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bexilla.bsky.social
Bex (not that kind of dr)
@bexilla.bsky.social
Non(currently) researching biology/genetics post-doc, cyclist, competitive shuffleboard player. trans dyke to watch out for she/her🏳️‍⚧️
I keep forgetting post shift posts are afternoon posts if you’re west of amsterdam
November 12, 2025 at 1:19 AM
Oddly, one of my biggest regrets is that i really wish i had skipped mandatory chem lab in college to help record/engineer waxahatchee for live radio (would have failed the ciurse if u skipped as it turns out. Still i regret it)
November 12, 2025 at 1:17 AM
I don’t think any of my followers are scientist but if you know anyone hiring for biology post docs/biotech in the netherlands lmk. Been here fir a while and still can’t find a full time science job (i’m bartending part time)
October 31, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Getting back on my swords bullshit this week. Gonna build a pell and get back to structured practice. Meyer squares with no target just aren’t cutting it
October 21, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Unsolicited lambic pic
October 12, 2025 at 12:06 AM
I know it’s small potatoes compared to what’s going on but it’s awful how half the job listings on a search for “post doc stem cells” or similar are jus AI training gigs

I have so many skills but no one is hiring for that
September 24, 2025 at 12:52 PM
I get a lot of unrelated jobs/companies in my postdoc searches

This one is a bit different than the others (maybe someone should let them know)
September 16, 2025 at 1:47 PM
I know it’s ingrained but after working at a bar fir a bit. EVERYBODY. Orders NA stuff. No guilt nevessary. We love serving it
August 1, 2025 at 5:39 PM
The birds in my backyard have it out for me. One just shit ON MY PHONE while i was out there. What did i do to deserve this
August 1, 2025 at 12:26 PM
Some nights working the bar is just work and some nights it’s wonderful

Tonight was the second type
July 28, 2025 at 1:02 AM
How wack is it to go to a fancy wedding with a day old tattoo on your arm?
July 24, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Vocal confit
July 24, 2025 at 3:43 PM
New profile pic: bartendin’
July 20, 2025 at 11:31 AM
A lot had lead up to this (really really liking various small feminine experiments etc) but the final crack came when i heard the rewritten version of against me!’s pretty girls (replacing “irresponsibility” with “gender identity”)
I was like ohhhh this song alway hit me but now i know why
TRANS WOMEN OF BLUESKY:

What was your egg cracking moment?

When did you know you were trans? What made you realize?

And did you know you were a woman right away, or did you pass through other identities first
July 15, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Great news from last night, the newest hire where i bartend is also trans femme! Love working at a queer bar
July 12, 2025 at 9:39 AM
Fun recent project: listening to all the records i took with me back to back in alphabetical order. Currently on B for Bowie
July 3, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Officially a dutch resident now. Nice to have an ID document not currently subjected to transphobic maneuvering
July 3, 2025 at 12:44 PM
It’s strange working tonight at a queer bar that’s empty b/c it’s not yet pride here knowing y’all are going wild in nyc
June 28, 2025 at 10:53 PM
Living through a replay of what radicalized you in the first place is shitty as all hell

No goddamn war now or ever
June 22, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Love to be so depressed by what’s being done to trans people that the only thing i can leave the house for is work
June 20, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Small moment of joy amid the horrors: had my first sword workout since my move, and i had no idea how much i missed them
June 18, 2025 at 11:57 AM
Hardest part of living here as a bight gremlin: sun doesn’t set until 10 or later
May 31, 2025 at 4:18 PM
Boymoding
May 29, 2025 at 11:54 AM
I was prepared for dutch directness but a fertility clinic stating openly “we don’t treat lesbians” is something else entirely

I have no publishable thoughts on this
May 12, 2025 at 12:00 PM
As someone who was raised catholic, i really wish i could find an italian beef in amsterdam rn
May 9, 2025 at 11:23 AM