I feel like we generally have an image of manipulative men as overtly cruel, cold people when most of the times I’ve been manipulated by one it’s him saying something like “the fact you have boundaries makes me vewwy sad 🥺”
December 8, 2025 at 10:06 PM
I feel like we generally have an image of manipulative men as overtly cruel, cold people when most of the times I’ve been manipulated by one it’s him saying something like “the fact you have boundaries makes me vewwy sad 🥺”
something i often see overlooked in discourses about atomization is the extreme difficulty of getting even just two people over the age of 25's schedules to match up
December 8, 2025 at 6:56 PM
something i often see overlooked in discourses about atomization is the extreme difficulty of getting even just two people over the age of 25's schedules to match up
In August, we got a bit of extra money from a generous donor, and I used it to expand into coverage of trans life in American prisons.
This piece, by incarcerated journalist B Speaks, describes the chaos Georgia's forced detransition regime, currently halted by the courts, wreaked in one prison.
TIL, while looking through an old hard drive, that i was writing a pokemon fanfic in comic sans MS called "pocket monsters: the search for moltres" the day my partner was born...
December 6, 2025 at 9:32 PM
TIL, while looking through an old hard drive, that i was writing a pokemon fanfic in comic sans MS called "pocket monsters: the search for moltres" the day my partner was born...
i went to see kill bill with this cis girl friend who had a crush on me when it came out in 2003 and she adored it, and later she came out as a lesbian. such a frank depiction of phallic womanhood left me feeling a little cold. "that's not how it is," i thought, having no idea what i meant
December 5, 2025 at 6:44 PM
i went to see kill bill with this cis girl friend who had a crush on me when it came out in 2003 and she adored it, and later she came out as a lesbian. such a frank depiction of phallic womanhood left me feeling a little cold. "that's not how it is," i thought, having no idea what i meant
it is darkly hilarious that for years the common therapy for obsessional symptoms was CBT which is essentially the contention that you can think your way out of troubling feelings and/or block them through counteractive behaviors
December 4, 2025 at 6:09 PM
it is darkly hilarious that for years the common therapy for obsessional symptoms was CBT which is essentially the contention that you can think your way out of troubling feelings and/or block them through counteractive behaviors
it's hard to explain how cool and evil magic cards looked when they first came out in the 90s... the crude fantasy art with its skeleton guys, gnarly trolls, babes & muscledudes, the viciousness of some of the spells... its aesthetic was perfect
December 3, 2025 at 5:09 PM
it's hard to explain how cool and evil magic cards looked when they first came out in the 90s... the crude fantasy art with its skeleton guys, gnarly trolls, babes & muscledudes, the viciousness of some of the spells... its aesthetic was perfect