not have a cis man's life. But it also betrays you as abusing your privilege (because almost every time you are white and relatively economically privileged.)
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There are times (often) when I want to shake trans men and tell them to snap out of it. No, you do not experience the life of a cis man and your insitence that you do is detrimental to transmascs and also driven by dysphoria.
November 13, 2025 at 5:45 PM
There are times (often) when I want to shake trans men and tell them to snap out of it. No, you do not experience the life of a cis man and your insitence that you do is detrimental to transmascs and also driven by dysphoria.
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Me: “If you condemn Hot Allostatic Load, you are a danger, because you’re saying you’re willing to use Kiwifarms style tactics to mulch a trans woman over nothing, facts be damned”
Transmedicalists: “We have to mulch Nerdskull! Start spreading Kiwifarms shit and other fake allegations about them!”
Transmedicalists: “We have to mulch Nerdskull! Start spreading Kiwifarms shit and other fake allegations about them!”
November 13, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Me: “If you condemn Hot Allostatic Load, you are a danger, because you’re saying you’re willing to use Kiwifarms style tactics to mulch a trans woman over nothing, facts be damned”
Transmedicalists: “We have to mulch Nerdskull! Start spreading Kiwifarms shit and other fake allegations about them!”
Transmedicalists: “We have to mulch Nerdskull! Start spreading Kiwifarms shit and other fake allegations about them!”
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Apparently KTP and her friends have escalated to calling me a predator again over this post, without any sort of proof or even an alleged victim, just to show you exactly how important and relevant the message of the Hot Allostatic Load essay is
They’re literally trying to do that to me now
They’re literally trying to do that to me now
November 13, 2025 at 1:29 PM
Apparently KTP and her friends have escalated to calling me a predator again over this post, without any sort of proof or even an alleged victim, just to show you exactly how important and relevant the message of the Hot Allostatic Load essay is
They’re literally trying to do that to me now
They’re literally trying to do that to me now
Without downloading new pics, describe your gender:
Is this cheating?
Is this cheating?
November 13, 2025 at 5:40 AM
Without downloading new pics, describe your gender:
Is this cheating?
Is this cheating?
This is such a day for me to be ruminating on my trauma of being called a pedophile by a trans ex-friend who had also called another trans person a pedophile while a couple of my friends refused to even stop casually associating with them on social media for fear of backlash
November 12, 2025 at 10:37 PM
This is such a day for me to be ruminating on my trauma of being called a pedophile by a trans ex-friend who had also called another trans person a pedophile while a couple of my friends refused to even stop casually associating with them on social media for fear of backlash
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Screaming about the injustice that a trans woman still draws breath, in response to her bringing up Hot Allostatic Load is... Certainly a look.
November 11, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Screaming about the injustice that a trans woman still draws breath, in response to her bringing up Hot Allostatic Load is... Certainly a look.
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I mean, dig down deep enough, and you'll always hit TME/TMA discourse, and who gets to speak about what.
November 12, 2025 at 8:06 PM
I mean, dig down deep enough, and you'll always hit TME/TMA discourse, and who gets to speak about what.
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Also, can't help but be really fucking suspicious of somebody who loves to mulch trans women casting aspersions on an essay that talks about the harms of mulching trans women!
November 12, 2025 at 1:04 AM
Also, can't help but be really fucking suspicious of somebody who loves to mulch trans women casting aspersions on an essay that talks about the harms of mulching trans women!
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I’ve been saying that Katie Tightpussy is a danger to trans women for a long time, but now she is here explicitly trying to demonize an essay written by a trans woman that condemns how people mulch, harass, and bully trans women over minor bullshit.
It's probably not going to help anything, but I feel compelled to point out the levels of dishonesty here. "It's one thing when a trans person references [HAL] but..."
**Except that's exactly what's happening**.
Dash is replying to me, the trans woman who cited it first.
**Except that's exactly what's happening**.
Dash is replying to me, the trans woman who cited it first.
November 12, 2025 at 8:04 PM
I’ve been saying that Katie Tightpussy is a danger to trans women for a long time, but now she is here explicitly trying to demonize an essay written by a trans woman that condemns how people mulch, harass, and bully trans women over minor bullshit.