Heather Joelle Boneparth
@averagejoelle.bsky.social
Writer x Lawyer x Mom
Helping couples talk about money
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I don’t really know what I’m doing on here, which would make me nervous except I survived uploading 7,000 sorority pics in the early aughts of Facebook, so I’m pretty sure I’ll be ok.
Money Together, our new book, enters the world today.
It’s also the 100th post in The Joint Account, which I swear to you, was an unplanned surprise.
So in the spirit of milestones and the importance of communication, @dougboneparth.bsky.social and I asked each other some questions. Enjoy. 👇👇👇
It’s also the 100th post in The Joint Account, which I swear to you, was an unplanned surprise.
So in the spirit of milestones and the importance of communication, @dougboneparth.bsky.social and I asked each other some questions. Enjoy. 👇👇👇
October 28, 2025 at 3:11 PM
Money Together, our new book, enters the world today.
It’s also the 100th post in The Joint Account, which I swear to you, was an unplanned surprise.
So in the spirit of milestones and the importance of communication, @dougboneparth.bsky.social and I asked each other some questions. Enjoy. 👇👇👇
It’s also the 100th post in The Joint Account, which I swear to you, was an unplanned surprise.
So in the spirit of milestones and the importance of communication, @dougboneparth.bsky.social and I asked each other some questions. Enjoy. 👇👇👇
Sorry, kids. Halloween is cancelled.
October 26, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Sorry, kids. Halloween is cancelled.
PODCASTERS: We’ve been on the circuit recording before our new book, Money Together, launches next week 🤩.
We’ve got the finance crowd covered.
But what about the love, family, parenting, and relationships spaces?
We belong there, too!
We’ve got the finance crowd covered.
But what about the love, family, parenting, and relationships spaces?
We belong there, too!
October 24, 2025 at 12:36 AM
PODCASTERS: We’ve been on the circuit recording before our new book, Money Together, launches next week 🤩.
We’ve got the finance crowd covered.
But what about the love, family, parenting, and relationships spaces?
We belong there, too!
We’ve got the finance crowd covered.
But what about the love, family, parenting, and relationships spaces?
We belong there, too!
Well, sorry it’s not under better circumstances than ranting about the skyrocketing costs of healthcare, BUT…
I’m in The Cut for the first time today, sharing my thoughts on why we’re seeing what we’re seeing this open enrollment season.
www.thecut.com/article/heal...
I’m in The Cut for the first time today, sharing my thoughts on why we’re seeing what we’re seeing this open enrollment season.
www.thecut.com/article/heal...
Get Ready to Pay Even More for Health Insurance
Yes, premiums increase every year. But not like this.
www.thecut.com
October 23, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Well, sorry it’s not under better circumstances than ranting about the skyrocketing costs of healthcare, BUT…
I’m in The Cut for the first time today, sharing my thoughts on why we’re seeing what we’re seeing this open enrollment season.
www.thecut.com/article/heal...
I’m in The Cut for the first time today, sharing my thoughts on why we’re seeing what we’re seeing this open enrollment season.
www.thecut.com/article/heal...
Your girl’s article was “above the fold” in yesterday’s CNBC Make It newsletter!
And by above the fold, I mean, Jim Cramer lol.
No but really, I am so freaking grateful for all the love Money Together is receiving already.
10/28’s the day! Have you preordered yet?
www.cnbc.com/amp/2025/10/...
And by above the fold, I mean, Jim Cramer lol.
No but really, I am so freaking grateful for all the love Money Together is receiving already.
10/28’s the day! Have you preordered yet?
www.cnbc.com/amp/2025/10/...
The most successful couples never let these 5 money mistakes ruin their relationship, says expert
"You can love each other deeply and still allow money to erode your relationship if you're talking about the wrong issues, or not talking at all," writes money expert Heather Boneparth.
www.cnbc.com
October 23, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Your girl’s article was “above the fold” in yesterday’s CNBC Make It newsletter!
And by above the fold, I mean, Jim Cramer lol.
No but really, I am so freaking grateful for all the love Money Together is receiving already.
10/28’s the day! Have you preordered yet?
www.cnbc.com/amp/2025/10/...
And by above the fold, I mean, Jim Cramer lol.
No but really, I am so freaking grateful for all the love Money Together is receiving already.
10/28’s the day! Have you preordered yet?
www.cnbc.com/amp/2025/10/...
This says everything about where tween culture is right now:
October 22, 2025 at 11:55 AM
This says everything about where tween culture is right now:
Time is our greatest currency.
October 22, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Time is our greatest currency.
Praise from colleagues is nice, but as an author, nothing feels more meaningful than hearing from those whose stories you were privileged enough to share.
This is starting to happen, and I am beside myself with humility and gratitude. Wow.
This is starting to happen, and I am beside myself with humility and gratitude. Wow.
October 21, 2025 at 2:00 AM
Praise from colleagues is nice, but as an author, nothing feels more meaningful than hearing from those whose stories you were privileged enough to share.
This is starting to happen, and I am beside myself with humility and gratitude. Wow.
This is starting to happen, and I am beside myself with humility and gratitude. Wow.
People keep asking us what “fair” means in the context of relationships.
Well, it looks something like this.
(He REALLY wanted to be a Saja Boy. I waddled around all night in a 20 lb wig and latex shorts better suited for a fictional K-Pop star. Because I love him.)
Well, it looks something like this.
(He REALLY wanted to be a Saja Boy. I waddled around all night in a 20 lb wig and latex shorts better suited for a fictional K-Pop star. Because I love him.)
October 18, 2025 at 1:55 PM
People keep asking us what “fair” means in the context of relationships.
Well, it looks something like this.
(He REALLY wanted to be a Saja Boy. I waddled around all night in a 20 lb wig and latex shorts better suited for a fictional K-Pop star. Because I love him.)
Well, it looks something like this.
(He REALLY wanted to be a Saja Boy. I waddled around all night in a 20 lb wig and latex shorts better suited for a fictional K-Pop star. Because I love him.)
Humbled and honored to share that I am in remission from imposter syndrome.
October 16, 2025 at 11:15 PM
Humbled and honored to share that I am in remission from imposter syndrome.
Equity in the world begins with equity at home.
Let me show you.
Money Together arrives 10/28, but now’s the time to pre-order from your favorite bookstore.
Let me show you.
Money Together arrives 10/28, but now’s the time to pre-order from your favorite bookstore.
October 16, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Equity in the world begins with equity at home.
Let me show you.
Money Together arrives 10/28, but now’s the time to pre-order from your favorite bookstore.
Let me show you.
Money Together arrives 10/28, but now’s the time to pre-order from your favorite bookstore.
After spending two years interviewing couples about money, I can state with confidence that no one looks back wishing they put another 10 hours a week into their jobs. It’s quite the opposite.
We hold onto how we cared, and who cared for us.
We hold onto how we cared, and who cared for us.
June 5, 2025 at 11:56 AM
After spending two years interviewing couples about money, I can state with confidence that no one looks back wishing they put another 10 hours a week into their jobs. It’s quite the opposite.
We hold onto how we cared, and who cared for us.
We hold onto how we cared, and who cared for us.
It’s May.
Our book is due soon. Kids are busy. Firm is beyond busy.
We fell a little off the wagon.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth shares some tips on staying the course (or as he puts it, “staying regular” 🥴)
www.readthejointaccount.com/p/staying-re...
Our book is due soon. Kids are busy. Firm is beyond busy.
We fell a little off the wagon.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth shares some tips on staying the course (or as he puts it, “staying regular” 🥴)
www.readthejointaccount.com/p/staying-re...
Staying regular
Tips for never missing another money meeting with your partner.
www.readthejointaccount.com
May 14, 2025 at 2:49 PM
It’s May.
Our book is due soon. Kids are busy. Firm is beyond busy.
We fell a little off the wagon.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth shares some tips on staying the course (or as he puts it, “staying regular” 🥴)
www.readthejointaccount.com/p/staying-re...
Our book is due soon. Kids are busy. Firm is beyond busy.
We fell a little off the wagon.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth shares some tips on staying the course (or as he puts it, “staying regular” 🥴)
www.readthejointaccount.com/p/staying-re...
MAYCEMBER.
It’s a gauntlet for parents and our kids.
For @SheKnows, I wrote about the burdens this insane busy season places on our brains AND our wallets.
Check it out 👇
www.sheknows.com/parenting/ar...
It’s a gauntlet for parents and our kids.
For @SheKnows, I wrote about the burdens this insane busy season places on our brains AND our wallets.
Check it out 👇
www.sheknows.com/parenting/ar...
'Maycember' Is Maxing Moms Out — Emotionally & Financially
Maycember: When the calendar Is full and the bank account is empty.
www.sheknows.com
May 6, 2025 at 2:31 PM
MAYCEMBER.
It’s a gauntlet for parents and our kids.
For @SheKnows, I wrote about the burdens this insane busy season places on our brains AND our wallets.
Check it out 👇
www.sheknows.com/parenting/ar...
It’s a gauntlet for parents and our kids.
For @SheKnows, I wrote about the burdens this insane busy season places on our brains AND our wallets.
Check it out 👇
www.sheknows.com/parenting/ar...
Take Your Child To Work Day is as important for the workplace as it is for our children.
In a world with little-to-no bifurcation, where we are constantly “on” or expected to be, the more we normalize showing our full lives at work, the more we foster environments that support families.
In a world with little-to-no bifurcation, where we are constantly “on” or expected to be, the more we normalize showing our full lives at work, the more we foster environments that support families.
April 24, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Take Your Child To Work Day is as important for the workplace as it is for our children.
In a world with little-to-no bifurcation, where we are constantly “on” or expected to be, the more we normalize showing our full lives at work, the more we foster environments that support families.
In a world with little-to-no bifurcation, where we are constantly “on” or expected to be, the more we normalize showing our full lives at work, the more we foster environments that support families.
I know you’re all stressed about economic world order, but my husband is emceeing the school fundraiser tonight and plans to open with a cyber truck joke. Keep me in your prayers.
April 5, 2025 at 12:06 PM
I know you’re all stressed about economic world order, but my husband is emceeing the school fundraiser tonight and plans to open with a cyber truck joke. Keep me in your prayers.
The best part about April Fools’ Day is learning what everyone else thinks is actually funny.
April 1, 2025 at 1:38 PM
The best part about April Fools’ Day is learning what everyone else thinks is actually funny.
Friends & Family Sales:
We Are Putting Everything On Sale Except The Things You Want!
We Are Putting Everything On Sale Except The Things You Want!
March 27, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Friends & Family Sales:
We Are Putting Everything On Sale Except The Things You Want!
We Are Putting Everything On Sale Except The Things You Want!
Find yourself a partner - a business partner, a life partner - who is willing to use their larger platform to elevate yours.
March 25, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Find yourself a partner - a business partner, a life partner - who is willing to use their larger platform to elevate yours.
If you think THIS isn’t a thing anymore, think again.
People (esp women) are still checked out of their household finances.
I know it. I see it. I live it every day.
This week’s Q&A offers perspective on why and what you can do to reengage your partner.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
People (esp women) are still checked out of their household finances.
I know it. I see it. I live it every day.
This week’s Q&A offers perspective on why and what you can do to reengage your partner.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
Q&A: I've tried everything to get my wife more involved with our finances. How can I get her to the table?
A new reader question on The Joint Account.
open.substack.com
March 11, 2025 at 4:33 PM
If you think THIS isn’t a thing anymore, think again.
People (esp women) are still checked out of their household finances.
I know it. I see it. I live it every day.
This week’s Q&A offers perspective on why and what you can do to reengage your partner.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
People (esp women) are still checked out of their household finances.
I know it. I see it. I live it every day.
This week’s Q&A offers perspective on why and what you can do to reengage your partner.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
Me after my three closest friends and mom preorder our book:
March 7, 2025 at 11:56 AM
Me after my three closest friends and mom preorder our book:
Our book has a new cover, and let me tell you, selecting the colors was no easy task for a book meant for women AND men AND couples of all sexual orientations.
I think we did it! Though my UMich friends continue to dig that I’ve jumped ship on my own team.
I think we did it! Though my UMich friends continue to dig that I’ve jumped ship on my own team.
March 7, 2025 at 11:53 AM
Our book has a new cover, and let me tell you, selecting the colors was no easy task for a book meant for women AND men AND couples of all sexual orientations.
I think we did it! Though my UMich friends continue to dig that I’ve jumped ship on my own team.
I think we did it! Though my UMich friends continue to dig that I’ve jumped ship on my own team.
Me watching my girlfriend absolutely slay an outfit we’ve been talking about for three weeks:
March 3, 2025 at 9:54 PM
Me watching my girlfriend absolutely slay an outfit we’ve been talking about for three weeks:
They say *love is blind.*
But your finances shouldn’t be!
In this week’s TJA, I share 6 red flags I’ve ID’ed through my time interviewing couples about love and money.
It’s a juicy one!
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
But your finances shouldn’t be!
In this week’s TJA, I share 6 red flags I’ve ID’ed through my time interviewing couples about love and money.
It’s a juicy one!
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
Six financial red flags you can't afford to ignore
And they're not about budgeting!
open.substack.com
February 26, 2025 at 1:38 PM
They say *love is blind.*
But your finances shouldn’t be!
In this week’s TJA, I share 6 red flags I’ve ID’ed through my time interviewing couples about love and money.
It’s a juicy one!
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
But your finances shouldn’t be!
In this week’s TJA, I share 6 red flags I’ve ID’ed through my time interviewing couples about love and money.
It’s a juicy one!
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
WFH is a double-edged sword, but there’s (almost) no way I’d give it up at this moment in our lives.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth.bsky.social helps readers figure out just how valuable WFH is (or isn’t) to you.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth.bsky.social helps readers figure out just how valuable WFH is (or isn’t) to you.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
Q&A: Should I take a pay cut to keep working from home?
A new reader question on The Joint Account.
open.substack.com
February 19, 2025 at 2:02 PM
WFH is a double-edged sword, but there’s (almost) no way I’d give it up at this moment in our lives.
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth.bsky.social helps readers figure out just how valuable WFH is (or isn’t) to you.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...
In this week’s TJA, @dougboneparth.bsky.social helps readers figure out just how valuable WFH is (or isn’t) to you.
open.substack.com/pub/thejoint...