I came across this on one of my social feeds a few days ago and decided to post it here as a stark warning and a gentle reminder…
November 29, 2025 at 5:04 AM
I came across this on one of my social feeds a few days ago and decided to post it here as a stark warning and a gentle reminder…
The total panic attack I felt earlier this morning…😢
November 29, 2025 at 2:35 AM
The total panic attack I felt earlier this morning…😢
Very grateful that I was able to listen to that interview when BBC Sounds was still available outside the UK…
November 26, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Very grateful that I was able to listen to that interview when BBC Sounds was still available outside the UK…
Utterly shocked to hear about Pam Hogg 💔💔💔 she was best mates with Debbie Harry and Siouxsie. I remember listening to this interview before I was barely familiar with 6 Music
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p...
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p...
BBC Radio 6 Music - Making a Scene with Lauren Laverne, Siouxsie Sioux and Pam Hogg: In Full
Hear their full extended conversation in all it’s glory here.
www.bbc.co.uk
November 26, 2025 at 7:42 PM
Utterly shocked to hear about Pam Hogg 💔💔💔 she was best mates with Debbie Harry and Siouxsie. I remember listening to this interview before I was barely familiar with 6 Music
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p...
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p...
I know all of this isn’t just in my head with the constant references to 2022-2023 either. I remember when I was first blocked in 2023 on Instagram from the shock of her having a record room. It was shocking because I remember the year before she had a RSD episode from spring of 2022 & it featured
November 26, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I know all of this isn’t just in my head with the constant references to 2022-2023 either. I remember when I was first blocked in 2023 on Instagram from the shock of her having a record room. It was shocking because I remember the year before she had a RSD episode from spring of 2022 & it featured
Also, I think if anyone repeatedly ignored confrontation and hung someone out to dry, at some point, wouldn’t their patience be thin I.e., “What’s up? HELLO?”. To me, it reads like being in denial and trying to be avoidant and shifting the blame completely onto the other person for their behavior
November 26, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Also, I think if anyone repeatedly ignored confrontation and hung someone out to dry, at some point, wouldn’t their patience be thin I.e., “What’s up? HELLO?”. To me, it reads like being in denial and trying to be avoidant and shifting the blame completely onto the other person for their behavior
One last thing, she remarked a listener was (apparently) “destroyed” and cried when Sam Fender was playing. I also cried when Sam Fender was playing but I didn’t openly express that. I’m sure that wasn’t lost on her either. When the People’s “Hairy” Playlist theme was announced, my heart sank as
November 26, 2025 at 5:24 PM
One last thing, she remarked a listener was (apparently) “destroyed” and cried when Sam Fender was playing. I also cried when Sam Fender was playing but I didn’t openly express that. I’m sure that wasn’t lost on her either. When the People’s “Hairy” Playlist theme was announced, my heart sank as
Maybe if someone wasn’t, I don’t know, married, I think my anxiety and bad attitude wouldn’t exist? Maybe she should be more considerate of the circumstances and how all of this would make someone like me feel?
November 26, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Maybe if someone wasn’t, I don’t know, married, I think my anxiety and bad attitude wouldn’t exist? Maybe she should be more considerate of the circumstances and how all of this would make someone like me feel?
And yes, I picked up on the TOKiMONSTA & PARTYOF2 “Feel It” track and closing with Nightclubbing by Grace Jones. But even Nick picked up on her “running away” energy and being avoidant and in denial by playing Pharcyde after they spoke, so it’s not just me 💔
November 26, 2025 at 1:35 PM
And yes, I picked up on the TOKiMONSTA & PARTYOF2 “Feel It” track and closing with Nightclubbing by Grace Jones. But even Nick picked up on her “running away” energy and being avoidant and in denial by playing Pharcyde after they spoke, so it’s not just me 💔
On my end of things, nobody is blocked. There’s obviously indifference. I’m going to try to distance myself and give this time and space to reflect. That doesn’t mean I’m out sleeping around or looking for the love of my life, it just means I’m trying to recalibrate and figure out where
November 26, 2025 at 1:22 PM
On my end of things, nobody is blocked. There’s obviously indifference. I’m going to try to distance myself and give this time and space to reflect. That doesn’t mean I’m out sleeping around or looking for the love of my life, it just means I’m trying to recalibrate and figure out where
Thank you for not going back there and recalibrating to the Mercury Awards…if that makes sense.
November 26, 2025 at 11:58 AM
Thank you for not going back there and recalibrating to the Mercury Awards…if that makes sense.
No, I’m blocking her. This has really upset me, I don’t deserve to be treated like this and I didn’t deserve it in 2023 either, maybe I’m the one that needs space and time. Either way, I need to cool off.
November 26, 2025 at 10:47 AM
No, I’m blocking her. This has really upset me, I don’t deserve to be treated like this and I didn’t deserve it in 2023 either, maybe I’m the one that needs space and time. Either way, I need to cool off.
Do I even exist? Am I here? 💔😢
November 26, 2025 at 10:36 AM
Do I even exist? Am I here? 💔😢
And how she disappeared on BlueSky for several months and is now suddenly pretending like nothing happened during those the past several months. Really?
November 26, 2025 at 10:34 AM
And how she disappeared on BlueSky for several months and is now suddenly pretending like nothing happened during those the past several months. Really?
Really deeply hurt and to be treated this way around the holidays is just chef kiss.
November 26, 2025 at 10:23 AM
Really deeply hurt and to be treated this way around the holidays is just chef kiss.
I’m not sure why I should stay if I’m restricted? What’s the point…
November 26, 2025 at 10:17 AM
I’m not sure why I should stay if I’m restricted? What’s the point…
If you can’t block me, I did it for you. Regardless if you played The Cure’s Lovesong followed by Endless Deathless, and Broken Social Scene 💔
Why are you treating me this way…
Why are you treating me this way…
November 26, 2025 at 10:13 AM
If you can’t block me, I did it for you. Regardless if you played The Cure’s Lovesong followed by Endless Deathless, and Broken Social Scene 💔
Why are you treating me this way…
Why are you treating me this way…
And no, I didn’t obsessively comment under every post. Something has evidently happened this month and it hurts me deeply to be suddenly treated this way. Maybe I just need to give it space and time. I don’t know.
November 26, 2025 at 5:32 AM
And no, I didn’t obsessively comment under every post. Something has evidently happened this month and it hurts me deeply to be suddenly treated this way. Maybe I just need to give it space and time. I don’t know.
Crying myself to sleep. Wonderful feeling. What was the point of this morning and the past several months then…
November 26, 2025 at 4:19 AM
Crying myself to sleep. Wonderful feeling. What was the point of this morning and the past several months then…
This is so frustrating because I feel like I don’t deserve this. If it wasn’t for the shock and confusion…Maybe she’s doing some inner work and feels conflicted and needs space? And maybe my thoughts have been heavier than usual from the confusion and fear.
November 26, 2025 at 3:12 AM
This is so frustrating because I feel like I don’t deserve this. If it wasn’t for the shock and confusion…Maybe she’s doing some inner work and feels conflicted and needs space? And maybe my thoughts have been heavier than usual from the confusion and fear.
Maybe I’m nuts but I’d never allow advice from a friend, therapist, or self-help article to convince me to abandon my dreams of love esp. if I knew the feeling was mutual. Maybe that’s just me and my wild heart though. Qualities like that are rare and precious now. I wouldn’t want to lose that.
November 26, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Maybe I’m nuts but I’d never allow advice from a friend, therapist, or self-help article to convince me to abandon my dreams of love esp. if I knew the feeling was mutual. Maybe that’s just me and my wild heart though. Qualities like that are rare and precious now. I wouldn’t want to lose that.
Correction: It isn’t muted but restricted. Two different things.
November 25, 2025 at 10:53 PM
Correction: It isn’t muted but restricted. Two different things.
I was listening to Endless Deathless by Just Mustard earlier and really love their sound. I’m not surprised their opening for The Cure at all. Very reminiscent of The Cranes but with a polished late-80s and early-90s shoegaze/dream-pop sound.
November 25, 2025 at 10:10 PM
I was listening to Endless Deathless by Just Mustard earlier and really love their sound. I’m not surprised their opening for The Cure at all. Very reminiscent of The Cranes but with a polished late-80s and early-90s shoegaze/dream-pop sound.
I think if you mute someone on Instagram, they can’t see your comments but you can still see theirs. I’ll have to find someone that has an Instagram account to find out for sure. That’s really insensitive if so esp. after all this time and all the nice compliments and interactions I left…
November 25, 2025 at 9:40 PM
I think if you mute someone on Instagram, they can’t see your comments but you can still see theirs. I’ll have to find someone that has an Instagram account to find out for sure. That’s really insensitive if so esp. after all this time and all the nice compliments and interactions I left…