Bex (not that kind of dr)
@bexilla.bsky.social
Non(currently) researching biology/genetics post-doc, cyclist, competitive shuffleboard player. trans dyke to watch out for she/her🏳️⚧️
I keep forgetting post shift posts are afternoon posts if you’re west of amsterdam
November 12, 2025 at 1:19 AM
I keep forgetting post shift posts are afternoon posts if you’re west of amsterdam
Oddly, one of my biggest regrets is that i really wish i had skipped mandatory chem lab in college to help record/engineer waxahatchee for live radio (would have failed the ciurse if u skipped as it turns out. Still i regret it)
November 12, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Oddly, one of my biggest regrets is that i really wish i had skipped mandatory chem lab in college to help record/engineer waxahatchee for live radio (would have failed the ciurse if u skipped as it turns out. Still i regret it)
I don’t think any of my followers are scientist but if you know anyone hiring for biology post docs/biotech in the netherlands lmk. Been here fir a while and still can’t find a full time science job (i’m bartending part time)
October 31, 2025 at 7:17 PM
I don’t think any of my followers are scientist but if you know anyone hiring for biology post docs/biotech in the netherlands lmk. Been here fir a while and still can’t find a full time science job (i’m bartending part time)
Getting back on my swords bullshit this week. Gonna build a pell and get back to structured practice. Meyer squares with no target just aren’t cutting it
October 21, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Getting back on my swords bullshit this week. Gonna build a pell and get back to structured practice. Meyer squares with no target just aren’t cutting it
Unsolicited lambic pic
October 12, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Unsolicited lambic pic
I know it’s small potatoes compared to what’s going on but it’s awful how half the job listings on a search for “post doc stem cells” or similar are jus AI training gigs
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
September 24, 2025 at 12:52 PM
I know it’s small potatoes compared to what’s going on but it’s awful how half the job listings on a search for “post doc stem cells” or similar are jus AI training gigs
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
I get a lot of unrelated jobs/companies in my postdoc searches
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
September 16, 2025 at 1:47 PM
I get a lot of unrelated jobs/companies in my postdoc searches
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
I know it’s ingrained but after working at a bar fir a bit. EVERYBODY. Orders NA stuff. No guilt nevessary. We love serving it
August 1, 2025 at 5:39 PM
I know it’s ingrained but after working at a bar fir a bit. EVERYBODY. Orders NA stuff. No guilt nevessary. We love serving it
The birds in my backyard have it out for me. One just shit ON MY PHONE while i was out there. What did i do to deserve this
August 1, 2025 at 12:26 PM
The birds in my backyard have it out for me. One just shit ON MY PHONE while i was out there. What did i do to deserve this
Some nights working the bar is just work and some nights it’s wonderful
Tonight was the second type
Tonight was the second type
July 28, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Some nights working the bar is just work and some nights it’s wonderful
Tonight was the second type
Tonight was the second type
How wack is it to go to a fancy wedding with a day old tattoo on your arm?
July 24, 2025 at 4:03 PM
How wack is it to go to a fancy wedding with a day old tattoo on your arm?
Vocal confit
Vocal sous vide
vocal butter poach
July 24, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Vocal confit
New profile pic: bartendin’
July 20, 2025 at 11:31 AM
New profile pic: bartendin’
A lot had lead up to this (really really liking various small feminine experiments etc) but the final crack came when i heard the rewritten version of against me!’s pretty girls (replacing “irresponsibility” with “gender identity”)
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
TRANS WOMEN OF BLUESKY:
What was your egg cracking moment?
When did you know you were trans? What made you realize?
And did you know you were a woman right away, or did you pass through other identities first
What was your egg cracking moment?
When did you know you were trans? What made you realize?
And did you know you were a woman right away, or did you pass through other identities first
July 15, 2025 at 2:01 PM
A lot had lead up to this (really really liking various small feminine experiments etc) but the final crack came when i heard the rewritten version of against me!’s pretty girls (replacing “irresponsibility” with “gender identity”)
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
Great news from last night, the newest hire where i bartend is also trans femme! Love working at a queer bar
July 12, 2025 at 9:39 AM
Great news from last night, the newest hire where i bartend is also trans femme! Love working at a queer bar
Fun recent project: listening to all the records i took with me back to back in alphabetical order. Currently on B for Bowie
July 3, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Fun recent project: listening to all the records i took with me back to back in alphabetical order. Currently on B for Bowie
Officially a dutch resident now. Nice to have an ID document not currently subjected to transphobic maneuvering
July 3, 2025 at 12:44 PM
Officially a dutch resident now. Nice to have an ID document not currently subjected to transphobic maneuvering
It’s strange working tonight at a queer bar that’s empty b/c it’s not yet pride here knowing y’all are going wild in nyc
June 28, 2025 at 10:53 PM
It’s strange working tonight at a queer bar that’s empty b/c it’s not yet pride here knowing y’all are going wild in nyc
Living through a replay of what radicalized you in the first place is shitty as all hell
No goddamn war now or ever
No goddamn war now or ever
June 22, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Living through a replay of what radicalized you in the first place is shitty as all hell
No goddamn war now or ever
No goddamn war now or ever
Love to be so depressed by what’s being done to trans people that the only thing i can leave the house for is work
June 20, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Love to be so depressed by what’s being done to trans people that the only thing i can leave the house for is work
Small moment of joy amid the horrors: had my first sword workout since my move, and i had no idea how much i missed them
June 18, 2025 at 11:57 AM
Small moment of joy amid the horrors: had my first sword workout since my move, and i had no idea how much i missed them
Hardest part of living here as a bight gremlin: sun doesn’t set until 10 or later
May 31, 2025 at 4:18 PM
Hardest part of living here as a bight gremlin: sun doesn’t set until 10 or later
I was prepared for dutch directness but a fertility clinic stating openly “we don’t treat lesbians” is something else entirely
I have no publishable thoughts on this
I have no publishable thoughts on this
May 12, 2025 at 12:00 PM
I was prepared for dutch directness but a fertility clinic stating openly “we don’t treat lesbians” is something else entirely
I have no publishable thoughts on this
I have no publishable thoughts on this
As someone who was raised catholic, i really wish i could find an italian beef in amsterdam rn
May 9, 2025 at 11:23 AM
As someone who was raised catholic, i really wish i could find an italian beef in amsterdam rn